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What comes after theredpill? Where can we get next level advice on women/relations just like theredpill does for a more advanced level?

kardon93

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Hello guys. My journey in the redpill has been amazing, after 9 years I have dominated the art of living a red pill style. At 30 years old I got a sucessfull career, good shape, doing excellent with women.

Red pill advice is amazing, however I feel at this point theres not too much advice for my situation right now (And others at my point of life):

My life is great at 30 years old, im doing great with women, been in some ltr with great redpill values women and this is where the problem starts. What happens next?

Are we supposed to splin plates forever, even with these great women that are outliers? Because even after dating few perfect unicorn women, ltr become somewhat boring and granted after some time. And girls asking for marriage usually means the end of it.

So where can a guy look for great source advice like trp does with the basics but to things like when to get married? Or if its even worth it? When is it worth it? If i dont wanna ever marry what happens with having children? Should we all forget about marriage no matter how good the girl is?

All this kind of stuff is not covered so well in the red pill realm. Blackdragon blog covers some of these topics greatly, Uncle vasily does too, but I would love to see more opinions and unfortunately I dont seem to find much information about this more "advanced" topics.

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imtranscending 1y ago

Figure out what you want from life and pursue that. Your journey is unique and your own, you decide your endgame.

adam-l Endorsed Contributor 1y ago

I've written some posts over at TheRedPill sub, check them out.

kardon93 1y ago

Thanks. I been using the search function on reddit but it sucks.

whytehorse2021 1y ago

The next level is to work on your legacy, whatever that may be. I chose to crank out a few babies and raise them to replace me. Aaron Clarey wrote a book called The Menu for people who don't want marriage or kids.

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whytehorse2021 1y ago

I wouldn't read it simply because I want a family and was willing to go abroad for a trad/con woman.

kardon93 1y ago

And did you get married? How do you make it work out? What would you recommend and wont recommend?

whytehorse2021 1y ago

I married an Indonesian Muslim from a poor family. Right now she's participating in Ramadan where she starves herself in order to be reminded of what the less fortunate go through. She reminds herself to be thankful and obey her husband 5x/day too.

kardon93 1y ago

Sounds interesting, thanks for the insight.

No-Stress-Cat 1y ago

What comes after the Red Pill? Death. There is no destination, only the lifelong journey with milestone successes along the way. With each goal you reach, the next one becomes bigger. In the end, when you're laying on your deathbed, you will have no regrets, and feel satisfied with a fulfilled life. Your last breath will leave a smile on your face from the knowledge that as you depart, you will be leaving behind the remains of a god.

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kardon93 1y ago

I agree with everything you said. However it would be amazing to have guidance from other men with more experience and wisdom about these matters.

Like I stated it, theres a lot of great wisdom and experience shared about rp stuff like dating and becoming a better version of yourself, etc. But once you reach a certain level, theres less and less advice to guide us guys with still a lack of life experience in certain areas.

Figuring it out by ourselfs its ofc an option, but if we can get the wisdom of other men it could save us a lot of time and pain.