Alright so long story I met this girl online. No need to get into the details but I thought she was a guy and I wrote a post on her Instagram about a drawing she did, noting the obvious artistic influences but also the original qualities of the work and the technical skill. I was throwing out a fair bit of praise here but thought it was a dude so I wasn't worried about seeming too eager, just thought it was a dude who had a really cool style. Anyway, I got an enthusiastic message back and then learned from a friend who met her once that she is in a fact a her. Since then we've talked on instagram or email virtually everyday.
We live kind of far apart and I'm not thinking of making her my gf (not a fan of LTRS) or anything but a few things that interest me and I want feedback on. When I didn't respond to a message very early on (because I was truly super busy) she wrote 'Hey thought you would have written back by now, I really hope we keep talking.' Maybe this is dumb but I told her I was very busy and not talking to her that day sucked, because that's really how I felt. Since then every enthusiastic thing I've said, she has matched or exceeded. She also told me she doesn't drink or do weed and this is already getting a bit long but suffice it to say I think her body count is below-average.
The type of RP strategies and tactics I've implemented with other girls... I just haven't tried them at all here and yet her interest just keeps growing. It's not like I'm stupid and don't think other guys show her interest. I'm wondering if there is like a wholesome/good girls dynamic that is different and allows for more traditional 'gentlemanly' behavior?
DextroShade 2y ago
Sounds like you are in the friend-zone and don't even know it. If you have no intentions of sex or dating then what are you doing?
Pedal_Moonpower 2y ago
Whats your end game with her.
Coz if not yet you'll be her girlfriend soon.
If you have shared interest and you don't plan with her kIDs or talk like wishy washy wink, keep going. Noone can tell you not to have friend girl.
PS do you read RP
redpillskill 2y ago
To be honest man I really don't have an end game. We live far apart but she's smart and interesting and likes me and I enjoy talking to her. I guess in terms of advice, I'm just wondering if these 'good girl' types are unicorns or not.
Pedal_Moonpower 2y ago
For.whatever reason she likes talking to you either like to girlfriend or future bf (chasing).
This girls can pretend to be whoever she likes, hiding behind text.
I knew interesting girls, really knowledgable, painters, sculptors, lawyers, doctors. Some doing weed, snorTing and fucking randoms. What she represents as a person is not relevant to who she is as an AWALT.
Scorpion69_ 2y ago
She may be ugly
redpillskill 2y ago
Confirmed not the case lol.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
She's probably autistic. Autistic women have male-like logical brains but never forget they also have the female emotional brain too. I would just treat her like a friend and fuck other women. That's how my wife and I got started.
redpillskill 2y ago
I don't know man, a buddy of mine whose been married for five years is with an extreme good girl type and th behavior tracks. Just very earnest, genuine, and such. I don't think these women are common but they do exist.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
About 2% of women are autistic and most of them are undiagnosed. I don't have enough info to say either way. Aaron Clarey did the math in his book and in the US only 2.7% of women are marriageable.
Edit: I should also mention that you don't meet these types of women on dating apps. It's usually through a common interest.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Yes. Rp tactics mostly work on damaged girls. The thing is, most girls these days are damaged. Some are not, for those you should take an approach more akin to the way men approached women in the pre 1960s. That's what I've been doing.
BUT, you say you don't want an LTR... this girl I'm pretty sure will only want that if she is as you have described. So it sounds like you are wasting your time. She likely will make you wait a long time for sex. Girls like that usually need to feel a strong emotional connection with you before they consent to any hanky panky.
Nadox12 2y ago
How can I recognize i damaged woman and how did men approach women pre 1960?
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Easy signs to spot are tats, piercings and oddly colored hair. What types of shit they are into can give you a good idea. How they talk, how they respond to certain things you say. The way in which they present themselves.
Go watch some old movies.
SeasonedRP 2y ago
The answer you are looking for is that all your BP dreams can come true if you just find a good girl. You'll learn from experience that this is not the case. Further, gentlemanly behavior isn't necessarily inconsistent with RP, especially when combined with a dash of rakishness. And you haven't even met this girl, much less interacted with her on a prolonged basis. If you regularly behave in a BP manner, she won't be attracted to you. She might want to be with you for other reasons, but it won't be because of attraction.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
When you say met online, do you mean a dating app or something like just Instagram?
Do you have any intention at all of meeting up with this girl in person? If so does have any desire to ever meet you?
I'm not sure what your end goal here is if she's far away