So I've been on self improvement for a while now and my highschool crush, the girl I used to fucking dream over, started showing very high interest in me (literally she didn't even know I existed before I self improved). Eventually we plan a link up and we made out. We kept linking and everytime we'd get a little bit more sexual eventually I'd be choking her out, spitting in her mouth, covering her mouth while I was making her cum. Just for context she has no exes in the past year and I held frame throughout the relationship. Eventually she leaves me on delivered a long time so I checked her for it, then she did the same thing the next day so I removed her on social media (I was done with this girl at the time it felt like disrespect). Then she got thru to my phone and we started arguing (I realise now dumb decision of me). Eventually she starts bringing up petty bullshit I do almost as an excuse to break up with me. I apologised (again dumb), and she leaves me on read & blocks me, she was very emotional. Relationship lasted 3 months. I see her in school & she's just staring at me, we've been no contact for a month & others are telling me she's in the talking stage with some guys of way lower value than me, not in a cocky way but these guys are downgrades. I don't care for getting back with her but our sexual chemistry was amazing & I made her go crazy (sometimes we'd link just to fuck for hours). I've leveled up alot again since then the break up to the point were the hottest girls in school are giving me choosing signals. What are the chances she comes back & how can I make it so we are just fuck buddies.
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Spacebamboo69 2y ago
Lol, oneitis much?
umi121 2y ago
yeah i definitely suffer from oneitis a got a little too attached to this girl
Spacebamboo69 2y ago
I guess youre afraid to let go. It happens man, but this is why most religions advocate non-attachment to material things, they're inevitable loss cause suffering. A core tenet of the RP is to literally NGAF.
RP advice would be don't act like a butthurt bitch, dont let this girl fuck with your zen. Either soft next or hard next, but dont let her know this affects you. Patrice o neal has some advice on not caring. Hes ok....
unplugged69 2y ago
From what you've described about her behaviour you didn't hold frame at all and she lost her tingles. It's 1000 times easier to start over with a new girl and a blank slate than to go back to a relationship you've fucked up and try to salvage it. She already has no respect for you, do you think she'll have any respect if you try to get her to come back? Move on to a new girl and try to date multiple at the same time non-exclusively so you can learn the ropes.
Next time some bitch ignores you for a day, don't act like a little girl and block her on social media, just withdraw attention and spend time with other girls. If she argues with you, don't argue back, just say okay and do whatever you wanted to do in the first place. Look up always DARE never DEER: https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/4349/talking_with_women_always_dare_never_deer
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Dawww, puppy love. Walk straight up to her and tell her you were vetting her for marriage but she disrespected you so you're moving on. Then go get the hottest chick and move on. I guarantee she will come back crying and stalk you for the rest of your life. It's called ridicule-reframe.