At my college, I'm always at the gym at the same time as two big guys who have just about the same amount of muscle and body fat. You'd think they would look aesthetically similar, but they do not at all. One of them looks and walks like the perfect man, like a literal Greek God. The other still looks good I guess, but kind of blobbish, like a little proportionally off, and doesn't walk with the same pleasing posture, or "swag" if you will. After I noticed this, I started noticing more and more people, while having similar levels of muscle and body fat, looked aesthetically different in a similar way.

After taking note of this observation, I realized a very strong correlation. The people that looked like greek gods were athletes, while the people that looked a little blobbish, but with comparatively similar muscle and body fat, were not athletes, and purely lifted weights.

Men, it is criminal how understated the effect of coordination is on the looks department. If you don't believe me, just think biologically. If you take women into consideration, they biologically aren't necessarily looking for the strongest guy, they are also looking for the most graceful and perceptually dynamic. It's survival instinct. Women are perceptive, coordination is not just apparent in the way we move, but in the definition of our bodies. There is a reason why most women will oogle at the Cristiano Ronaldos and Julian Edelmans of the world over the local buff guy who is always flexing in the mirror and then waddling like a duck to the water fountain.

While a lot of it is genetic, coordination is absolutely something that can be developed through picking up some sort of dynamic activity like a sport and working hard at it, even if the sport is as basic as running. So men, pick up some sort of dynamic activity, even if it means substituting it for one day of the week out of your normal routine of static lifts. You'll be surprised at the wonders it does for you over time.

Obviously, going to the gym and just lifting is better than not going to the gym at all, so if you find some excuse not to pick up a dynamic activity, it's not the end of the world as long as you're still going to the gym.