I feel weird, I am traveling in the coast of my country and met a girl I like in pictures through tinder. I usually not too shy but this time I feel I can't do it. We have barely chatted over tinder and I asked her out. The plan was to go to the beach but she had some issues and I am leaving soon so she told me that she is either free before 3 PM or after 10 PM. So I figured a good plan would be going out to for a beer. The issue is I didnt bring any "going out" clothes, I didnt bring pants to my trip lol. That makes me nervous, also the idea of meeting up with her in an unknown place. This is the girl: https://imgur.com/a/2KkfIK3
I would like some advice if possible.
Thank you for reading
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
shut up, go out, have fun. you've more to gain than you have to lose.
that girl looks like trouble though.
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NeoSpartan 2y ago
Lol, where I live that girl would be one of the least damaged ones XD LA is a terrible place :/
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NeoSpartan 2y ago
Cute girl, just don't think about it and go. That's what I do, get nerves too most times. Also pound a beer before I leave lol. I always meet them in unknown places because I barely go out aside from dates.
I assume you are also hot, if not be careful, you might get robbed.
ash00000 2y ago
yeah I hate going out as well. I wanted to go to the beach with her but as I am leaving soon had to go out at night. I didnt bring anything other than shorts for the trip as its a beach place lol and didnt plan on going out at night. So I am unsure whether to go or no
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Meh, go or don't. Plenty of girls out there. Least where I live. I usually have fun on dates though, despite the initial nerves.
ash00000 2y ago
Told her I couldnt make it tonight and she offered to do something tomorrow during the day. So much much better. She told me she can between the morning and 3 pm as she is working at 3. And that she will wake up early so she has more time. I am thinking what will happen with lunch, what should I do with that?
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ash00000 2y ago
went really good! Thanks for asking. I invited her to the hotel's jacuzzi and we were alone. We kissed for a bit but I couldnt escalate. I need to become more passionate in these cases. She then triple messaged me telling me things after the date so it went well.
I have to leave the coast but if I visit again I will see her probably. It was fun and nice experience!
Thanks for asking
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NeoSpartan 2y ago
I dunno, all my dates have been in the evening. How long are you in town for? Does she know you are only in town for a little while? Cause if so, I'd go get breakfast/brunch at like 9 or 10 maybe a drink or two? then maybe walk the beach or w/e then back to her place or your hotel to watch a movie or something plus the etc.