One thing that I noticed a lot of guys, in my social circles, guys that I've observed at bars and even people asking for advice online take the whole "act like you don't want her" the wrong way. They will act as if the girl repulses them or that there is no sexual intent whatsoever. This will confuse the girl too much, and when you reveal your true intentions, this will freak her out.

I would say act like you don't need her but leave hints that you want her... indeed talk to her in her language. Women will leave hints that they want you but most won't verbalize it. What I've found that gauges the most positive responses are subtle gestures such as a lingering eye contact while you think how badly you'd fuck her, a very discreet change in the tone of voice to sound more sexual, (counter-intuitive but) a hint of nervousness here and there.

By request I'm posting Best Of posts. Thanks to everyone that sent me links.

Was gonna say “what a revelation” then read “Best of:”

It might be better to put that in title like:

Best of RP: Don’t Talk To Women Like Men

Women don’t THINK, they FEEL. When they speak, they’re not really saying anything for the most part. It’s all a pretense to something else; they’re either feeling you out or telegraphing what they [really] think and feel through body language and tone and timing etc., and it’s up to use as THINKERS to deduce what the crux of the messages are. Conversely, they have the innate ability to FEEL what we’re thinking, so it’s important to control your thoughts because it’ll reflect in your vibe.

When women talk, they’re like birds in tree: like I previously stated, they’re not really saying much of anything, rather they’re merely vocalizing to communicate other things to others on their vicinity.

It’s important to bear all of this in mind when talking to a woman, to be able to adapt to her. You need to be able to cut through her doublespeaking and distinguish the red herrings and other deflectionary tools that she’ll throw out there. This isn’t just for romantic purposes, but for navigating the work place environment and society in general.

Lastly, it’s also important to note that women generally don’t do this maliciously. It’s just what they do. It’s annoying and maddening and it retards basic interactions for no real reason, but it is what it is. They’re not going to adapt to us, 99.9% of women don’t understand males at all, so it’s our responsibility to bridge the gap.