I feel weird, I am traveling in the coast of my country and met a girl I like in pictures through tinder. I usually not too shy but this time I feel I can't do it. We have barely chatted over tinder and I asked her out. The plan was to go to the beach but she had some issues and I am leaving soon so she told me that she is either free before 3 PM or after 10 PM. So I figured a good plan would be going out to for a beer. The issue is I didnt bring any "going out" clothes, I didnt bring pants to my trip lol. That makes me nervous, also the idea of meeting up with her in an unknown place. This is the girl: https://imgur.com/a/2KkfIK3
I would like some advice if possible.
Thank you for reading
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Cute girl, just don't think about it and go. That's what I do, get nerves too most times. Also pound a beer before I leave lol. I always meet them in unknown places because I barely go out aside from dates.
I assume you are also hot, if not be careful, you might get robbed.
ash00000 2y ago
yeah I hate going out as well. I wanted to go to the beach with her but as I am leaving soon had to go out at night. I didnt bring anything other than shorts for the trip as its a beach place lol and didnt plan on going out at night. So I am unsure whether to go or no
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Meh, go or don't. Plenty of girls out there. Least where I live. I usually have fun on dates though, despite the initial nerves.
ash00000 2y ago
Told her I couldnt make it tonight and she offered to do something tomorrow during the day. So much much better. She told me she can between the morning and 3 pm as she is working at 3. And that she will wake up early so she has more time. I am thinking what will happen with lunch, what should I do with that?
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ash00000 2y ago
went really good! Thanks for asking. I invited her to the hotel's jacuzzi and we were alone. We kissed for a bit but I couldnt escalate. I need to become more passionate in these cases. She then triple messaged me telling me things after the date so it went well.
I have to leave the coast but if I visit again I will see her probably. It was fun and nice experience!
Thanks for asking
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NeoSpartan 2y ago
I dunno, all my dates have been in the evening. How long are you in town for? Does she know you are only in town for a little while? Cause if so, I'd go get breakfast/brunch at like 9 or 10 maybe a drink or two? then maybe walk the beach or w/e then back to her place or your hotel to watch a movie or something plus the etc.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
shut up, go out, have fun. you've more to gain than you have to lose.
that girl looks like trouble though.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Lol, where I live that girl would be one of the least damaged ones XD LA is a terrible place :/
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