"You shouldn't objectify women, they are not mere objects."
Yeah I know. We probably shouldn't objectify anyone.
But you have these tiktok influencers posting their clips online, dressing like a slut in the gym, then they film it, and say anybody that looks at them is a pervert (that can do emotional damage to them).
So she dresses really provocatively, and I should respectfully look away?
But the whole reason they dress that way is to show off and attract opposite sex's attention...
I don't mind dealing with women "respectfully." I really don't. As a matter of fact, I think anybody that deals with anyone should be conducted in a respectful manner.
And I know, not every single woman on Earth is an attention-whore, who just can't get satiated by exposure and attention. I understand. Some women are attention-seeking, and some are not. So I only need to find those "non-attention-seeking women" and make them my girlfriends.
So people are different. That's the conclusion.
Don't objectify women, but when they do objectify themselves, you should probably objectify them as well.
If they seek hell, give them hell.

orbilius 3y ago
“Objectification” means that you stop seeing her as a person. It’s a myth invented by misandrist feminists that men think this way.
When you find a woman attractive do you stop believing she’s a person? No. Of course not!
As you point out, women advertise themselves through their sexuality - they don’t approach us and say, “I offer you femininity” they say only “I offer you sex” - thats them presenting themselves as an object.
But even then, normal healthy men see them as people. What we want (especially in 2023) is feminine women - ie a person.
RedPirate751 3y ago
This is 100% true. I'm attracted by a woman's physical appearance, but it's who she is as a person that will make me want to spend more time with her.
I've noticed that the women who get really upset about the objectification thing are inevitably the type that very few people find physically attractive. The gym influencers who pretend to be offended are only doing that because it raises their social status. I can't imagine many, if any, of them are consciously aware of this.
Lone_Ranger 3 3y ago
best post of the week. I appreciate the clarity of thought!
Women who objectify themselves aren't actually complaining when they rail against men that objectify them - they are drawing attention to how succesful they were at objectifying themselves. Its a form of humble bragging.
The current issue of thots thirst trapping on video in gyms is a great example. The only thing that angers a thirst trapping thot is when she gets all dolled up in her outfit and make up and the guys at the gym ignore her. When a guy glances her way (even by accident) she gets so excited, because somebody is playing her game of objectification.
Its so messed up.
EugeneRider 3y ago
Yeah, that's biggest lie I have ever heard. "I offer you sex." literally means you objectify yourself as a mere tool for sex. They don't see the irony here? You're objectifying yourself, lady!
We want women, people that we can talk to, form a bond with.
"But I give you sex."
Come on man... that's literally self-objectification 101. They're capping.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
From all the times women have used me as a dildo or guy to sexually validate themselves on I feel justified doing the same