Is there a specific point in relationship when I can or should start paying for a woman? Or is it quite safe for my own wellbeing to never pay for a woman?

Go halves until you've fucked her 10 times.

After that treat her occasionally if you feel like it, and only if she's been good, and never as a reward for sex.

I met a few girls which were cold to me and as soon as I would gave them flowers (which is kind of paying for them) they would become a lot more predisposed towards me, up to a point that we would even have a regular sex (of course I had to pay for food and some other things in such cases all the time, which annoyed me, but it was much cheaper than prostitutes any way).

Provider game.

Stop fucking simping, stop paying. They appreciate you more if they have to pay.

Also, I read in a few places that a paying man is a characteristic of a Good Dad man.

"Good dad" guys are beta and get cheated on with alpha chads.

Paying is UNATTRACTIVE because you can't get it for free.

I have no problem paying for women if she's worth it. The problem is very few are.

I'm older and I'm not going to pay for second or third hand goods. If she's a slob and I'm dating down she needs to pay for me. It's ridiculous that women can date, have the man pay for everything, get married, say they're bored, divorce, get paid again and then expect to start the entire cycle over and over again. Most women have cycled through this a couple of times already. They really expect to be courted and taken out like they are untouched eighteen year olds?

Depends on the context and the situation. Anyone can pay

Yes, it's a good rule of thumb. Just don't be autistic about it, as with anything TRP. If she does stuff for you, it's ok to do stuff for her. But you don't lead with money or favours.

Aside from the fact you talk like a fucking retard, I feel that you need to be reminded of Briffault's Law.

GO READ IT.

Only invest in yourself. The moment you invest in a woman is the moment you lose her. In more traditional societies the women rarely have money so the man pays her dinner costs, hotel, travel, etc. But that's just as a courtesy because you invited them along.

If you are paying for anything for a woman, dinner, drinks etc, you are with a whore. A whore is literally a woman that exchanges stuff for access to her. It's not just cash for sex that means a woman is whore, it's if she expects you to buy dinner, drinks, taxi etc for access to her 'time and attention'.

Top tip - if you're meet a woman that you like, by all means hang out with her - but let it be known straight up that you're equals - and equals means 50:50 every time, for everything. If she disappears, congrats, you just saved yourself from wasting time and money on a whore that's not even honest enough to self describe as a whore.

I think OP said he is autistic in one of his posts. Can’t remember exactly so I’ll try to make this straightforward. Pay but don’t lead w your wallet, this means going out on dates in the beginning especially- match sure to keep them low in cost. Bar date, coffee, walk in the park whatever is low cost. And if you end up LTR then you pay for damn near every date because she’s that much of a compliment to your life. If that’s a problem then no LTR.

Trying to get a woman to go 50-50 is a sure fire way to dry her pants unless she mentions it, I would bring it up. I think of it as she’s hot enough to hang out with so I’ll pay for her drinks (4-6 drinks btwn the both of us) she’s just my companion for the time being.

I'm courious what is your take on my way of dealing with that.

I pay for drinks, icecream, hikes, petrol

She pays for all my food requirements: my fridge full of stuff I eat, freezer full of chicken, other odd food items, cooking my food (eventually sharing cooking to bond)

Big costs like expensive trips: 50/50

I took it from that guy provides entertainment, woman provides care. Splitting big ones not to get classified as bucks.

One of my favorite quips to women in the bar to pay my share like the magnanimous king so I can enjoy night without sperging over rules

Hey first round on me, next 6 on you