Hi fellas. I'll give you the backstory so you guys understand my situation better.
Around 3 weeks ago I was asked out by a girl. She told me my eyes are sexy she was drawn towards it. She's 24 and I am 21. She lives on her own in an apartment and I live with parents, I was a virgin prior to meeting her and she's had 5 relationships in her past.
We started hanging out and texting. We text a lot, for like hours and she gives long thought out responses instead of generic one word uninterested replies. She is extremely supportive and when I told her about the problems I'm facing in my life, she was extremely supportive and tries her best to make me feel positive and comfortable. She also replies back instantaneously if she's not busy.
And when it comes to meeting she tells me I can meet her at her place whenever I want as she lives on her own. We've hung out many times and whenever I'm at her place we basically fool around for hours on her bed,and then she orders some food, we take shower together and all the good stuff. She also brings me chocolates sometimes. So basically she is spending on me and I havent even spent a single penny on her so far. That tells me she is really into me. I didn't wanted to hide about my virginity so I told her about it (i know it's not something you say to your girl but I said fuck it! she's much more experienced so she will find out sooner or later) and she was happy that I choose her for my first and she tells me that she will help me learn about everything. She says she doesn't want to leave me and want us to be together forever. I don't mind being in a LTR with her because of this.
So you guys can see everything is going perfect and I have nothing to complain about. It's picture perfect except one thing which is starting to really bother me and that is her relationship with her ex boyfriend.
They were in a relationship for 2 years and they broke up last year, she was the one who broke up. Since then they've been best friends according to her. They text here and there and what's concerning to me is that she video calls with him for atleast an hour and that happens almost everyday. I told her about my problems with it and she told me they've been doing this for a year and she sees him as a best friend and they talk like normal friends. She said he is her support system blah blah blah. The guy was out of town but now he's coming back in town and I'm sure my girlfriend will see him but she says it's just two friends meeting each other. Platonic relationship according to her. She's told me I can read her texts/dms and everything. The other guy knows about her new relationship with me and according to her it doesn't bother him at all.
Now I know, this is quite a valid reason for some guys here to advise me to break up with her. I totally get that but the thing is, this is such a wonderful chance for me to gather some life and sexual experience as I was a virgin prior to her. When I told her about my concerns she told me "if I was into him then i wouldn't be spending time with you like this or had broken up with him".
Give it to me straight TRP bros what's the verdict here?
nu121x 2y ago
if you really want to just gather life and sexual experience, then keep on fucking her. just know that the life experience you'll be walking away with here is that he will likely be fucking her also.
unplugged69 2y ago
When you're young you can make mistakes, if you want her to be your mistake then I can honestly think of worse things. Just remember a few things before you dive in here:
What you should do is act like everything is normal and cool, and go and game OTHER chicks. Flirt with them, get their number, go out on dates. If she catches you say you're just friends, and do not provide any additional explanation. It would be best you build some abundance before this relationship crashes and burns.
For next time you need to remember not to spend so much fucking time with them at the start of the relationship, it fucks with the power balance and then they're not willing to do anything you want. If you had acted more alpha at the start, she would have cut ties with her fucking ex, but she knows you're VERY into her.
Keep letting her invest in you, and you should remember not to invest more than her in terms of time, money, emotion. But have no illusion about where this is going, and hopefully by the time it ends you will have 2-3 other plates which will stop you from acting like a fool and humiliating yourself.
You see you are in a vulnerable stage right now, and she has more power in the relationship. If you didn't know about the redpill you'd probably fall in love with her, then you'd find out she has been cuckolding you for months and her chad ex-bf laughs about you while he creampies her ass and pussy. Then you would beg and plead with her which would make you hate yourself later on in life, maybe you would try to bargain with her, act like even more of a beta which would turn her off even more and this kind of shit would be with you FOREVER.
If you have abundance, you have some power, you have other holes to fuck and other bitches to keep you company so if she breaks up with you one day you can say "okay" and not act upset and just move on and don't give her any fucking closure. And if you ever catch her cheating you just ghost her and never talk again. Remember no matter what happens this is what you must do or you'll hate yourself forever
whytehorse2021 2y ago
He's her insurance plan. Shut that shit down immediately or leave her as a plate. I can guarantee you she left him because he's all beta and now he's trying to weasel his way into her pants. Fuck betas. We used to kill them.
Scorpion69_ 2y ago
"Fuck betas. We used to kill them."
Very good observation