"In my previous article on the human mating dance, I have laid out my hypothesis, that in humans, women are the proactive gender when it comes to sex. "
Btw - do not read this incorrectly - do NOT have sex with passed out young women at parties. Don't do it for all sorts of reasons. Not least legal reasons.
Female hypoagency, Mattyanon's version: Women are adept at avoiding responsibility and this causes them to persuade men that women should never be held responsible for anything, ever. Everything is always a man's fault, and when a woman is at fault it is because a man made her do it.
Hypoagency is a huge art of women's power. Its a win win -a sex which is more anxious has less responsibility to be anxious about and it also means you get free shit. I think there is a grain of truth in it and a huge amount of myth that women have carefully spun and curated for millennia.
As red pill men we need to hold women as a sex to account for the pretend hypoagency. We also have to accept that to an extent it is just they way they like to interact with men and it may even be slightly hard wired in to them and that if we want personal interactions with them we cannot be constantly holding them to account and have to play along with it a bit.
Two recent conversations with women in my household that illustrate this;
My daughter continually complains (for about a year now) that her boyfriend wouldn't hurry up and ask her out. At no point does she seem to entertain it would have been possible for her to have done the asking. She would have just backed off and let him go if it had taken a few months longer, yet they really liked each other and I had seen they would be an item from the day I first asked him to look after her somewhere about 3 years ago. She even checked with me I thought it was Ok before she gave him a final prod to ask her. They know what they want but they also want a curated life.
My lady and I were quarrelling and I said "the trouble is you want a man to lead you where you want to go" She said "Of course! That is what all women want!" I replied "Thing is leaders listen to what you think, give it consideration and then lead you where they think its right to go. That may not be where you or they actually want to go., its where they think its best for the overall picture" She just doesn't feel she has agency unless I do the leg work but I can't see it being right to do legwork I think is not always right or appropriate. Her idea of a leader is a tour guide. Hypoagency leads to back her wanting to be a back seat driver.
redpillschool Admin 2d ago
"In my previous article on the human mating dance, I have laid out my hypothesis, that in humans, women are the proactive gender when it comes to sex. "
This guy has some fresh ideas, worth a read.
StrongWoman 2d ago
I have no idea what he is trying to say. What is it with these fake stories at the beginning?
Lone_Ranger 3 2d ago
very interesting.
Btw - do not read this incorrectly - do NOT have sex with passed out young women at parties. Don't do it for all sorts of reasons. Not least legal reasons.
redpillschool Admin 2d ago
Correct. This is the wrong way to have sex.
mattyanon Admin 1d ago
Female hypoagency, Mattyanon's version: Women are adept at avoiding responsibility and this causes them to persuade men that women should never be held responsible for anything, ever. Everything is always a man's fault, and when a woman is at fault it is because a man made her do it.
First-light 2 1d ago
Hypoagency is a huge art of women's power. Its a win win -a sex which is more anxious has less responsibility to be anxious about and it also means you get free shit. I think there is a grain of truth in it and a huge amount of myth that women have carefully spun and curated for millennia.
As red pill men we need to hold women as a sex to account for the pretend hypoagency. We also have to accept that to an extent it is just they way they like to interact with men and it may even be slightly hard wired in to them and that if we want personal interactions with them we cannot be constantly holding them to account and have to play along with it a bit.
Two recent conversations with women in my household that illustrate this; My daughter continually complains (for about a year now) that her boyfriend wouldn't hurry up and ask her out. At no point does she seem to entertain it would have been possible for her to have done the asking. She would have just backed off and let him go if it had taken a few months longer, yet they really liked each other and I had seen they would be an item from the day I first asked him to look after her somewhere about 3 years ago. She even checked with me I thought it was Ok before she gave him a final prod to ask her. They know what they want but they also want a curated life.
My lady and I were quarrelling and I said "the trouble is you want a man to lead you where you want to go" She said "Of course! That is what all women want!" I replied "Thing is leaders listen to what you think, give it consideration and then lead you where they think its right to go. That may not be where you or they actually want to go., its where they think its best for the overall picture" She just doesn't feel she has agency unless I do the leg work but I can't see it being right to do legwork I think is not always right or appropriate. Her idea of a leader is a tour guide. Hypoagency leads to back her wanting to be a back seat driver.