24 year old male here.
Growing up I was a very shy, obese kid, with low self esteem. In the last two years I've done a lot to change that. Had a lot of realizations about life when I started watching the same RP YouTubers we all watch. I'm very well groomed, great shape, and I'm about to finish my Masters in Finance (already have a fantastic job lined up!)
In the past year I've had several girls show a lot of interest in me but I was very insecure about the fact that I was 23 and never dated or kissed a girl and I didn't really give them a chance. Recently, I met a girl in passing in the graduate school lounge. She somehow found me on Instagram and added me.
One thing led to another, we went on a date together where we had dinner and explored downtown and I had a lot of fun. Ended up having my first kiss with her that night.
She asked me to go to her place to have dinner and drinks on Friday, and judging by the situation I think it's obvious there's a chance sex could be a part of the picture. If one thing leads to another, should I tell her this is my first time? Should I just try to be confident about it and play it off? How would you approach this.
aweawea_ 1y ago
I am 26, and i've only had sex with 4 escorts. Currently in the process of getting better at dating so i get a chance to have some bedroom fun with someone who genuinely likes me.
But after studying female nature, which also necessitates exploring male nature and your own, i am now very confident in where my sexuality stands and i know i want to lead and dominate and i think most women want that too. But i cannot give you the firm advice that you should try to do this in this situation.
But i can tell you, even escorts expected me to be dominant and couldn't hide a certain level of disappointment because i look good and i think they expected it.
I used their services just to see whats what and relax a bit and clear a bit of the anxiety surrounding sex, but i know i am different now and i feel like using the male physical superiority and dominating is very useful, fun and stimulating for both parties.
Hesitation and passiveness only seems to hurt my interactions when i couldn't muster better in the past.
Maybe this helps you.
benzino 1y ago
Yes
Only if you performed badly but do not say it before you had sex
redpillschool Admin 1y ago
Agreed. Don't set her up for a bad time
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah, just come up with an excuse to see her bedroom, escalate, put your dick in her, cum, etc. Simple really.
redpillschool Admin 1y ago
Wrap it up
whytehorse2021 1y ago
ew, it doesn't count if you don't exchange bodily fluids.
Impressive-Cricket-8 1y ago
Just do it. If her hygiene is up to date, add going down on her to the foreplay - it's always a good idea to make sure she comes at least once before you get to the entrée. If she mentions anything about your performance, or if you feel compelled to do so for any reason, just mention that you don't have much experience.
dongking 1y ago
Hard disagree. Never go down on a girl with the purpose of making her cum. Go down on her because you enjoy it.
Also OP I recommend that you do not eat random girls pussy, such as ONS, plates or even FWB's. Since it's your first time I wouldn't do it at all.
Google how to finger and tease a girl, that's more than enough for the first time.
Focus mostly on your pleasure only. Don't excuse yourself or explain if you cum too quickly. Just fuck her again shortly after and you'll get into it. It's no big deal.
Stick it in her and enjoy it bro.
nicknack 1y ago
Don’t eat pussy, it’s beta and opens you up to all sorts of bacteria and viruses.
Going down and submitting, giving head, is for submissive people. She’ll lose attraction. Personally to get around this I rub their clit with my finger. I found it makes them cum faster anyway.
dongking 1y ago
I agree man. I don't eat pussy at all. But I get that some guys enjoy it. Even then it should be with LTR only and no random slut that 100% gets rawdogged by other men, it's fucking disgusting.
I've even heard stories from a FWB in the past that she'd let some beta eat her out the day after I nutted in her. She didn't even wash herself on purpose. Then she'd laugh about it and mock him to me lmao. Bitches can be evil and dark triad af.
It's a big no no to go down on a chick with the purpose of making her cum. It's a covert contract that you'd make her cum so you get to fuck. Betagame.
redpillschool Admin 1y ago
Disagree. Eating pussy is perfectly fine. Make sure you're not about to get herpes but dude, knocking a few out before you get to sex is a great way for a beginner to take the pressure off