I know alot of people say you shouldn't try to date a coworker, but this coworker I rarely see and I'm very good at handling rejection so I went for it.
Long story short I asked her for her number but didn't text her til like a week later. Not intentional. I had a date later that evening and I worked like 70 hours that week and was busy . I only saw her once after getting her number, we spoke, and I texted her later that evening. After I texted her she said " who is this". I told her who and she didn't respond. After that I assumed it was a rejection. She didn't seem that interested to begin with in my opinion.
The next day when I was walking into work I saw her and it caught me off guard because I usually don't see her early in the morning. So I walked past her and she tapped my shoulder. She's never touched me before. I said "whats up?" And she didn't really say anything so I kept walking. After I went into the office like two minutes later she walked in there and was standing there like she was waiting for me to say something to her. I never spoke so eventually she left.
I've had a girl literally try to put me in the friendzone and got upset when I wasn't interested in that. She showed no interest in me until after she rejected me lol and tried to cockblock me with other women. I thought this situation was heading in that direction.
I know you should never let a woman see you butt hurt but I didn't care and felt like I was being toyed with. I had no intentions of making her my gf and I wanted things to go back to how they were before I hit on her and not deal with the attempt of making me her orbitor or validation. So I texted her and said "if you cant respond through text, don't touch or speak to me in person". She didn't respond obviously.
Did I handle this situation completely wrong?
Did I handle it wrong?
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Sounds like autism.
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jaykrez619 2y ago
When I first started talking to her, she never spoke to me first she would just look or stare. No hi or even a wave. When I asked for her number her initial response was " I'll write it down and give it to you later". But then she pulled out her phone and gave it to me. My opinion was that she probably had low interest so I had no urgency to text her.
But at the same time she could have been offended that I waited so long to text her
NeoSpartan 2y ago
She just sounds awkward to me. A lot girls get shy and nervous around guys they like. Especially if they are young.
uh... sure ya are.