I was told on my face by women and Frauenvesteher (woman-understander : a german word for men who stand up in women's defense inventing reasons to excuse their behavior) and women alike - that I happen to be a nice guy for the backburner, I will never take risks, such as go skydiving...
I had been a licensed sport parachutist at that point. That means, I dont have to go skydiving on tandem as most people do. I can do it on my own.
Current status: Before the pandemic, I'd have needed approx 20 more jumps I'll get my 200 completed and jump anywhere I wish subject to legal restrictions. I have not jumped throughout the pandemic and afterwards, and thus will have to go through refreshers and stuff.
Anyway back to the story: Once I mention that i actually am a licensed sports parachutist, these Frauenversteher and women of course go full attack mode. The frauenversther go "tee-hee - you are an incel", and the women go "tee-hee who hurt you, what do you need to prove"
Reason of mentioning this here : I dont think "not taking risk" is a good metric here. We take risks, but the risks need to be sufficiently rewarding.
You might want to ask, why aren't we then continuously doing all these games and stuff. Asking women out mechanically gets tiring. The continuous judgement takes a toll, and the reward becomes diminishing.
agreed. the young guys I know, including my sons, they are aware of RP.
A lot of guys don't seem interested in dating women. Honestly can't blame them in today's market in USA. The girls aren't worth they headache/effort.
some of the guys state they are focusing on career and such and will get back into the game when they hit 30's. Disagree with that strongly, first, don't understand how they can control not bustin a nut on a girl once in awhile. Second, they aren't learning the game. So, when they try to start the game in their 30's, they are going to seem like idiots to girls who've been playing the game for a decade or more.
men all over the world are slowly waking up. This is what they mean when they talk about the s1mp shortage.
Nice guys finish last is a trope that started in the 1950s. Now we know that nice guys don't finish at all. They get crushed. Don't fall for the romantic nonsense - you'll end up as a victim.
sean_karaya 1y ago
I told the story elsewhere in this forum.
I was told on my face by women and Frauenvesteher (woman-understander : a german word for men who stand up in women's defense inventing reasons to excuse their behavior) and women alike - that I happen to be a nice guy for the backburner, I will never take risks, such as go skydiving...
I had been a licensed sport parachutist at that point. That means, I dont have to go skydiving on tandem as most people do. I can do it on my own.
Current status: Before the pandemic, I'd have needed approx 20 more jumps I'll get my 200 completed and jump anywhere I wish subject to legal restrictions. I have not jumped throughout the pandemic and afterwards, and thus will have to go through refreshers and stuff.
Anyway back to the story: Once I mention that i actually am a licensed sports parachutist, these Frauenversteher and women of course go full attack mode. The frauenversther go "tee-hee - you are an incel", and the women go "tee-hee who hurt you, what do you need to prove"
Reason of mentioning this here : I dont think "not taking risk" is a good metric here. We take risks, but the risks need to be sufficiently rewarding.
You might want to ask, why aren't we then continuously doing all these games and stuff. Asking women out mechanically gets tiring. The continuous judgement takes a toll, and the reward becomes diminishing.
That's why.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
That cat is out of the bag and it's never going back in
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
agreed. the young guys I know, including my sons, they are aware of RP.
A lot of guys don't seem interested in dating women. Honestly can't blame them in today's market in USA. The girls aren't worth they headache/effort.
some of the guys state they are focusing on career and such and will get back into the game when they hit 30's. Disagree with that strongly, first, don't understand how they can control not bustin a nut on a girl once in awhile. Second, they aren't learning the game. So, when they try to start the game in their 30's, they are going to seem like idiots to girls who've been playing the game for a decade or more.
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
men all over the world are slowly waking up. This is what they mean when they talk about the s1mp shortage.
Nice guys finish last is a trope that started in the 1950s. Now we know that nice guys don't finish at all. They get crushed. Don't fall for the romantic nonsense - you'll end up as a victim.
I wish good things to all brothers.
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
Just wait until the election cycle is over and red pill gets revisited by the mainstream...
oowiw 1y ago
What's red pill and the mainstream got to do with the election cycle?
whytehorse2021 1y ago
All the grifters float to whatever is the hot topic. It's elections right now. After that it will swing back to red pill.