I’ve got one potential plate, but I find it hard to find them.
Im 19 and going back to college this next semester.
I don’t want to mess up this plate which is my scarcity mindset going to work.
How do you find different plates outside of college? .
PooPoo 2y ago
Check the kitchen
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Dating apps work, but I'm not a fan of having plates. Wasn't really looking for any at all, and maybe that's why getting girls to want to have sex with me is fairly easy. I sort of stumbled into a plate by accident. Had sex with her last night on the 2nd date. She is leaving in a couple months though so it's temporary and she told me she is okay with me seeing other girls, and I have a first date with one next weekend. If you are in college though, you shouldn't be having issues finding girls. Just interact with the girls you meet there. Be nice, fun and flirty.
Dunno why so many guys think being a nice guy doesn't work. It totally does. Maybe they think "nice" means not touching them? You gotta build physical chemistry, that's rule no 1. I'd focus on the one girl at a time if I were you though dude. Dating multiple ones at once is stressful af. I'm only going to do 2 at most. And once this STR girl leaves I'll probably just stick to the one if I can find a good LTR girl. Keep in mind that a lot of people on the internet are liars. Being a player isn't really that fun imo.
Corneliuscaruso 2y ago
My issue is the nice guy part. When I was blue pilled, I thought being nice was the goal to win someone over. I can make women laugh with my wit, but after reading more about trp I feel I need to assert myself more instead of being goofy. Is it something you just need to balance? Because a part of me wants to be goofy but the other part wants to be a strong alpha.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
I don't think girls like goofy, that's not what I meant by being nice, girls don't like it when you try too hard. It makes you seem low value to them. A strong alpha can be a nice guy who is genuinely looking for an LTR. Being alpha is about being confident, learning female signals(very important) and pressing the right buttons imo. Treat her nice(but don't be a clown, only make a joke if it fits with the situation and is actually a good joke), take an interest in her stuff, demonstrate your own value by talking about your best stuff you got going on, find excuses to touch her without going too fast but also don't hesitate and always kiss her at the end of the date if you want a second one with her. If she sucks, don't kiss her and you probably can just ghost without any issues.
Also helps A LOT if you are a lifter. If you want to date on easy mode, get some abs, pecs and strong arms.
redpillschool Admin 2y ago
Captive audiences. Have you read my most recent post on trp?
Corneliuscaruso 2y ago
Just read it, thanks going to find a bar tending job before school
thermodynamic 2y ago
can you share a link to the post. cant seem to find it
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