after watching the Tom Torero daygame i find it to be an extremely powerful invariant - to never ask questions, but make assumptions instead. this way i feel less needy due to less investment into the outcome - it is up to a woman if she wants to correct me or if she is curious about what i think. and if she is not invested into the conversation i do not feel bad about it, since i did not ask questions anyway. i do not become affectionate for free - the price is at least her investment in building something between us.
now whenever i am curious about something i say or text starting with the "u must be", "it must be that", etc. and then i build up my theory, sharing some details about me and my views along the way. e.g. "u must be visiting that place often since u have a t shirt with their logo. i remember being there with my friends as a child. it was quite nice. so, u must feel good spending time there every day".
as u can see my language is quite poor. so, i would like to ask for some synonyms into my vocabulary to extend the "must" construction. also, if someone knows any sources teaching the language i need it would be nice if u share them.
whytehorse2021 about a month ago
You can just google for synonyms: "synonym for must"
abitofmemory about a month ago
i was hoping for some wordings which would not necessary be direct synonyms for the "must", but just some words appropriate to express myself in this situation - to manifest that i am focused and curious but not needy
whytehorse2021 about a month ago
I would focus more on the technique than the language. The technique is to stop them, open, stack, hook, etc. So you might get better results asking "What are some good openers for day game?". "What are some good hooks?". Stuff like that.
Hanscheezburger about a month ago
This is not a red pill question. It's an English question (I assume it's not your first language).
There are countless ways to say the same thing. Improve your language skills by taking a writing course, practice conversations with native speakers or just read a lot of books