Comedian Chris D'elia is heavily under fire by 'cancel culture' over alleged sexual misconduct with underage women. I don't know whether or not he's guilty and that isn't the point of this post.
There's a twitter thread of a 21 YEAR OLD WOMAN, "exposing" Chris for DMing her and trying to get her to hang out aka fuck. The woman agrees to meetup, but when Chris says 'Hey let's go to my hotel room.' She hangs by the bar and charges her drinks to Chris' room, which, by the way, is illegal.
This Twitter thread is full of women PRAISING her and CRUCIFYING Chris, making him out to be the devil.
Um, newsflash "ladies", there's nothing wrong with trying to have sex with a 21 year old woman. Furthermore, the fucking dumb bitch agreed to meet up and answer his DM's.
This is another example of how women do not care whatsoever about men, live in a fantasy world where they think they can bend reality to fit their narrative, and will shamelessly try to fuck men over because, "you go girl!".
This behavior by said women is absolutely disgusting, reprehensible, unacceptable and is RUINING the dating scene in Western society.
Here is the Twitter thread I am referencing.

yomo86 5y ago
Semi hot girl isn't turned on by a celeb and does nasty things. It is abundance and revenge by proxy why those fat cows on Twitter freaking out. Let people be and care for yourself.
caf_app 5y ago
You're absolutely right, op. But until men find their spine and are willing to en masse, reject these women for their shit behavior, nothing will change. They only do what they can get away with. They have always been that way. Men traditionally have not allowed their childish, self important behavior to stray that far from the acceptable limit. But in recent generations, we have let it run wherever the fuck it wants to go .
So, it is our responsibility to turn it back around. Hold women and men, for that matter to high standards. If you don't, no one else will. Let's take it up ourselves to correct this shit so that the next generation doesn't have it so bad.
DadBod2ChadBod 5y ago
Feminism is a shit test. You getting this mad over feminist hypocrisy is you failing the shit test.
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EdvardMunch 5y ago
Can someone explain to me why hes under fire? He simply asked a girl of age to go to his hotel room? And thats it? What am I missing?
MilkMoney111 5y ago
Women don’t like men who fuck or want to fuck anyone but them
EdvardMunch 5y ago
At least young spoiled dumb girls who somehow command cultural leverage. Maybe Kylie jenner can be our next president
throwlaja 5y ago
Actually the girl messaged him. It's crazy.
EdvardMunch 5y ago
Its like nothing really matters other than what catches the emotional mob
keypress-alt-f4 5y ago
I love how one woman replied "I want everyone saying “I want proof” to show me proof that they’re not a rapist."
Lord_Teapot 5y ago
this is only the beginning. arm yourself.
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Phantom099 5y ago
100% i will train and get a firearm after collage
BasilevsNihili 5y ago
Unfortunately I'll have to wait some years until I can move to a country where having guns is legal. If I were you I'd be doing it ASAP.
keypress-alt-f4 5y ago
Somewhat OT, but...
I suggest buying and mastering three... pistol, rifle and shotgun. Rifle is devastatingly good for defense, but shoots through walls, so shotgun is better for indoors, and the pistol is the backup. Have an exceptionally skilled gunsmith do the trigger work, sights and tuning on all of them, and then practice your ass off with all three. Get a range membership, buy ammo discount in bulk, and find an expert to train you in gun ops and safety, normal and failure drills, stance, transitions and marksmanship. Practice at least weekly on paper targets, learn from your mistakes, and try to do a course like Gunsite yearly.
Additional hobbies include reloading and hunting.
My suggestion has nothing to do with women or trp. We just need more responsible sheepdogs out there.
BalkanChrisHemsworth 5y ago
Yup definitely. I have a pistol, with another one coming, and an AR build I'm building pretty soon. Just need my ccl to be accepted.
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aweful_aweful 5y ago
Do it now you're likely not going to have that long
SvenAtLarge 5y ago
November 3rd. Doesn't even matter if Biden does nothing on guns for two years. If he wins everything will be sold out by 10am the next day like when Obama was re-elected. You might still be able to own an AR legally but the background check system could be weeks behind and a 650 dollar rifle now will cost almost two grand.
And forget ammo for it.
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staytrue1985 5y ago
To be fair, men have been fighting wars for all of human history.
DrGandu 5y ago
Never against women. Society has always had the “be kind to women” rule built into its fabric. Back when they wouldn’t hound men’s asses that is
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PrincetonNarcissist 5y ago
These are the kinds of comments that will get this sub banned. Please exercise a minimum amount of restraint jfc
VigilantRedRooster 5y ago
Comment unambiguously breaks site-wide rules. Banned.
anonimo42 5y ago
Jesus. Have you seen the comments of other girls? “QUEEEN” it made me gag little. Man this infuriates me.
hockeyaddict87 5y ago
It’s horrifying what women are turning into in western culture. It’s making me nervous about club and college party hookups, one rape accusation and your done
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ObservetJCD 5y ago
Yeah bro is there even a way to protect yourself from false accusations?
DextroShade 5y ago
Video tape all encouters like the dude from IASIP.
SvenAtLarge 5y ago
Be high value. Be good at fucking. Not blue pill sex advice, advice from men other women never forget.
Be the man she thinks about when she's fucking someone else whose lame at sex.
PS2Errol 5y ago
Ignore all women and build your own life.
hockeyaddict87 5y ago
Just keep text message proof for evidence and have money saved so you can get a good lawyer. That’s all you can really do
gotmilo11 5y ago
Shit like this makes men like me afraid to cold approach or slide in any dms.. I'm no where near famous, but what happens if I do And 30 years from now motherfuckers pull old dms of me flirting and catcalling..... So annoying
MilkMoney111 5y ago
The beauty of Snapchat. The message is deleted. And if they wanna save it with some incriminating shit, you can just block them and it disappears.
I never slide into DMs anymore. I get snaps and take it casually from there
ebaymasochist 5y ago
Someone can always record their phone with another phone or camera. Nothing I'm worried about but nothing is failsafe
MilkMoney111 5y ago
Yeah good point. Be as safe as you can gents
gotmilo11 5y ago
Fuck I feel like a bitch for saving messages. I Always forget what I said... But now I see why I shouldn't be talking so much in the dms
MilkMoney111 5y ago
I wouldn’t overthink it man. Not a big deal to save messages if you lose track of the convo
user12345678654 5y ago
So? It's in their biological nature.
They can use their assets to get what they want. They can decide to settle for anything but best or better. This doesn't mean they will. It just means they can. It's their choice. Not yours
This should not be infuriating but enlightening. Understand the nature of women. Become a better man and don't take shit because they can't help being themselves. She can say no and leave whenever she wants. Be something she can't resist and don't frame your physical and mental being on what a woman does or doesn't do.
Edit: Even though she recounts this story with her never actually meeting with him. That may not actually be the case. Don't listen to what a woman says
twentyapollo0 5y ago
I thought love was love, shouldn’t they be praising the age differences as long as she’s of age?
319Skew 5y ago
Why are you reading this cancer?
Wilfred-of-Ivanhoe 5y ago
It’s trending on twitter right now so you can’t miss it if you go on it.
fuckingjoggers 5y ago
why would you go on twitter?
Wilfred-of-Ivanhoe 5y ago
Don’t ask me mate I just extrapolated that from what OP linked.
slip-down 5y ago
Guys, women love drama. If there are any one of you replying to them, your an idiot. Twitter is just for drama. It's a place where weak people get to feel strong. It's a place where weak people can find there "safe space" and echo chamber. Only to find out that the real world isn't like that. No matter how much they bitch, moan and bitch. Look at the people responding to her, most don't have a real profile pictures (they probably phatties), and they just say what they think everyone wants to hear. The truth is, one day they will get out of bad, step outside look down at there wrinkly skin and come to the realization that they wasted their youth on Twitter group think. Don't be that. Don't entertain their BS. Not a fight worth fighting. Remember gents, the most powerful tool in your arsenal is your ability to walk away. It takes away women's power and that power is drama. Twitter is no different. If more men walked away, Twitter wouldn't be used as heavily.
DadBod2ChadBod 5y ago
I can't emphasise this enough. The reason that unattractive, low-intellect women flock to Twitter is because on Twitter there voice is just as loud as yours.
Stick to real life, nobody listens to these people in real life and that's why they're so loud on Twitter.
Twitter, cancel culture, feminism - it's all a shit test. Proceed as a man.
throwlaja 5y ago
Unfortunately Twitter can have consequences on the real world.
TheRedExec 5y ago
I wholeheartedly agree with your point here. Trying to convince people they're wrong on social media is always a complete waste of time, but especially so in this case. And replying or retweeting the thread is like pouring gasoline on an open fire.
My question to you: is there a way to bring attention to the problem without causing the threat to go more viral? I'm sure there would be young and impressionable guys and girls in the reply section that don't know what she's done is both unethical and illegal.
slip-down 5y ago
There's a actually a lot of sensible comments in most Twitter threads, but they get drowned out by the loud minority. I don't have an answer for you. I just know what twitters become doesn't work.
peelen 5y ago
Sorry guys but it's not cancel culture. And it's not as you describing it.
She just told the story how she tricked him for paying for her drinks. That's it.
I haven't read all twitter answer there, but most of them are just congratulations of the "prank".
I could even go further and interpret it as her way to defent Chris. He's acused of raping women and she told a story wher simple "no" was enough for not having sex with him.
RedGille 5y ago
I'd say they were even - he's a schmuck for not showing up at the bar as was agreed on, she's a bitch for getting back at him.
Oh, wait. She actually commited a felony and is proud of it... so women can break the law coz a guy flaked on them.
I wonder, could a girl punch a guy in the face and get away with it, coz she's a girl you know??
no need to wonder, happened to me. nothing you can do to her.
TheRedExec 5y ago
They're only allegations at this point, but you slay queen!
fuckingjoggers 5y ago
reminder: shitlib twitter is not a representative of the world. by any stretch
intermittentfa5ting 5y ago
When you were 21, you were a legal consenting adult in every US state and country in the world.
So long as he didn't rape you or physically harm you, anything he did is legal.
Shut the fuck up, lmao.
BurningOrangeHeaven 5y ago
Hoe culture has ruined dating in general imo
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jlwip 5y ago
16 is LEGAL in most states
JizzBomb_ 5y ago
....youd really try and sleep with an 16 year old?
SvenAtLarge 5y ago
She's sexually mature. You think something magic happens on her 18th birthday? Most societies recognized women become women physically, emotionally, and mentally after 14/15. They've been having their periods almost half a decade at 16 with menarche happening younger and younger.
jlwip 5y ago
as a 20 year old who usually gets pegged as 15-17 yes i would
dr_warlock 5y ago
there's always a romeo and juilet law (age gap law) or marriage requirement for that in the U.S.
jlwip 5y ago
The romeo & juliet law comes alongside the AOC laws. AOC is minimum age - most states are 16 but some states like California are 18. A few are 17. So check your state's laws.
The Romeo/juliet laws don't apply to most of us - it's a 2-3 year age gap that makes it legal for, say, a 17 & 15 year old. And in some states where it's 18, I could probably still get away with 17, but I wouldn't bother at that point.
And the marriage requirements are whack, pretty sure some are still 12 or something.
dr_warlock 5y ago
The marriage requirement reveals what people know and what they've always known in the bottom of their hearts and will deny until the day they die... sex is a transaction: provisioning for sex. If the female is not the clear benfactor of the arrangement, it's 'taking advantage' or 'abuse'.
Inb4 "hur durr you support fucking 12 year olds" (rolls eyes).
jlwip 5y ago
Well what is the minimum age you would defend an adult man fucking before you labelled it as too far?
dr_warlock 5y ago
Thinking of it from the father's point of view...
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1) Do my research and determine the minimum age I believe my daughter's body could handle pregnancy (then add a little extra) (Thinking around 15)
2) What value does the male bring? What is his family like?
3) Is the male seeking marriage?
If the male is seeking marriage, brings worthy value, and has a good family environment, I will go with around 15, maaaybe 14 if he's a hotshot.
jlwip 5y ago
That's pretty reasonable. I mean, most states are 16 , only a year off from your ideal so I can deal with that. It's the states that are 18 that are a pain in the ass for a young guy like me haha
dr_warlock 5y ago
California is shit for many reasons, I believe there's even a term for the mass exodus of people migrating from Cali to texas and nevada. Taxes, gun laws, crazy cost of living, leftist PC degenerates (ie gay pride parades). Just leave ASAP.
DTron2332 5y ago
Who gives a fuck with these people think, stay on your own path, fuck whatever kinda girl you’d love to fuck, and move on. As men we don’t have time to listen to feminist bullshit, more than half the time it’s women wanting to feel as a victim.
And of course never apologize, keep your ground, and have the strongest frame one can ever have. If you have to be the bad guy, so be it.
therealsuH 5y ago
Whenever I have a new chick who is 18 or 19 years old, some females in my social circle try to shame me.
What's funny is that these exact chicks complain about how they're "growing old", getting fatter, and vocalize how they were at their prime in their late teens.
After passing a few shit tests in social situations, I thought they would stop with the shame tactics. I was wrong.
As I kept introducing and bringing around multiple cute 18/19 year olds, there was a shift in their tone.
Now, 18 and 19 year olds are "emotionally too immature" to give sexual consent to older men. Mind you, these are the very hoes who were fucking college dudes in their high school days.
I accepted that there is nothing I can do about older women shaming men for going for younger and hotter girls. They definitely do not enjoy the post prime decline.
Best of luck gents.
DadBod2ChadBod 5y ago
Women practice solipsism? Well I never...
TheGreatConst 5y ago
The problem is that in this bluepill society one day they can make it an actual law and make it illegal to have sex with anyone who is 15 years younger than you or something like this. Moreover, most guys would approve of it because for younger guys it means less competition and most older guys wouldn't be able to get laid with young hotties anyway. Basically, by banging hot chicks much younger than you, it makes too many people butthurt, that leads to idiotic rationalizations like the maturity gap, "too young to consent", etc. Logically, when it comes to sexual consent, you either can consent or not. There shouldn't be such a thing like "can consent to A, but can't consent to B".
SvenAtLarge 5y ago
They don't have to pass a law to ruin your life anyway.
dr_warlock 5y ago
Let's be clear, older guys vote for it knowing they have zero chance AND to appease the jealous, old hag, used-up harlots.
MoDuReddit 5y ago
This is what social media does to teenage girls.
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WitnessTheTruth 5y ago
Cmon man. You’re better than this
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44361066 5y ago
How old are you man? How do you pull these young girls?
therealsuH 5y ago
I'm in my early 20's, finishing up a college program, some may call me a super senior.
I meet a lot of girls through college related social events, friends' coworkers/colleagues, Tinder (I stopped using it), and in public.
Most recent example, just last week, I was outside my work when a blonde shortie was walking past me to throw away some boxes. I initiated conversation, she was bubbly and cute so I got her snap. Why didn't I get her number? Well she's an incoming college freshman and she's a white suburban girl. They're fucking obsessed with Snapchat.
I snapped her a few times and planned out a day to "hang out", then ghosted her. She's unable to handle being left on open/seen, constantly messaging/snapping me. She told me her mom isn't happy with her going on a date with a stranger that she met outside work, but that's the price you pay with 18/19 year olds.
theguytheguy1000 5y ago
yo. tell those girls shaming you to jump off a cliff.
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you're in your early 20s and they are shaming you for dating 18/19 year olds............ NIGGA WHAT.
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i'm sorry but those women in your social circle are not fucking normal people man.
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LIKE WHAT. i'm still sat here scratching my head. seriously, tell them to go choke on a shotgun barrel or something.
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i think america is different cos i'm in the UK and guys in there 20s dating girls who are under 20 is very very normal here. keep in mind the age of consent is 16 here btw so technically (not that most dudes over 18 would want to) it is legal for an adult to have sex with a 16 year old. not saying it's a good thing cos... 16... bruh come on lol she's basically a child lol, i felt weird as fuck grandpa when i was 18 kissing a 16 year old lol.
ezragriffin 5y ago
These bitches are shaming you when you're in your early 20s?
Loose these bitches from your life or don't bring your girls in front of them.
therealsuH 5y ago
It's quite ridiculous. Last year, I had a 21 year old girl that I was "friends" with and occasionally hooking up with get upset at me for having a new 18 year old FWB. She tried to say how 18 is too young for me and that 21+ aka herself is the best.
Haven't talked to her since last summer, but her best friend told me she's now dating a man in his 30's. The hypocrisy.
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ZidaneLoire 5y ago
Twitter is like high school. Everything seems like a big deal when you're in it, but after you're out, you realize how it's just a minuscule space that has no bearing in anything of relevance whatsoever.
cornflake_jackson 5y ago
Except when animals like Skai Jackson doxx 12 year olds to their 500k+ following and ruin their lives over them posting juvenile vulgarity on their personal snapchat stories.
Cyberg0re 5y ago
Hehe, nice analogy. I was going to say essentially the same, by just copying the text of a comment I made a few days ago, on this exact subreddit btw:
" Twitter is just a loud minority. "
You don't waste your time on facebook, so why are you wasting it on twitter, OP? The content of your post is nothing new to anyone who's spent more than 10 minutes on twitter.
TruthSeekingPerson 5y ago
Twitter is an absolute moral atrocity. It should be deleted with Facebook so people will be forced to interact with people humanely again.
MilkMoney111 5y ago
Women can be 20 years out of high school but still tell anyone who will listen about a guy (who is now way out of their league) that hit on them back then. Some sad shit
acoltismypassport 5y ago
Twitter is for two kinds of people: those who are important, and those who think they're important.
Of all the social media platforms, there is literally zero ROI. Complete waste of fucking time.
Redpiller77 5y ago
All the internet is like that. But corporations don't give a shit and will pander to those communities because they generate money.
vwowv 5y ago
As said, this should be a billboard. Yet I'm having cognitive dissonance because The reality is that guys career might have just been destroyed. I theorize the best thing he could do is not act defensive, not act like he's being hunted. I think I'd instinctively also make jokes about it. That's where I'd probably make things worse then. Say, "I had a drink with someone 3 years older than the age of consent. For those of you that only speak twitter-ese that translates to, "I raped a 3 year old."
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edit: I've been reading up on the story, he didnt' have drinks with her, and he already apologized in a lukewarm punch pulling way. The most annoying part of this is that she was the one that asked to 'hang out' but of course she said she 'was joking'. Can't have it both ways bitch. She told him she wanted to hang out (consent) then asked society to destroy him when he said f' ya.
RunawayGrain 5y ago
This should be made into a billboard, dammit.
laredditcensorship 5y ago
Bunch of homo-billboardus will sure be proud to displaying it.
GrooveDive 5y ago
I don't care for the drama, but I'm following the story just until we find out if it's a full blown me too or not. I don't want another Louis Ck situation, I like D'Elia's stand up, and some of this is way more damning than Ck's allegations
noodlebob15 5y ago
This might apply to most of us but probably not to Chris D’elia
Arnoux 5y ago
This. I don’t use twitter, it is not popular in my country at all and we don’t hear about these stories here. I only hear about it on reddit but still don’t understand half of this post lol
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ezragriffin 5y ago
There were some other tweets where girls have also accused Chris for allegedly grooming them when they were minors. I don't know if it's true or false.
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RPOpenUp 5y ago
The scary part is the fact that Stalin used to remove all literature and information on stuff he didn't see fit in his view. Everyone agrees that's it fucked up to change history like that and censor stuff. Sadly the exact same thing is happening right now. Statues are being destroyed, opinions and information that's not in line with society's current view is either being removed or censored. JUST LIKE THE RED PILL. The world is not better then it was years ago, it's the same cake but with different toppings
TheGweatandTewwible 5y ago
Wait, are you leaving some stuff out? I can't figure why he'd get cancelled for going on a date...?
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VDKay 5y ago
Well, while I see your point in general, I don't see how this specific incident is "ruining the dating scene in Western society". I mean, Chris apologized because this incident hurt his public image, because he is a public figure.
I doubt anyone else in his right mind would do the same, unless he felt guilty of something of course. Girls will say "you go girl" at any male-bashing behavior nowadays. No big deal. It's just trendy. I feel it is more like setting up a shit-test men have to pass in order to show that they are real men.
beginner_ 5y ago
He apologized because he is is a beta with no spine.
Inviting her to the room directly is stupid anyway. Wouldn't want at least do some minimal vetting she isn't bat shit crazy? Which given the twitter thread she would have failed spectacularly.
aesky 5y ago
no game at all, but for someone with his status he prob thought he didn't need it
TheStumblingWolf 5y ago
Relevant discussion of this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKl88\_4gb0E
prophetoffun 5y ago
Always happy to see Aba n Preach in a thread
fuckitall2k19 5y ago
It'll only get worse from here on out, gentlemen. As single mothers keep producing more weak and effeminate soyboys, men of our caliber will be driven towards extinction. I wouldn't be surprised if cancel culture was made into a totalitarian law - it'd probably be known in history as "The Great Decline of Free Entertainment".
DeeBased 5y ago
"Soyboys." Such a great name to describe them!
Riddick_ 5y ago
Chris Delia maybe a lot of things but one thing he is not - he is not stupid. The dude knows he has the upper hand, and there will be groupies and women around available to him. Even if he was married this shouldn't be an issue. It should be between him and his partner.
Allegedly. Allegations. Maybes. This whole thing with: he DM em me and we went out for a drink or he said whatever. Nothing happened, and even if it did it wouldn't matter because consenting adults are involved. If there is a case, let the courts and lawyers sort it out.
Hordes of Women hitting the wall today are real mad that successful men in their 30s and 40s want to date / and can date younger women. You fucking morons: No they don't want you. Yes, no one WANTS to date your lying 35-40 old ugly ass with 300+ notch count because some chick in a sitcom made it acceptable. Most good guys are either taken, gay or simply not interested in your old, lying, fake, ugly ass.
These women are fucking delusional. Wont date anyone under unicorn height. Or someone that doesn't drive. Yet, they take the fucking bus... Also these type of women feel entitled to knock 5-10 years of their dating profiles by default, at least in Canada. They be 30 years old until they die. And you just have to accept that as a fact... OK. OLD is a JOKE.
And somehow it is YOU that you have to prove themselves of being worthy of a date...
What date? Who in the right mind wants to get involved with these clowns?
And you thirsty morons need to stop validating this sub human trash on OLD / social media / Instahoes. Pussy is not the end goal. Stop drooling! Start LIVING!
Rant Over.
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ebaymasochist 5y ago
The worst part is they have been bombing the shit out of their faces with chemicals, tanning excessively, drinking, eating too much sugar, weight problems, etc. that make them look worse at 30 than a healthy woman should look at 40
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Chris released a statement with an apology included.
DO NOT APOLOGIZE IF YOU'RE NOT GUILTY OF ANYTHING, only guilty people have to ask for forgiveness.
One of my favorites, Bill Burr, has confronted this new PC Culture and feminists on a regular basis and he never got in trouble because he doesn't fucking apologize and he always has a comeback.
oilwellpauper 5y ago
even if you are guilty don't apologize, it doesn't make anybody like you more
ezragriffin 5y ago
I was ill one time and couldn't attend a meeting. Boss[F] was AMGERY and in the next meeting, called me out in front of everyone. She accused me of not having professionalism, and I got pissed off. I talked back as if I didn't care if I was fired or not.
DON'T EVER APOLOGIZE. EVEN. IF. YOU. ARE. GUILTY. ESPECIALLY. IF. YOU. ARE. GUILTY.
ChillinOnReddit- 5y ago
You're specifically using the term "guilty", so it's hard to know what you mean exactly. So this message is directed at people reading in general, in regards to the idea of apologizing. Yes, do not apologize if you are not wrong. Do not apologize if you feel you're right.
I am someone that rarely apologizes. It is however important to apologize and take responsibility if you are wrong. Of course this is depending on what you did and context - whether in a friendly group setting,professional setting, to a customer etc.
People often misunderstand that apologizing = weakness. Someone that never apologizes when it's clearly evident they fucked up are insecure of themselves. They think apologizing is weakness. It's actually the opposite. A person that can't admit their mistake are weak.
Think of it this way. When a friend/boss does something clearly wrong in front of the group and they don't address it. What's the general consensus about them? You think they get respect? The view on them is negative and they get viewed with no respect by everyone. Their mistake simply doesn't disappear in people's minds. In a social/friend setting that person alienates themselves.
It's especially true if you're a boss or manager. A business with a boss/manager who can't take ownership of a mistake is a shitty boss/manager. The business isn't doing well either. Now let's compare that to the opposite. A boss who owns up to their mistake, what's your overall view of them? You respect them more. This applies to every position in life whether you're a teacher, boss, employee, or even a parent. I kinda believe people who never apologize were raised by parents that were never able to admit fault or take responsibility.
I'm not the only one that believes this. I know a friend in a pretty high position at a company, one that owns a small business, and one in the military. This is something we briefly touched on, not to this extent though. Their overall sentiment is they agreed.
Do not be a doormat but do take ownership for things.
mp111 5y ago
Bill burr had to do his Netflix standup outside the US because of sensitivity.
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That is true, he chose England for it but it was a personal choice to make sure it would go fine, I'm sure he could have done it in the US without repercussions.
SvenAtLarge 5y ago
Depends, British culture strangely accepts much more crass and obscene material in widespread entertainment. For example, most Euro-world TV is okay with naked breasts. British comedians can be surprisingly crude. Some things are very much off topic but they seem to make exceptions for adult entertainment. Like they still understand "this is comedy, it's not a church service".
EdvardMunch 5y ago
Yeah why didnt he threaten to sue for defamation?
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medicineandsports 5y ago
my boy drew brees also made the mistake of apologizing
courtesy_flush_plz 5y ago
yeah man that sucked, they were tryna burn him at the stake as if they found a couple of dead black kids in the trunk of his Mercedes
Keith_Valentine 5y ago
Yea that really angered me tbh. That is a great person and he did nothing wrong and people fuckin tried to mob him. Bullshit
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 5y ago
But he's a teammate. He was less concerned with what he said and more concerned with the way it impacted his team. Apologizing was the smarter move for his career imo.
Nospor 5y ago
Never apologize to any mob for any reason under any circumstances.
Mobs are amorphous. They have no spokesperson, no representative, and therefore no means of accepting any apology or renegotiating terms.
It is technically impossible for an apology issued to a mob to ever have any positive outcome.
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 5y ago
And my argument is that the apology wasn’t directed toward the mob, it was directed toward his teammates
SvenAtLarge 5y ago
So don't say it publicly as if it was to the mob.
MaxWyght 5y ago
Fuck that.
Do not apologize, ever.
PrincetonNarcissist 5y ago
It’s weak as hell to be unable to apologize when you fuck up.
SvenAtLarge 5y ago
To other men. Or to your children.
Context is pretty key. Apologizing is submissive by nature and that helps you with women like 2% of the time. The other 98% it only makes them loathe you more and emboldens more attacks.
MaxWyght 5y ago
Implying that you don't make sure in advance that you can't fuck up.
I haven't had to utter a single word of sincere apology in nearly 10 years, because I'm the guy who always warns you when you're about to fuck up, and then has to clean up after your fuck ups.
The last time I apologized at work was about 2 years ago, because my team lead at the time didn't heed the many, many warnings I've been providing, along with detailed statistics and price estimates, that we need to do some changes in the various support desks(Mainly, hire more workers).
Eventually I got sick of it, made sure she explicitly replied to my email saying that I better NOT go over her head over this, and waited.
4 months later, workloads started increasing.
After another 3 months, the CS teams started getting overwhelmed with work.
She got fired, I got a diagonal promotion(not sure if that's the term. Basically her job, but in a different department. A friend got her job).
What did I apologize for?
For listening to the orders of a shit manager who was too dumb to listen when someone was offering help.
When I moved to my new team, I made sure they understood that if they believe I'm not listening to valid input, they should tell me to fuck off, and go to the department head on their own.
PrincetonNarcissist 5y ago
Don’t apologize and don’t ever make mistakes are two different concepts but both are equally inapplicable for most people. It’s not a sign of weakness to apologize for a mistake that you make and most people aren’t gonna be the Superman you are to never make mistakes.
Couple months ago I accidentally knocked one of my plate’s nice ceramics off a shelf and it shattered into pieces. I suppose I could have just said “I broke your vase. Deal” but that’s not really the kind of person I want to be. It’s way easier for me to say “I broke your vase. Sorry plate#3. I’ll make it up to you” “Oh? How are you gonna do that u/PrincetonNarcissist?” Cue me trying out some new shit I’ve been working on with a FWB.
if that’s “beta-like” or makes my plate less attracted to me who gives a fuck. I’ll find a new one. The cost of a plate is far far lower than that of my self respect.
MaxWyght 5y ago
Yeah, probably should've worded it better.
Pardon the misunderstanding.
It's just that my personal dogma is to make sure I never find myself in a situation that requires me to apologize for anything.
Obviously if I actually wronged someone, I would apologize, but most days I just like to make sure I don't need to apologize in the first place.
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cadaemos 5y ago
Why are you posting this? Are you angry? Being mad does nor change anything. Taking the necessary steps to apply your knowledge does.
Pristine-Mechanic 5y ago
men were blessed with strength, women deception. par for the course
tenpointmatt 5y ago
Wait til all these women learn about groupies and band whores. Their fuckin heads are gonna explode.
dr_warlock 5y ago
The hamster is designed for that not to happen. Rationalization machine. Every generation of girls believes the same shit as the last. When they catch a hint past their fertility window, they just deny it while shaming the next gen.
acoltismypassport 5y ago
I've legit heard otherwise left-leaning, woke women talk about trying to get backstage with band members/in their dressing rooms in order to fuck them. In the same breath, they'll take up arms to defend the big bad patriarchy bullshit. The lack of awareness is astonishing.
tyrantgrey 5y ago
That thread is like being bullied for being alive. Reminds me of middle school.
Anytime women want power or have a stick up their ass, men are either “creepy” or “trapping” “young defenseless women,” cuz there’s a “power dynamic.”
There isnt even a fucking problem. She was 21.
If i had any fucking power i would sell these bitches in the slave markets of libya. Then they’ll see what power dynamics really are.
FuckTheLibsAndRepubs 5y ago
Women are slaves for the right man. The goal in life is to be the right man.
theguytheguy1000 5y ago
it's funny cos these women are so insufferable while simultaneously trying to end misogyny.
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it's like they want to stop hatred of women while simultaneously acting in a way that makes me really really really hate women. (obviously not all women but these types for sure).
Am0rph 5y ago
Did he force her to come to his Hotel bar? No
Did he start the entire interaction? No
Did he force her to do ANYTHING? No
But he is to blame. Hail Feminism
Gardener4Life4ever 5y ago
She forced him to pay for her drinks.
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prophetoffun 5y ago
Next time a woman tries to get me to do something I’ll steal from her too then
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haddonhopkins8 5y ago
Did you read the part of the post where OP said he diesnt know if those allegations are true and that isnt the point of the post? Those allegations are separate from the twitter thread.
crazyparty 5y ago
A lot of people come here to build scarecrows.
TheGreatConst 5y ago
Pedophilia is an attraction to prepubescent children, i.e. 12 y.o. or younger. The age of consent in most countries and states is already 16. And while you definitely shouldn't even think about fucking 13-15 y.o. because they are mentally undeveloped and unstable (this is why it is illegal in most countries), but some girls mature early and you wouldn't know their age without them telling you. One of my classmates looked like 25 y.o. when she was 14 and her voice was that of a MILF. Choosing to sleep with a minor under the age of consent is a crime, but mistaking someone's age - isn't. IDK about the allegations he faces, but I believe that if he got nudes from any 12 y.o. then he would be already in prison, lol.
GetBehindMeSatan666 5y ago
^ This ^
You guy should check out his Sub. All his fans flipped on him and its a fucking knife fight over there. Im seeing literal girls over 18 posting their interactions with him via DM when they were 18-27 saying what a creep he is when at the time their panties were soaking at the thought of sleeping with a man of his status.
tyrryt 5y ago
Not sure if you're talking about statutory rape, but in most jurisdictions it is a crime, mistake or no mistake. It isn't a defense that you didn't know her age, that she consented or even initiated, or even if she outright told you or showed some type of proof that her age was over the minimum.
In some places if the man is also a minor or close to the girl's age, the penalty is reduced - in others, it's strict liability, where there are no defenses at all, the only question is whether the girl is underage. If she is, no matter what else, the man is guilty.
TheGreatConst 5y ago
In my country (Russia) it depends on the person's age. 16 is the age of consent, so anyone can bang 16 y.o., no matter how old they are. If the person is 13-15 then it would be a crime to sleep with them if you knew their age (though it would be hard to prove that you didn't know, unless they lied and it is recorded somewhere), though there are some Romeo and Juliet laws at work as well (you can marry if you are less than 4 years apart). Also, all minors older than 13-14 can have sex with each other without any consequences, obviously. How is a minor having sex with another minor of a similar age could be a crime is a mystery to me.
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Domebeers 5y ago
Eh, this guy is one of the male feminists types. Happy it's happening to him.
DucardthaDon 5y ago
Nothing being blown up to something, the worse aspect is how people are trying to twist it. Like she's an adult, she is perfectly capable of thinking for herself.
Take a look at what is happening in the wrestling world today, shows in this day and age you need game and be careful how you step.
ebaymasochist 5y ago
I read the tweets and you misrepresented the fuck out of the point of the story. The girl was dtf the whole time. She understood they were going to bang. He was her role model. He moved the meet up location twice. From a bar, to the hotel bar. She complied. Then he says just go to the room. He was too lazy to at least meet her at the hotel bar for two minutes. So she had a couple drinks and the punchline of her story is... She asked him what his room number was to charge the drinks to his room. He thought she was going to just go to his room so he told her.. She was an aspiring comedian at the time. It's a joke.
Fellas this is kind of scraping the bottom of the barrel for outrage. I get that he's the minor celebrity here but come on, show a little life.
"Oh but he's so cool he doesn't even give a fuck about her cause smv and blah blah blah. Now she's just mad"
If that was your sister you wouldn't want some minor celebrity to be so lazy they can't even get in the elevator and go downstairs to have sex with her.
LotBuilder 5y ago
“I invited an adult to meet me in my hotel room, So what?” That’s would be the end of it
SKRedPill 5y ago
This is the latest 21st century shit test.
Twitter is an institution for the mentally challenged and brain damaged at this point.
DeakinFrost 5y ago
Only 20% of Twitter users are from the USA
BeefyBelisarius 5y ago
And those 20% are only about 2% of the US population.
SKRedPill 5y ago
Human stupidity is universal.
Sir-Lancelot-du-Lac 5y ago
Yeah and probably 80% of that number are feminists.
Ibannedbypowerabuse 5y ago
And fat if you hadnt noticed, wonder if there is a correlation
AstralAeonSoul 5y ago
Doesn't matter. 80% of tweets are generated by 10% of the users (source). Most of these 10% most active users are from the USA. Twitter is irrelevant everywhere else.
edit: to add something to the topic at hand. This thot's latest tweet (as of this point) is this: "I literally WISH men still looked at me like they did when I was 16". Link, for the internet does not forget. Human idiocy and women's solipsism knows no bounds.
SvenAtLarge 5y ago
Sophisticated bots generate a big portion of social media content now, too. I would include "pay for clicks" type operations where you pay for so many comments to be made by Indian or Chinese companies with call center size armies of workers with hundreds of fake accounts each.
They are doing this shit 24/7 for anyone with money and an agenda. From corporate marketing to political shilling.
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
'Infuriating example...'
'This behavior by said women is absolutely disgusting, reprehensible, unacceptable and is RUINING the dating scene in Western society.'
Dude, gonna be real with you here. Get out of the anger phase. It looks extremely sad to be so outraged over some girls tweet.
The fact is Chris was a fucking moron. Creep who tried to fuck everything under 20. In no way do I defend the girls or care at all about his situation. But it's a lesson to not be an idiot, cuz it'll bite you in the ass.
Otherwise, lighten up and stop being 'so infuriated' at the womanz. That'll bite you in the ass, too.
deville05 5y ago
I am gonna wait on this for more proof before I crucify or defend d'elia.
But as for your example You have picked something very specifically to support your ideology. There are accusations out there about him propositioning 16yr olds.
As for this example, it is meant to show that the guy is creepy. If you believe her version of the story then you might think that he can be creepy.. But i am sure she left out enough details in there.
tenpointmatt 5y ago
this is going to come to a shock to you, but... women like to fuck famous guys.
as to this story: this chick INITIATED CONTACT with the guy by DM'ing him to 'hang out'.
he takes her up on it (obviously thinking she is DTF - and why on earth wouldn't he think that? FFS he's famous, she's a total stranger, and she DMd him).
then she turns him down in the shittiest and cunty way possible. she clearly knew he just wanted to fuck (what - you think this guy just thought you look super interesting and wants to have a conversation to get to know you? lol). i mean, she even initiated the convo - she could have broke it off by just sending him a text saying 'not interested'.
but if all that isnt enough, she then turns around and spins it as a story of his 'abuse'? and puts him on blast to the entire word as some sort of sexual predator? GTFO. you're an absoulte cunt for defending this chick.
deville05 5y ago
Dude.. Im on your side. I'm telling you that perception matters. That's one of the main lessons of RP. You can't make women feel like sluts even if they are and i am pretty sure what happened with d'elia is this - he doesn't have learned game.. He was already rich and decent looking. On top of that he gets famous and he is bombarded with pussy.. he didn't use his brains and abused this gift/powet irresponsibly and wet his beak in every hole without even being covert about it. He treated them like pieces of meat. Women wanted to be that but they wanna feel like they are that to you because she is special. He fucked up on that front. I am pretty sure 2 chicks at a party got talking about de'lia and that became a group of 10 or more and now suddenly they come to the realization that they aren't special... They are just holes. And women don't like that.. and they decide to take him down to teach him a lesson. Are you new here?
bssftw 5y ago
deville05 5y ago
1 - ok but you did bring it up at a time when he is being accused.
2 - DM'd a chick to hang out at location A, changed location to B and then eventually to his room (that is if you belive her version of the story) without even meeting this chick. Thats a little creepy or atleast can be perceived as creepy in the world you live in. But more importantly than that, it's hella stupid and careless to leave that trail of evidence without even meeting a chick and vetting her.
functionalghost 5y ago
Lol are you a force of pure estrogen?
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Silent-Assassination 5y ago
She asked him to hang out not to be treated like a cum dumpster. If the dude had anything about him he would have treated her like the human being that she is and she wouldn't have charged drinks to his room in retaliation.
The guy had no game and his intentions were clear right from the get-go. He thought he could ride on his coattails of fame to fuck city. I have no sympathy for him.
Call-Me-Wacky 5y ago
You serious? I’m not to old, but if a random woman hits you up and says let’s hang out like your old pals or something, what does that insinuate? A cup of coffee and catching up? To me it seems like interest and a possible one night stand. Anyone else reading this don’t even do one night stands anymore, cause this.