I met this plat about 2 weeks back, 1st date - she could not take her eyes off me. but we did not kiss or fuck 2nd date - Everything good, we kissed, and played around a lil but no fuck. This date was last saturday I have been texting less, and taking long time to respond to her. Monday I ask if she wants to go to movie on tuesday evening, she. says she has plans. and suggests next sat. I do not respond for 2 days and Wed night, I say ok, lets do sat, if you confirm i can start looking for tickets. She did not respond yet. She already told me that its her Bday this coming sunday! Anyways, Im thinking nexting this one. Not sure what to do if she texts back, I feel like the right thing to do would be to completely ignore and Hard Next. What do you guys suggest?
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whytehorse2021 4y ago
I'm gonna agree with Danlong. With all the FDS twats running around I wouldn't be surprised if they have some strategy of trying to turn the tables on guys who play this game. Soft next. Her loss. Plenty of other women and bros out there that won't waste your time.
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hannulv 4y ago
Female Dating Strategy. It is sort of like anti-pickup for post-wall girls.... A reddit group where they explicit set themselves up for lives of misery with their trained blue-pill plowhorses.
It's basically a strategy for maximizing betabux, with all the quiet parts said out loud. This is for post-wall girls who have given up on alphas and are looking to maximize their own security and comfort. They want to be fat and lazy and have a beta male completely under their thumb working exclusively for them.
They like to say stuff like "It's not deceptive to be enthusiastic when sleeping with someone you're unattracted to, because pair-bonding with a short term goal in sight is a perfectly valid reason for females to mate."
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Danlong 4y ago
Not replying for two days in the age of IM apps is dumb. She knows what you're doing and is responding in kind.
johnnysmallseed 4y ago
Wrong. Scarcity works. How you feel about it is irrelevant. If you've ever been genuinely busy you'd know not to instantly reply to all messages because It's an invitation to hang out with that person. And when you are swamped with work and life then it's a natural response to prioritize. Her knowing you have priorities above her is attractive. You being instantly available is unattractive.
realfestivalking 4y ago
i was not sure if this is TRP for a min when these simps advising me to reply immediately and be available all the time.
Danlong 4y ago
You're thinking binary. There is a lot of space between replying immediately and replying after two days.
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Danlong 4y ago
THANK YOU! Someone talking like they live in the real world
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johnnysmallseed 4y ago
Neo you give the worst advice on this forum. Why are you giving blue pill advice. This is what's wrong with this forum. A bunch of people who have a topical understanding of RP from either watching clips online or hearing the magic words from some guy on the internet.
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johnnysmallseed 4y ago
You give blue pill advice homie. Why are you questioning him and castigating him over creating scarcity? You should be supportive. I agree that it should be a natural state created by his actual business but that doesn't mean it doesn't work if he's doing it artificially.
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johnnysmallseed 4y ago
Why so mad Neo? You need to get some pussy HOMIE.
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johnnysmallseed 4y ago
Definitely not throwing a tantrum right now. If I was your dad I would put you in time out. You are acting up, HOMIE. Why can't we be friends. We are both men. why are you so mad NEO. I'm just being honest with you. You are giving Blue pill advice. I'm a brother. Stop looking at me as competition.
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RPEsq 4y ago
She gave you a date and you waited two days to confirm it lol.
Girl gives you a date to take her out. You agree, set the date, and then stop texting her. Strike while the iron is hot.
You blatantly ignored her text and her interest cooled.
Vadim971 4y ago
Completely agree
johnnysmallseed 4y ago
Don't ask permission to take her out. And movie dates are for 13 year Olds. Don't do it.
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johnnysmallseed 4y ago
Exceptions to rules doesn't negate them. I am speaking on what works and doesnt work for most men. Generally speaking, movie dates are a bad idea when there are alternatives with a higher success rate for intimacy. Unless it's at your house movie dates generally do not work for most men.
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johnnysmallseed 4y ago
I'll say it again, but slower. If it works for you great, but most men don't have that success rate on movie dates, especially if it's a first date. If you know her and have been intimate before then it's not a bad spot to go to but why there and not your house if you are already at that stage of intimacy. So again, salute to you if it works, but it doesn't for most men, so I wholly advise men against it.
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johnnysmallseed 4y ago
There's no reason for intimacy to occur from separate seats while the focus of the date is on a screen in front of you. And I am stating what most men will say. Not sure why you're picking this hill to die on when it's a well known observation in RP that movie dates are bad.
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johnnysmallseed 4y ago
This is a place for RP discussion. Be honest or you will mislead men. As you are, you are being dishonest about movie dates success rate. But I will move forward and past that since you asked a good question. So if movie dates aren't it then what is?
I have a different background than suburban dating. I have a good success rate with meeting women at bars. The intent for sexual intimacy is set. We are both there to meet and there is no reason to prevent intimacy. Game is key here. 1 out of 10 nights I can get laid from a bar. I'm a 5 or 6 out of 10 in looks and I have been with 8s and a few 9s.
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