So a little back round. I actually met this girl at the airport terminal on the way back home to our home city. We lived in the same part of downtown and I got her number in like 10 minutes before boarding. We hadn't talked in person since.
She texted me the next day and I hit her up for a date, saying I was busy this coming week but lets do next. She mentioned a wedding that Saturday, but offered to hang Friday instead. Texting was purely logistics. Couldn't have been more perfect. Anyways, she texted me the day before the date with this message:
"I absolutely hate to do this to you, but I am completely swamped with schoolwork and I have a wedding this weekend and next weekend so I don't have time to get things done over the weekends and I have two huge tests this week and the the following. All that to say, I won't be able to do tomorrow night night because I really need to study and prep for these tests before I leave Saturday morning" (its currently thursday night) "Is there any way we could reschedule for the first week in October?? Sorry, I know that's a whole lot more information than you ever wanted to know, but I didn't want you to think I was bailing just to bail."
Seems like she assumes I could give a fuck about her tests which is good. I looked through the reddit and there were similar posts to this, but none that I could find that offered what to say, but only offered what to feel about it (not go beta and get pissy). I just need some advice on what to say for a date that is potentially 3 ish weeks out. The only thing we know about each other is the 10 minute convo at the aiport.
ScubaSteve9000 3y ago
I would answer something like "Cool. What about October 5th at 9:00PM?" I had chicks that rescheduled and that I fucked. I think she could be legit busy. Second chance, if she bails second chance, next the bitch.
kncrew2112 3y ago
Yep I’m familiar with the one chance rule. Thanks for the clarity on the response
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YourOwnDisaster 3y ago
+1. This.
kncrew2112 3y ago
Good call thanks laddy
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