At my college, I'm always at the gym at the same time as two big guys who have just about the same amount of muscle and body fat. You'd think they would look aesthetically similar, but they do not at all. One of them looks and walks like the perfect man, like a literal Greek God. The other still looks good I guess, but kind of blobbish, like a little proportionally off, and doesn't walk with the same pleasing posture, or "swag" if you will. After I noticed this, I started noticing more and more people, while having similar levels of muscle and body fat, looked aesthetically different in a similar way.
After taking note of this observation, I realized a very strong correlation. The people that looked like greek gods were athletes, while the people that looked a little blobbish, but with comparatively similar muscle and body fat, were not athletes, and purely lifted weights.
Men, it is criminal how understated the effect of coordination is on the looks department. If you don't believe me, just think biologically. If you take women into consideration, they biologically aren't necessarily looking for the strongest guy, they are also looking for the most graceful and perceptually dynamic. It's survival instinct. Women are perceptive, coordination is not just apparent in the way we move, but in the definition of our bodies. There is a reason why most women will oogle at the Cristiano Ronaldos and Julian Edelmans of the world over the local buff guy who is always flexing in the mirror and then waddling like a duck to the water fountain.
While a lot of it is genetic, coordination is absolutely something that can be developed through picking up some sort of dynamic activity like a sport and working hard at it, even if the sport is as basic as running. So men, pick up some sort of dynamic activity, even if it means substituting it for one day of the week out of your normal routine of static lifts. You'll be surprised at the wonders it does for you over time.
Obviously, going to the gym and just lifting is better than not going to the gym at all, so if you find some excuse not to pick up a dynamic activity, it's not the end of the world as long as you're still going to the gym.

Balderdash79 6y ago
After you gym, shoot some hoops.
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Solo, playing horse, half court 2 on 2, or full court, it doesn't matter.
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Basketball is your friend.
zeekt12 6y ago
Perfect example: https://youtu.be/FxPIODzh70o
beachbloke 6y ago
Some ideas for people looking for a hobby that will improve flexors/balancers:
BJJ and kick boxing are the best activities I've tried for improving coordination and poise.
fuckGuilt 6y ago
Judo helped immensely with coordination, and when I decided it was too risky, I switched to swing dancing which is even better as I get to put my hands on bitches.
zeekt12 6y ago
Lol i agree with this post but unless you are taking roids, you wont have that “bodybuilder look”
A natural lifter will generally have more of that athlete look
Andgelyo 6y ago
I’ve been saying this for years already. Most red pillers need to pick up a sport for cardio and to lean down. I usually lift and play basketball after. I occasionally throw indoor pool swimming in there once in a while. The most aesthetic bodies are the athletes, not the bulky gym rats who couldn’t run to save their own life.
RP_Throwaway_4U 6y ago
In my experience, I currently just lift with no other sports and I have been asked if I was a boxer before and get mired semi consistently. Guess genetics plays a big role too.
centaursg 6y ago
Zac Efron has that athletic body..I would take this body over someone extremely buff..
SalporinRP 6y ago
I felt much better now that I'm a lean 170-175 (at 5'10) than a few years back when I was really into body building and I was a lean 190-195.
I am so much quicker and so much more flexible. I loved looking ripped as fuck at 195 but feel so much better at 170.
AAtmozfears 6y ago
Would training Sambo be considered an athletic sport?
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Sparky159 6y ago
Very much so. Grappling sports in general (I took BJJ myself) will build explosiveness and coordination unlike anything else. While most sports will still build explosiveness, grappling forces you to be aware of everything you're doing, and everything your opponent is doing as well. Oftentimes, you can't even see what you're doing, and are relying on your sense of spatial awareness and instinct to guide you through the match
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The balance and coordination that come from martial arts and combat sports like Judo, Jiu-Jitsu, Sambo, Wrestling, etc. are incredible. Throw in some Yoga and stretching, and you'll have an incredibly functional physique.
BetamaxOrVHS 6y ago
you're right. there's definitely aspects of my physique that are from doing bjj as opposed to lifting. i feel like grappling did something along the lines of "glueing" my musculature together. #broscience
firas zahabi - a well respected mma trainer - says he can tell someone is a fighter just by their shoulders. and if you look at most high level grapplers, they tend to have the same build.
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Can you link me the video of firas?
BetamaxOrVHS 6y ago
tried finding it. that guy has so many AMAs on training it's hard to pinpoint.
NEW_JERSEY_PATRIOT 6y ago
HIIT. Sprints, ropes, sleds, ect. Best bang for you buck.
SomeAverageChap 6y ago
Will playing basketball and lifting weights help me achieve this greek body?
bemore_ 6y ago
I'd recommend full body stretching and/or foam rolling. Most lift with incorrect form and limit their range of motion and it causes imbalances and tightness in areas that wouldn't normally be
I spend more time stretching than I do at the gym and I lift heavier, run faster and recover better every time. You just gotta sacrifice your numbers for a couple months. There's a solidity or strength in my movement, almost like I'm slowed down from lifting but I move very naturally and fluidly, which makes it look like I don't lift at all when I'm wearing clothes
Like it's better to have amazing posture than to walk like you are carrying watermelons
thewrecker8 6y ago
Looking aesthetic for the most part is a result of diet. Naturally if you lift and play a sport you're burning up more calories and as a result can get away with a bit looser diet. I remember when Michael Phelps was on top of the world at his Olympic performance where he took the lead in most swimming medals. In an interview he said he took in 11K calories a day. But he was working his ass off in the pool and gym. Muscles are built in the gym but they're shown in the kitchen.
wanderer779 6y ago
I've played a lot of sports, not well but I played them. The one I noticed that was the best for what OP is talking about was boxing.
AdverbNoun 6y ago
Athletic ability and coordination is mostly genetic. All you can do is provide the right stimulus, and your genes will express themselves. It's good to read up on what's under ones control and what isn't, so you can direct your efforts towards the right things and stop wasting time.
Suggested reading:
The sports gene - David Epstein
Body by science - Doug Mcguff
youcancallmedada 6y ago
What does the sports gene say, in short?
JJ9OO8KK5II 6y ago
How is it wasting time if you're trying to get your genes to express themselves the best way possible? You just made a case to follow OP's recommendation to a point. Unless I interpreted your comment incorrectly, you just contradicted yourself.
AdverbNoun 6y ago
Not arguing with OP, really. I liked his post and am just adding something I see as relevant
Wasting time would be picking the wrong activity, or expecting to move like Ronaldo with the genetics of a power lifter, for example. Not gonna happen.
General_Shou 6y ago
I agree with most of what you've said here but not this. If you're only worried about competitive performance, than I would agree that it may be a waste of time for a powerlifter to train in swimming. But if you're approaching this from an aesthetic/well-rounded-functional stand point, then I don't think an all-or-nothing mentality is appropriate.
Even though you may not become a national level swimmer as a powerlifter, cross training can be very beneficial. You'll still develop increased muscle density, anaerobic/lactate threshold, coordination, vascularity, and lowered body fat. The human body has an incredible capacity to adapt when training in a sport opposite to what you're used to/good at.
qq5016 6y ago
Yes and no. Genetics are required to be a top athlete, and non-gifted people do have to work harder to reach the same level, but everyone can be waaaay more coordinated with some effort put in
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I don’t get this whole coordination thing. Are dudes on here really tripping and falling around the club when they go out or something? Like how tf is this applicable outside of a sports environment. Y’all would have me believe that Christiano Ronaldo’s walk/gait is what makes girls cream their pants and not his face/ money/status
feedthecatcomics 6y ago
(Most) People are very good at picking up tiny signals from other peoples body language, how long is their gait, how straight is their back how relaxed are their shoulders how calmly do they turn their body to pass you a drink or reach forward and shake their hand. It's no coincidence that frame describes how you hold your body and how you appear to a woman. If you are extremely coordinated it will show and come off as solid confidence. I would go far as say that a woman instinctually can tell which man has a better chance of catching an agile quick animal.
BumblingBeta 6y ago
This thread has nothing to do with coordination, OP is misinformed on what that term actually means. OP has merely described genetics and having low body fat.
feedthecatcomics 6y ago
(Most) People are very good at picking up tiny signals from other peoples body language, how long is their gait, how straight is their back how relaxed are their shoulders how calmly do they turn their body to pass you a drink or reach forward and shake their hand. It's no coincidence that frame describes how you hold your body and how you appear to a woman. If you are extremely coordinated it will show and come off as solid confidence. I would go far as say that a woman instinctually can tell which man has a better chance of catching an agile quick animal.
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My thoughts exactly. He’s unknowingly describing body fat and genetics. Why on earth does this post have any upvotes lol
SalporinRP 6y ago
Coordination was the wrong word but you're retarded if you think it's all down to genetics.
BumblingBeta 6y ago
Yeah you obviously have to put in the effort, but your muscle insertions are down to genetics. Some people are endomorphs with naturally thick waists/obliques and no amount of dieting down to low body fat will get rid of that. Some people have longer tendons so their biceps start further up their arms, making their arms look smaller and not as good.
You seem quite naive about all this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDRFqrHCGbs This guy explains the concept of genetics in muscle building very well. He's been bodybuilding for years and goes into great detail about the limitations of genetics.
growingstronk 6y ago
I love vitruvian physique :)
With that said tho, you’re showing a person who has been successful in bodybuilding competitions with just mid-tier genetics (according to him, himself). Thus, you prove the idea that genetics has only a partial role in deciding aesthetics
EmoNiteIsForLovers 6y ago
Ever catch something before it falls or manage to stay balance/on your feet? Women will always comment immediately in approval.
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I can tell you’ve never even touched the sidebar. Imagine trying to compare the SMV of a lonely bodybuilder to someone playing a D1 sport at a big college and thinking the only reason girls prefer the latter is “athleticism”. Lmao what happened to this sub.
Fame + potential for money/money + aesthetics clearly trumps just aesthetics. But no, to you it’s just that the other guys throw a ball around when they aren’t lifting weights that makes them more attractive? Do you see how stupid that sounds? Lol I think you’re just trying to protect your ego because you know you’ll never get to that D1 level of fame and so therefore telling yourself that doing some sort of “athletic” activity is going to make you look better...
You’re also not recognizing different people have different genetics. Even if I were to believe that you have the experience and ability to estimate other guy’s bf% (you don’t), some people are just more symmetrical than others. Different people have different gaits and different levels of confidence in their walk. The fact that you don’t acknowledge this is astonishing.
Anyways if anyone does want to incorporate “athleticism” into their strength programming, box jumps and farmers carry are great exercises.
Just my 2cents this post is garbage
TRP_Introspection 6y ago
Something else that needs to be considered is stretching. If your tight (especially in your hip flexors) it will reflect in the way you move. Your feet will be more prone to point inwards (beta) vs directly ahead or slightly outward. Strengthen opposing ABductor muscles to correct (glute medius). This will also help to correct knock knees which looks equally beta.
Also if you have anterior pelvic tilt you mine as well be walking around as a girl (butt sticks out). To correct, Strengthen abs/glutes and continue stretching hip flexors.
CainPrice 6y ago
I don't know if coordination is what's responsible for the difference you're seeing. It's more like the difference between picking up and dropping a heavy object in the same repetitive motion for five years straight versus changing up your workouts to hit different muscles in different ways. Or maybe the difference between dynamic full body movements and using a weight machine.
The general point is correct - it's stupid to be physically fit but not actually physically active and capable. A guy who's jacked and super ripped who can't catch a ball and runs the same way a fat person runs is silly. It's a great idea to add a sport or martial art to your life. Something athletic besides just lifting.
Sr_Afro 6y ago
Yeah man, I had a girl to compliment the way I ran as I was missing my bus...
thebarnhouse 6y ago
I think it's a mental thing. I lift for sport and I train people to lift for sport. Even the fat guys on the team will walk around with more swagger than anyone whose in the gym just to look good.
WOLFY-T 6y ago
Of course, how you carry yourself matters. I move gracefully rather than hastefully.
lord_have_merci 6y ago
strength training is the answer. (vs bodybuilding)
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 6y ago
There is definitely some truth to this. Bodybuilding is for picking up girls. Strength training is for yourself.
Odd_String 6y ago
This is a great post. I'd like to add that athletes also generally have better form because their risk of injury is higher.
Sumsar01 6y ago
Wtf are you talking about? Watch any YouTube video of pro athletes squatting/power cleaning/benching it will make you cry.
ogkushinjapan 6y ago
Maybe he meant Athletes go through proper coaching and training to avoid injury. Hence having a higher chance of a more balanced program instead of Kinobody cookie cutter programs
Sumsar01 6y ago
Many athletes are not trained very well in the resistance training departement. But it doesnt matter much if your born a athletic freak.
I hope no one does kinobody's program.
Clio6ixGod 6y ago
Also that athletes could be more worried about injuries and therefor practice safer and better form when lifting rather than forcing higher weights with shittier form. I'm just assuming this is what Odd_String meant.
LeftHookTKD 6y ago
Did you read his comment? Go watch how pro athletes lift weight or do things like bw exercises. Terrible form. Most athletes rely on their genetics and have garbage form
dani098 6y ago
“You would think they look aesthetically similar”
No you wouldn’t. Why would you?
bakamoney 6y ago
Different aesthetic needs and goals for different people...
Who would have thought!!
Lol
Das_Teacher 6y ago
Double that. One could be and ectomorph and the other one and endomorph for all we know.
trentsteel2 6y ago
That's why you do calisthenics lads :)
l4w_z0ne 6y ago
Thats why lots of Hollywood actors do functional Training besides lifting heavy stuff. Not because it looks fancy but because it makes them look better
farshadnm 6y ago
True. basically what Jeff Cavalier always talks about. conditioning the muscles with practical movements.
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thepesterman 6y ago
This is spot on, spending a lot of time doing a dynamic sport really helps with coordination and general motor skills, I think it helps when it's something that requires good technique like martial arts or swimming, but you are basically teaching yourself how to control your own body parts. It also has the added benefit of being able to pick up new sports really quickly because you already know how to control your body.
Think of it as the difference between a new born lamb and an adult the lamb looks really awkward on its feet because it can't really control its own body yet
INNASKILLZ2K18 6y ago
There are other ways, arguably better than sports to gain posture and asthetics.
Yoga can be incredible. Advanced Yoga can tone, add upper body strength and give a huge amount of 'body awareness'. You can become much more connected to your body.
Another way is by doing Alexander Technique. This is THE shit, and an secret weapon.
Train with a Alexander teacher and they will basically reset your entire posture to the way it was at birth. Prefect spinal alingment. They then teach you how to move from your joints. How to move properly. It opens your entire body and you move effortlessly.
The best acting schools in the world all use Alexander Technique, and many dance schools. It gives actors huge stage presence, and allows your body to always be 'open'.
Beauty is, once they've reset your body it states with you for life. You can do a couple very simple exercises and boom, you're back in alingment.
You just 'hang' from the top of your spine. I did it in acting schools years ago, and the difference was incredible.
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Foundation Exercises are also immensely helpful in soothing back pain and correcting posture
Vikingcel 6y ago
Would you write a post on some Alexander technique basics for the average RP bro?
INNASKILLZ2K18 6y ago
I would, but you honestly can't.
It's something you can only do with a professional. They will teach you how to realign when needed, but they have to 'reset' your body for you first.
It's really powerful.
INNASKILLZ2K18 6y ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nZQFdh41wXU
INNASKILLZ2K18 6y ago
Actually, let me try and throw some basic principles and theory out there.
You know when most guys are told 'straighten up, fix your posture' they consciously pull their shoulders back, puff their chest out, hold there head back?
That's all effort. That's like trying to hold a million different muscles in place, and most guys eventually say 'fuck this' and go back to slouching or whatever.
Alexander Technique teaches that the whole body falls into place effortlessly if you lift up from one central place. At the back of the head, on the top of the spine, and just below where the skull begins.
You can 'hang' from that spot, and all the spine and skeleton hangs in place. Like holding a fake skeleton or doll.
They lay you on a table, back down. The teacher will pull your head upwards, and you feel your whole spine shift. They then pull and realign all your major body parts. Like your arms legs. They get in beneath you and slide your ribs and hhips and shit back into place.
Eventually they roll you over, keeping you perfect alingment, and sit you up. They'll put a mirror infront of you, and you're like 'hold shit'. You're more 'open' and in perfect posture than you've probably seen, while being really relaxed.
Over a few sessions, it's gets easier and easier. They then show you a few exercises which help you realign yourself. Really simple shit, like bending over in a chair, lifting back up fro that place in the back of the head, a few other simple exercises, and boom you're back in total alingment.
They then teach you how to move, whilst just staying 'pulled up ' from that place at the top of the spine. No 'holding the body in place'. It's effortless.
They teach you how to move without compromising or 'closing' your body.
You learn how to walk, stand, sit, whatever, with that place in the back of the head sitting perfectly. The rest of the body just hangs, totally open in perfect posture.
You can do shit like sitting, having coffee, totally upright, open, and just moving the arms effortlessly. You can sit at your computer for hours with perfect posture, no ache or shit from trying to sit upright.
Moving and walking is awesome. You have presence. Shoulders are broad, spine long. It puts the diaphragm where it should, so your voice is sooth and low.
At first, it's intense. The reason we close up our bodies, hunch etc, is because of emotion. We store emotion in the body. When you first do Alexander you purge everything that's stored up. It's fucked up.
The difference it makes in people in amazing. Opera singers, actors, athletes all do it. I know it sounds crazy, but people become more attractive. Their face opens up. All that tension and shit disappears.
Like I said, it stays with you for life. I did it over ten years ago, and I can still take about 5 mins and put myself in perfect posture.
Watch dudes like Hugh Jackman on stage, and see how he moves. Always open, effortless and fully visible.
If you can do it, I recommend it. It gives a huge amount of body awareness and body control. It's actually a really beautiful feeling. I catch myself tired, sloutching, sit down and realign and it's like 'aaahhh, there it is'. You can own and control a room. You can be more present and commanding without effort.
It really helps guys with low confidence and self esteem. There is a natural connection between physiology and psychology. Stand upright, open, head and spine in perfect place and you can't help but be present, open and not 'hiding'.
SelfMadeAlpha 6y ago
Sounds really interesting! But are you 100% that this will bring about the same benefits OP mentioned in this post? Thanks for the info!
INNASKILLZ2K18 6y ago
It will bring excellent benefits. Nothing can replace lifting for building a strong body.
Something like Alexander technique lets you have body awareness, coordination and much better movement.
The two are different, but compliment each other.
EkMard 6y ago
Yup, good comment. Highly recommended.
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evader9992 6y ago
You're honestly spot on. A lot of others here will mark this down as BroScience or say it's not true, but the fact is, that's because a lot of Red Pillers aren't ex-athletes. They never did anything athletic in their lives, and now are just lifting a bit.
There is no question that a combination of lifting + general athletic movements produces not only a great looking body, but also the most functional, injury-resistant body. Plus, I would take a top tier athlete's body any day over a "men's physique" body. A big part of what you're noticing is that the athletes know how to move around fluidly, smoothly. Unlike a gym rat who has a few muscles but couldn't play basketball to save his life.
Swallowed_the_pill 6y ago
I have a friend who is like this. He was a guy only playing trumpet and games untill he finished high school and went to the army. Then he started lifting extremely seriously. Putting his workouts, nutrition and sleep on top of everything else.
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He is an alright guy, and is now incredibly fit with low body fat on top of being tall. However, as he has never done anything that really requires good coordination, he is really robotic in everything he does. Whenever we are doing any sort of throwing or kicking, such as using a frisbee, kicking a soccer ball etc... He's just really awkward and it looks so off.
Battagliare 6y ago
I do Kendo + Boxing and i look better than gymrats.
Lifting isnt that good bros its waste of time compared to good old punching or sword fighting
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 6y ago
Yeah, we're definitely on the exact same page. The benefits go far beyond aesthetics as well. Do Red Pillers think lifting is hard? Try pushing for a PB on a 5k, or pushing yourself to the absolute brink in the 5th set of a match against an opponent who wants it equally as bad as you do. The shit really builds mental fortitude.
Honestly, considering this sub is so women-centric, I'm surprised that people don't accept this. There are real reasons why athletes get more puss than people who solely lift.
ahg1008 6y ago
Yes. Exactly. In my blue pill days I was a boxer and not a buff dude.. I got way more pussy than when I became buff. I started boxing again and lost muscle but women like me more.. They say I have a better presence.. whatever that means... As long as the punani bar is open I dont really care.
TheRedPillRipper 6y ago
Or coming back from 20 point deficit in a rugby final.
Are you no longer an athlete if you don’t compete? Whenever my eldest asks ”daddy why don’t you eat cake?” my answers always the same; ”cause I’m an athlete.” I may have hung up the cleats; but I’m still competing in the hardest game of all.
Honestly I’m biased but I think every man should play a season of rugby. There’s no other sport quite like it. I also trained with several champion boxers for a years and though I loved the boxing(didn’t mind all that running either) and my hand-eye and reflexive speeds where unbelievable.
You honestly feel like you’re walking around on a different planet. Every man should in their life give themselves the opportunity to experience it. Puts minutiae of the daily grind into a hell of a perspective.
Godspeed and good luck!
wendysNO1wcheese 6y ago
Running a 5k isn't athletic. At least not in the way playing basketball or tennis is. I've seen a lot of goofy ass people running.
evader9992 6y ago
Yep exactly. There's something just so special about the top tier sports-basketball, tennis, football, soccer. To be good at them, you have to have a crazy balance of athleticism, strength, and fitness. Lifting will never compare to them, and neither will just running in a straight line for a 5K.
wendysNO1wcheese 6y ago
Hockey still impresses the shit out of me every time I watch it. Maybe because it's one of the only sports I never played. I just don't see how those dudes can do what they do.
Siyuen_Tea 6y ago
I figured athletes get pussy because they're celebrities/ leader of men. The question is how much pussy does a competitive bodybuilder get over a 5k competitor. How much pussy does a strongman competitor get over a CrossFit competitor. Those are the real numbers that need to be researched.
gainz74 6y ago
Couldn't agree more, lift 5 days a week but also run 5ks every week and the mental determination it takes to push yourself to beat your pb is stronger than pushing for more reps in the gym imo. It enables you to become a more all-round athletic person as opposed to just looking like one, especially psychologically.
fdsafdasfdsafds 6y ago
How many women do you need? We all know it really doesn't matter whether you lift or lift + athletics or lift + do absolutely fucking nothing. What's the difference? Maybe I'll have access to 10,000 women instead of 5,000 women? Negligible BS maximising.
People need to get that through their heads, too -- it's the top 20%! Not the top 1%. Relax, this shit is easy. You're surrounded by life-wasting morons. Exercise and look after yourself. How many times do we need to regurgitate this stuff?
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NormalAndy 6y ago
A lot of top athletes kick sex into touch while training for an event. In the end it depends on where you want to have an edge in your life: girls, sports, business, spirituality, family. Getting what you want requires adaptation and focus.
I think the common factor is that success comes from putting yourself first.
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mravek 6y ago
If I may add, team sports boost testostorone and build better frame.. I play soccer and every once in a while on practice other guys shit test you hard just to see if you are 'man enough' to still be part of the team (aka man cave).
BumblingBeta 6y ago
No, that's just called normal banter. Might be an alien concept to a lot of introverts here, but most people socialise by bantering and lightly making fun of each other.
Swallowed_the_pill 6y ago
Shit tests and banter have a lot in common. They also both have a lot in common with the physical play fighting you do as a kid. You give a light jab to test limits/reactions and if both respond well to eachothers jabs, they build a better connection. If one overreacts or does something really wierd, over time you stop playing with them.
BumblingBeta 6y ago
I guess that's why no one wants to play with me, so to speak :(
chairdepoule 6y ago
To be frank, especially if it's only happening to you, it sounds like you're being bullied
mravek 6y ago
Happens to everyone, especially after some bad games in a row.
Harry_Wangs 6y ago
I think you are overstating the mental benefits of athletic competition in comparison to lifting.
I have competed at very high levels at various sports. Different sports really train different areas. Endurance sports = pain. Sprinting = anxiety and adrenaline. Coordination based = focus in the face of fatigue/anxiety. Weightlifting = fear, especially when you're lifting weights that can really destroy your body.
If you don't think lifting is hard, I suspect you don't lift very heavy. I do find squatting 400 lbs+ for reps during training 3X a week extremely fatiguing both physically and mentally. I don't find it easier than training for athletics.
It all depends on what level you take things to. If you casually lift weights for a nice pump and leave, then of course not that hard. But if you're trying to be the strongest guy in a weight lifting competition, of course it's hard.
Eulerbrah 6y ago
If you don't think lifting is hard, I suspect you didn't get injured yet lol
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 6y ago
You're basically right. Lifting can absolutely be hard, and you can absolutely build mental fortitude when you're pushing yourself to the brink to do the absolute best you can do on a lift. It's just that most people don't do this: they weightlift to pick up chicks, not entirely for themselves, and not AT ALL for competition. I would agree that training to be the top weightlifter in the world takes a similar amount of mental fortitude compared to training to be a top athlete in any sport.
But I think when we're talking about aesthetics, athletes in other sports who also weight train take the cake.
guyau 6y ago
Isn't the point of your post 'gym rats, do more mobility and athletic excercises to get more girls'?
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 6y ago
I may have talked about girls too much. It should be "gym rats, do more mobility and athletic exercises to look and feel better." Girls really shouldn't be an issue tbh. Focus on yourself.
Angelrun 6y ago
Dude men’s physique doesn’t even look human anymore I feel you
KeffirLime 6y ago
It's mostly genetic, related to body type. I trained at a national level sports gym for 5 years, strictly athletes who had been athletes for most of their lives, and there were huge variations in aesthetic appearance.
All were dedicated gym goer's but the majority were blobbish simply because they were endo/mesomorphs. They had thicker wrists, ankles, calves, waists and necks. They could get pretty big, but had a lot more trouble looking aesthetically pleasing from a women's perspective.
The prime pussy tingle physiques were simply ectomorphs who had put on muscle. Stayed lean alot easier, kept small waists, still had smaller wrists, but put muscle on in the main visible areas(chest, shoulders, arms, abs). Also didn't have it in them genetically to get too big.
If they all had their shirts off, you'd say the ectomorphs were top level athletes and the endomorphs were blob gym goers, when in reality they were all athletes.
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Vikingcel 6y ago
This guy doesn't look aesthetic. I would say he looks 'blobby'.
Yet, Alexander Karelin was such an athlete he dominated Olympic wrestling for years without a single loss. He finally lost after 10+ years to an American who cheesed the rules and was simply too fat to be picked up.
dongpal 6y ago
lol what. Let him stay upright and he looks amazingly aesthetic. Also, not in a gay tight string. Also, he is a mega mesomorph
Zech4riah 6y ago
He is mega endomorph...check pictures again. Also the pictures where he is younger. Choose a right angle (right from the front).
Vikingcel 6y ago
https://i1.wp.com/sportobzor.ru/uploads/images/карелин%202(1).jpg
He doesn't have a narrow waist, zero V taper etc.
https://cf.girlsaskguys.com/q1986756/7e15222f-8af8-43da-92b5-c1343d400fed-m.jpg
That's what people imagine when you say aesthetic.
dongpal 6y ago
Well, a narrow waist looks astethic but it means less muscle around your abs which you need to stabilize. just google "crossfit men" or "crossfit women". 99% of X frame.
Karelin is also 51 years old. Show me an 51 year old where you look like that with 130kg bodymass.
max_peenor 6y ago
I was blobbish as you call it until around 19. I started lifting at 13 (my older brother was a hardcore body builder). It was later when my shoulders started filling out and it changed my entire appearance. People thought I lost weight or something like that. Nope I didn't do anything; I was the same weight and I was doing the same stuff with my body. I just got older. So I'm guessing shoulders are the key.
MilkMoney111 6y ago
It’s about the V taper. Developing the shoulders is the best thing for creating that illusion. Followed by lats and chest. I competed in physique shows and even if I was hitting those 3x a week I always got critiques to develop those areas more.
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It is about the v-taper but it’s also about the shoulder-to-waist ratio.
6sterile6 6y ago
I think you’re talking about pelvic bone and not waist
I got a big pelvis but my shoulder to waist ratio makes me have a some what vtaper
Pelvis and waist ain’t the same thing
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Nope, I’m definitely talking about what the medical establishment refers to as the “waist:”
https://www.unm.edu/~abryan/articles/femalehipratio.pdf
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fuckGuilt 6y ago
Aren't they the same thing?
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They’re similar but not the same. V-Taper refers to the shape of one’s torso (mostly determined by lat muscles) while shoulder-to-waist ratio refers to the difference between one’s shoulders and waist (mostly determined by deltoids and core muscles).
fuckGuilt 6y ago
Gotcha. So a dude could have a decent v-taper without a low bodyfat % (I mean, not high but not low) while the shoulder/waist is really delts + low bodyfat % (strong core in both).
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Theoretically I guess so, but in reality I’ve only seen nice V-tapers on guys with relatively low bf%. For me (and many other men it seems) I carry some weight around the hips when I’m at a high bf%, which really works against my v-taper.
Yes
Slightly up for debate. If you look at Crossfitters of both genders, they have really strong cores but a strong core can actually work against one’s v-taper and s-to-w ratio if it makes your waist too big in proportion. Golden age bodybuilders like Vince Gironde sometimes recommended to specifically avoid training abs to maximize the smallness of one’s waist:
http://ironguru.com/the-small-waistline-by-vince-gironda/
YMMV, I recommend experimenting and finding out what works for you. What works for me is planks + side planks + stomach vacuums + Larry Scott’s “Ring of Fire” excercise (google it, it’s obscure and counterintuitive but FUCKING LEGIT).
This (in combination with my other training) gives me a nice V-taper and s-to-w ratio, and a relatively strong core, but not strong enough to take away from my v-taper and s-to-w ratio. It’s all about proportions :)
I typically don’t have visible abs (I stay around 12-15% BF and I don’t like being any leaner than that for long periods of time because it starts fuckin’ with my sex drive and energy.) Anytime I want abs I just go OMAD (one meal a day) for a few days, lose some water weight, get down to like 10% bf, and my abs start poppin’.
This way I’m always strong and always 2-3 days away from a six pack if I want one, rather than trying to maintain a six pack year-round, which I find works against me in the energy and sex drive departments.
Everyone is different so I recommend experimenting with different styles of core training (or lack thereof).
For example: some people have different bodily proportions than me and can do hanging knee raises to great effect, but when I do them I get too much hip/IlioPsoas activation which takes away from my proportionality and makes me look like a crossfitter, so I stay away from hanging leg/knee raises and instead focus on the core exercises i describe above, which (for my body type) keeps my core relatively strong while avoiding hip activation and keeping my waist trim.
Thanks for being chill tonight.
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ArdAtak 6y ago
This is pure truth. I've been an athlete all my life and I very conciously, through diet and exercise choices, make sure that I look and move more like an athlete than a body builder or power lifter. The difference is immense.
Zech4riah 6y ago
Those "blobbish" guys are the ones who are stuck on working out only on sagittal plane (as are 98% of the people who go to the gym, including most likely the more advanced "redpill lifters").
If you want to look like an athlete, workout like an athlete which means that you need to stop doing only workouts which hit sagittal plane.
Doings sports of course helps but you can have the athletes physique (lookwise) by doing only gym if you just pick up correct excercises.
feedthecatcomics 6y ago
You hit the nail on the head, so expect to be downvotes on Reddit
stirringlion 6y ago
Can you share your favourite non sagittal exercises?
Zech4riah 6y ago
These are the ones i tend to do most
So as you can see, the key here is to do exercises asymmetrically one side at a time. Also every exercise hits you core in a way or another. Strong core is mandatory for having functional physique in addition for it to look like athletes physique.
Downside here is that the gym session tends to take 15-20mins longer because most exercises are done one side at a time. When I'm on a hurry, I tend to fallback to "normal" sagittal plane exercises.
Ballyop 6y ago
Would any one handed cable pull fit into this category too? I sometimes do low-to-high cable pulls for front and side delts and can understand the function of the core when doing so.
Zech4riah 6y ago
Yes they would but because delts are kind of weak so you can't use enough weight to hit the core significantly but they certainly could be an addition to this routine. (In my list one hand shoulder presses have a bit of an same issue - it doesn't activate core as much as the other lifts).
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FatAssSwag 6y ago
yeah no. The better looking guy probably has better insertions, symmetry, and balance to his physique
youngandaspire 6y ago
I think what OP is getting at (from a scientific basis) is the development of often overlooked muscles like deep muscles or flexors. While these don't give the appearance of bulk, they help you to move fluidly and have better posture. These muscles can be tricky to isolate which is why athletes are more developed in these regions.
If you're curious, check out this page on skeletal muscles.
Also, here's a couple of resources:
https://exrx.net/Lists/Articulations
https://exrx.net/Lists/Muscle
They used to have this cool thing with a diagram of every muscle and you could click on it, but they got rid of that and now they just have naked 3d models which is pretty lame.
General_Shou 6y ago
It's that + increased muscle density, vascularity, and lower body fat. And developing those "often overlooked" muscles will give your physique a more aesthetic "flow".
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Haha you’re basically explaining why training like a strength athlete with big compound movements is better than doing isolation gay bodybuilder movements.
Athletes train the basic big 4 or 5 barbell exercises then train skill on the field. If you want to train those “hidden” muscles, throwing big weight overhead while standing is going to hit just about everything. Pulling from the floor is gonna activate just about everything and so will squats. Doing weighted chins is gonna grow everything. No need for tiny small isolation exercises that only work for guys who are juiced to the gills. And by all means, get juiced if you find that’s what’s necessary, but don’t waste your time with isolations unless you’re a true advanced lifter who NEEDS to do isolation due to maximum recoverable volume
Think about it, you think anyone who squats 4 plates , deadlifts 5, and benches 3 has weak flexors adductors etc...not a chance
feedthecatcomics 6y ago
Although compounds do get you huge, there's also a lot of focus on lateral and rotational forces along with flexibility which most powerlifters tend not to primarily focus on There's so many small muscles that are worked in balance exercises and sports muscles that you won't you see in your big 5. Ever seen a dude deadlift 450 pounds with twig calves? It's very possible
Spicychickenaholic 6y ago
I've noticed this too, getting big from the gym is great, but it won't change the very way you walk like being an athlete (in my case hiking) will.
in my experience you get better reactions from women when you walk like you can burst out running at any moment. I'd like to guess that maybe women are actually noticing leg/core strength that most gym bros lack, BUT every study on it I've seen showed that upper body strength is what contributes most to a man's attractivenes so.. I guess it's a mystery, but when I finish any endurance activity every girl I meet seems to give me IOIs, maybe it's just the dopamine hit.
jonsmif9797 6y ago
Dynamic movement and wanna look swag?
Latin dancing for people who wants to allocate time away from sports/gym. You learn to lead physically, identify IOIs from women who want you to lead the dance, learn to ask girls out to dance with you on the dance floor, dance to the beats, learn to move your arms and hips to music, etc.
duoga 6y ago
Or if you prefer jazz, swing dancing.
baeslick 6y ago
I can attest to this, definitely a great way to loosen up and learn how to communicate, pick up on signals, lead confidently, etc. I recommend salsa and bachata, bachata is easier for people who have less experience dancing
SoyTanto 6y ago
I’ve been taking latin dance for almost 2 months now. I’m still struggling to be smooth, footwork, balance, ect but one big benefits is the social aspect of it.
If you are someone who is uncomfortable with physical touch / keno, this helps a lot. A group class is a constant rotation of you practicing with multiple girls. Ranging from young to old, skinny to fat. It helped me alleviate some anxiety of physical touch.
I was also so surprised at how dancing is so dependent on the man. You literally “lead” them the entire dance. And the girls really enjoy dancing once you know just a bit. Like I said , im 2 months in from knowing nothing.
fuckGuilt 6y ago
A year into swing dancing all I know is I'm hooked. There's little better Red Pill training than putting your hands on women and moving them where you want them.
Tutsks 6y ago
*kino.
That said, yes. Swing dancing is great too, and girls love it.
Biggest factor is to do it a lot, not just during the classes, but also as a hobby. Go dancing every week for a while.
It is rare to go home without a girl.
fuckGuilt 6y ago
I'm probably older and need to avoid a creep reputation like the plague....I'm loving swing dance, but follows in my regular spots, esp. in classes, are training partners. That's my mindset.
jonsmif9797 6y ago
It will get much better, and the journey to become a good lead is worth it. Girls dig it (you will be surprised how many girls can't actually dance without a good lead.)
HornedBul 6y ago
I didn't realize how women want a guy who takes the reins until I started dancing. I'm just a couple months in, but at the start I would only repeat what the teacher said, like a robot. I could learn them, but after the teacher's routine we had some additional time to improvise and work on other movements we wanted. Autistic^^TM me would pretty much freeze at that part. Women were like "that's fine, don't worry"
I eventually decided to just go for it and do some additional basic movements. I felt like I was being clumsy and basic, but when I looked at the girl her face just lit up. It was bliss for her.
SoyTanto 6y ago
That’s where I’m at now. I can get through the routines, but any sort of free style time, I’m completely lost. I can learn the routine for the class, but I’m not retaining it.
Occasionally if I add a simple spin in where it’s not supposed to be, it always makes the girl smile/laugh. So I see the potential.
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apathetic_rock 6y ago
Yes a thousand times. Physically, you want to get as close as possible to a combination of an athlete and a boxer. And that's why I'm not sold on bodybuilding. Edit: also do mobility exercises.
BendAndSnap- 6y ago
This whole thread is tall guys and guys who think they're tall desperately trying to jerk themselves off. Girls like muscles, period. Doesn't matter if you're walking with the grace of a swan or the shuffle of a lunk.
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 6y ago
Where are you getting that from? Height literally has nothing to do with this my guy. Guys are way too caught up with height, it's sad.
BumblingBeta 6y ago
That's not what coordination is at all. What you've described is a mixture of genetics, body fat levels and possibly muscle imbalances.
andyturbo2000 6y ago
Yep agree. Part of the reason I’ve not totally given up on the cardio. The benefits outweigh the additional gains when lifting in my opinion.
surfthroughlife 6y ago
At one point, someone made a post about how lifting and having big muscles gives an allusion that you are strong and a killer.
It's partially true to the point that you are strong, but you may or may not be a killer.
I personally train BJJ and have had big buff motherfuckers come in and even after over a year of training, I still get a little intimidated at first, but after a few rolls, you realize most strictly buff dudes don't know shit when it comes to fighting or grappling.
It's a great illusion that they look strong, but being swole doesn't directly correlate with being a killer.
th33unsaltednutt 6y ago
Same applies to boxing,muay thai and other combat sports. After doing boxing and muay thai for awhile. Big buff dudes that cant fight are not scary at all. They have this wierd mindset that they can day 1 walk in a gym and beat up fighters without any prior training. Its like saying i can walk on day 1 and outlift pro powerlifters.
The illusion of having big muscles equal good at fighting is somehow ingrained in there bones.
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Appearance matters more than reality for majority of people and they don't care to take more time to look into it and see the reality
UnusualEngineer 6y ago
Its all about height bro. Coordination don't mean chit. A 6'' will always look better tan a 5'5'' regardless of ''coordination''. Sucks.
papertowelfreethrow 6y ago
While that's true, the OP is saying to become more coordinated to maximize your SMV. To make girls even easier to pull.
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datingapppro 6y ago
As much as lift heavy is promoted here - and it’s good advice - if you aren’t able to do stuff like mud runs, play basketball, soccer, whatever you might be entering bloat lord status.
Keep your body fat low. It’s impossible to get “too big” for women without steroids, but you can get too big if you become a power lifter or a strong lifts 5x5 meme junkie.
I keep my body fat between 10% and 16% depending on the bulk or cut. Yea it makes progress take longer at times but never stop being aesthetic
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Eh, fuck all that. I think everyone should use chin ups as a barometer for if they’re bloat lord. If you can do a chin up with 2 plates + body weight, then you know you’re relatively jacked and certainly are not fat or “bloat lord” status. Toss in a 5 plate deadlift, 4 plate squat, and 3 plate bench and you are now unmistakably jacked and lean (2 plate chin is our body weight control )
oso96 6y ago
I have a 5 plate deadlift and a 4 plate squat and can confirm that I'm NOT jacked and lean haha (5'7 @160lbs)
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Right, that’s why the standard includes a 3 plate bench, 100lb + body weight chin up.
datingapppro 6y ago
You don’t need to be anywhere near that big to be aesthetic. What you just said is pretty difficult to do natty without devoting a couple years to the craft.
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Absolutely. But if you want to look like you lift natty those are pretty good lifetime goals/standards to set. And if we’re talking about how actual sports that take just as much time to get good at and also have massive genetic components to them, these standards are a lot more forgiving from that perspective
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Toss in all those things and you’re literally asking to get injured.
Also, a 3 plate bench will give you an EXTREMELY unaesthetic chest. You want to be doing triangle pushups and incline, not flat bench
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Dude, who cares if you “look like you lift to the average person walking down the street.” Even Greg O’Gallagher looks DYEL in clothes.
My point is about aesthetics when your shirt is OFF, not when your shirt is on. Flat bench will give you a large sloppy chest with too much development of the lower pectoral relative to the upper. Also, bench has no core involvement so it is infinitely inferior to push-ups and weighted push-ups. If you want an aesthetic chest, incline and triangle push-ups (with a weight vest if you want) is the way to go. More core involvement and more development of the inner and upper chest, which are the parts of one’s chest that actually make it look aesthetic.
Size does not make your chest aesthetic. Plenty of powerlifters bench three plates, have huge chests and they look like they have bitch tits. Shape is what makes your chest aesthetic: plenty of models are rail-thin but they have super aesthetic chests because they have proper upper+inner pectoral development.
For strength, flat bench > incline and triangle push-ups.
For aesthetics, incline and triangle push-ups > Flat Bench ALL DAY. I DARE you to try switching up your routine and reporting back. I’m positive you’ll get better aesthetic results with what I’m recommending.
If you want a big sloppy chest that makes you look like you might have gynecomastia, by all means, keep flat-benching.
Casanova-Quinn 6y ago
This is great advice dude. I’m going to start incorporating more incline pressing.
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Thank you man! I’ve tried both techniques being discussed in this thread (flat bench vs incline and triangle push-ups) and (for me at least) incline and triangle push-ups produce infinitely superior results in strength, aesthetics, AND being injury-free. Go ham my dude!
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Kinobody mostly does incline, and is constantly talking about how “Most people perform way too many flat presses and flat flies instead of incline presses,” (verbatim quote), which is exactly what I’m saying here.
This literally happens all the time.
Nope, you can achieve the gyno look with too much lower pec development and too little upper pec development easily: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nydailynews.com/life-style/mission-impossible-tom-cruise-photos-show-action-heroes-develop-man-boobs-article-1.188587%3foutputType=amp
It’s an idiotic strength standard because it results in poor aesthetics. If you do what I’m suggesting you get strong AND aesthetic. If you do what you’re suggesting, you only get strong.
Anyway this is all irrelevant because — have you actually tried what I’m suggesting? If not, how could you know?
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Not my idol and I think his chest is overdeveloped, however it’s still pretty aesthetic specifically because he does way more incline than flat bench
Negative, check ur reading comprehension my dude, I’m talking about the APPEARANCE of gyno, not gyno itself.
Keep telling urself that buddy :)
Ever heard of proportionality?
11, actually, but thanks for asking
Check ur reading comprehension again; I never said that
It happens all the time but keep telling urself that man :)
Have fun with ur big sloppy chest :)
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THEdirtyDotterFUCKr 6y ago
I might had said the short version of this.
Functional strength > bodybuilder body
I don't lift heavy things to build my body, I do calisthenics and jump rope (poorly) and I can lift heavy things because of it.
By no means am I saying calisthenics is better than lifting weights, nor am I saying weights are better than calisthenics. Simply my preference, but OP has a point.
Don't just lift weights, do some cardio, go for a hike, ride a bicycle, join a dodgeball/softball league,
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Jumping rope is the Fountain of Youth for fitness
pollodustino 6y ago
While I do lift weights to try and increase my mass, I primarily do it to keep myself healthy and fit. I've been a mechanic for eleven years, and because of the way I've had to contort and position and use my body all those years I have some pretty good balance in my physique. There are still some imbalances due to being very right dominant, but I try to improve them by switching over to my left side for wrenching, pulling, and lifting tires.
One of the best ways to get in some leg work for me is to do a squat while holding a wheel and tire combo, especially if it's a big 19.5" truck tire. Do a tire rotation on an F-350, squat four wheels, and add in the upper back work out of negotiating the wheel back onto the hub and you can work out the lower body and the traps pretty easily. Will it replace good old fashioned weight lifting with proper form and progressive overload? No, but it will keep your functional strength going.
I do need to work in some stretching or yoga, or maybe a massage therapist, because I do have some tightness built up over the years. Being limber is just as important as being strong, especially in my line of work. I had a bad bout of tendonitis that developed into a rotator cuff problem a couple years ago because things were so tight and overworked. Took almost a year for it to heal, and I still have popping in that shoulder when doing bench presses.
THEdirtyDotterFUCKr 6y ago
this is why I prefer calisthenics, I do not contort as much as I used to. But Functional strength, to me at least, is more useful than being built like the Rock.
Capital_Recognition 6y ago
I agree. Boxing and BJJ really helped my body change. I have lifted for 12 years, and done boxing BJJ on and off for a total of 2 years each. I also played various sports in high school and throughout life. Ultimately, though, without a solid diet, it didn’t show through.
However, even with a solid diet and just lifting, having athleticism definitely did make a huge change in the way I did everything.
Sadly, to see the real results and without taking TRT or tren or similar, it’s really an all inclusive game. You have to diet, lift, and be all around athletic involved in some time of exercise that involves powerful dynamic movements. Then, you see the 1 in 1,000 guy show through.
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Zdeneksfilter 6y ago
I've noticed this too. Note that when you're all clammed up, nervous or just cluttered in the brain; you're gracefulness goes out the window. You get clumsier and less fluid in your expression. But when you're cool and centered - when you know exactly how you want things to play out and approach a situation with ease; you just switch through the gears.
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MasterShake777 6y ago
My god are some guys seriously just lifting? I'm a man, one hour of gym 5x a week isn't enough. I want to climb mountains, ride bikes, spar at the boxing gym, play tennis at the college courts, swim in the river, and everything else I can think of. I want to conquer the world! Not because I read 10,000 essays on the internet, but because I have testosterone and I embrace it! All these words and philosophies and strategies are part of the problem. Philosophy and conditioning made you into a nice guy or a loser, learning more of it wont help. Unlearning it and being who you were born to be is the solution, and we were all born to be men goddamnit!
Vikingcel 6y ago
This is plain bro science.
A 5'10 gymrat at 185lbs and 15% will aesthetically look exactly the same as a 5'10 gymrat at 185lbs and 15% who happens to play basketball as well.
There's no reason for there to be a difference.
datingapppro 6y ago
Not true at all lol same muscles but can be in different spots entirely.
Vikingcel 6y ago
No shit. Nobody is built the same, but instead of taking that into consideration, OP says it's some vague concept of coordination.
youcancallmedada 6y ago
What makes you think that they have the same muscles developed? Or that they have the same insertions?
But you’re right, occasional sport doesn’t make much aesthetic difference. Athletes have more balanced bodies generally and that’s true, but OP is talking about smoothness when you walk so idk what that has to do w aesthetics at all.
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 6y ago
The idea is that the concept of coordination is directly tied to aesthetics. "Smoothness when you walk" was just a specific interpretation of coordination that I was using. People can actually, physically look uncoordinated, and just lifting alone can't fix this. I'm aware that this is going to sound arrogant, but I truly don't believe that uncoordinated men understand this.
youcancallmedada 6y ago
I’m a varsity football athlete and also take wrestling classes, trust me if you had anything substantial to say about the topic of movement, I’d understand it. You’re basically saying “don’t be stiff and have good posture”. Yeah posture affects how your body looks, is that all?
youcancallmedada 6y ago
Are you talking about how people look uncoordinated when playing ball n shit? I get what you mean, that’s from inexperience, but I don’t see how that translates to just walking.
Walking/body language is actually about inner confidence. If you’re confident within and calm, your body parts will fall in place. If you’re under stress, your shoulders go a little bit up, your arms don’t swing as much, and lots of small shit.
dusara217 6y ago
Not true. The guy with better posture and overall bearing is going to look far more pleasing to the eye than the guy that slouches and looks uncoordinated.
Vikingcel 6y ago
Just because you don't play sports doesn't mean your posture will be bad. Somehow not playing sports makes you look 'blobby' too. The hell is 'blobby'?
'looks uncoordinated' is so vague too. I don't even know what to imagine. Like clumsy?
Next time you're at the gym take a look at the people and try guessing who plays sports by how 'coordinated' they look. It even sounds stupid.
Clearly OP is just tooting his own athletic horn based on vague feelings of 'blobby' or whatever. And if you don't get it, it's obviously because you're 'uncoordinated' yourself, lol.
I think that people who never dug ditches look unsure. I mean they look normal, but look kinda softer in the face, I guess.
Edit: Not to get into straight out ad hominem territory, but OP is the guy who wrote the post on TRP and the law of attraction.
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 6y ago
lmao, I literally do this all the time. It's not even hard. The one thing you're right about is this whole concept being a bit vague. So unfortunately for you, I think it's something you really have to experience to truly understand, blobby boy.
Vikingcel 6y ago
I can just manifest coordination through law of attraction.
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get-tilted 6y ago
Let me guess, you’re really shit at sports and you’re just looking for an excuse for your ego.
Shit, you haven’t even tested this theory, so how are you so adamant it’s wrong?
Cavendishelous 6y ago
Shit tier argument. You could be just as ego based.
AdeHMar 6y ago
Don't be a fucking idiot. I swim and compete regionally, and play futbol and tennis as a hobby for more than a decade now, I've seen hundreds of people that practise sports.
OP is full of bullshit.
Vikingcel 6y ago
And OP is good at sports, so he's just masturbating his ego. That's a bad argument.
There's literally nothing concrete in this. We don't even know what 'coordination' or 'blobby' is, so how can you even think it's correct?
get-tilted 6y ago
I got into basketball when I was 18, and I wish I had gotten into it earlier. The sport built up my abs (responsible for my good posture), helped me practice my hand eye coordination (useful in more ways than one), and cut all of my water weight (responsible for making me look less bloated all of the time).
I know from experience my guy. I can’t vouch for everything he said, but I understood the main idea was “playing sports has less obvious side effects that women tend to notice,” which is something I can personally show in my own life.
Like I said, why make a judgement on a theory that you haven’t tested? Shit, two years ago I thought TRP was some fantasy bullshit, but I tested it myself anyways
Vikingcel 6y ago
Will you test my theory and go dig ditches for a living? You'll look more sure and look less soft in the face.
Playing BBall doesn't cut waterweight.
Abs don't support OPs stance, he literally said he can tell apart who plays sports even if the guys are of equal bf% etc. Abs aren't exclusively built by sports anyway. My guess is you lost bf% through higher caloric expenditure and now you think you lost waterweight and built abs.
Elaborate on hand eye coordination and the many benefits. Is there a distinct difference in how you and your gym bros that don't play sports are 'coordinated'? Describe how can you tell if so.
That's why it's stupid. It's so vague you can attribute pretty much anything to it. You get status from chicks knowing you're good at footbal and you're thinking "Wow, I most look less blobby."
NigerianChad 6y ago
I don't think they know what or why water weight is. LOL.
I also find it quite amazing how he knows exactly how much bf% and lbm they both have. Unless they expressly told him and keep him updated on it. But that's pretty gay so I doubt it.
AlaskanCalifornian 6y ago
The OP is unnecessarily wordy but the gist is that coordination and general athleticism is attractive AND that girls can pickup on whether a guy has this trait or not without having to watch him play sports. A guy can train in the gym and still be read as unathletic by the girls he interacts with. I 100% agree with this. I use gear and maintain my physique fairly well - I am constantly told I “look like an athlete,” yet I’ve never (not once!) been told that I “look like a bodybuilder/weightlifter/gym rat.” Food for thought, but I think OP’s concept holds weight and I am shocked at the number of guys here that seem personally offended by it.
Vikingcel 6y ago
I got asked if I play sports while a chick was feeling up my arm. I never played sports and was a 210lb bloated mess on anadrol at the time. I got my first kiss ever that night too.
Haven't seen anyone personally offended here. You're projecting.
AlaskanCalifornian 6y ago
Really glad you added that or I would’ve mistook the rest of your comment for respectful discourse.
Vikingcel 6y ago
I'm glad you point that out as it shows that you're the one taking this personally.
AlaskanCalifornian 6y ago
Yes dude you’re really smart
Vikingcel 6y ago
It's either me or the meth. I am inclined to say it's me.
AlaskanCalifornian 6y ago
You are brilliant there is no doubt
AAtmozfears 6y ago
Nice A&A lads, keep up the practice
boywonder200 6y ago
I recommend an Olympic lifting program for people who want to build power AND coordination. The lifts can be extremely frustrating yet so rewarding. I'm currently doing the Juggernaut weightlifting program w/ a bodybuilding routine added on. The entire program can be found online and there are plenty of youtube videos to help with you form. I wouldn't recommend it to any novices that really have not mastered the mind-muscle connection.
Personally, I have trash rotator cuffs due to a shoulder injury in high school. As a result, my posture has been ass and I have struggled with tons of muscle imbalances. I started the Oly lifitng program 6 weeks ago and I'm already noticing massive improvements in my mobility and muscle recruitment. I just feel much lighter on my feet and my movements feel more efficient. Like I feel like a hydraulic press most days. Also, my posture has improved greatly.
As I said before, I wouldn't try this as a novice. You can really hurt yourself failing a Snatch or a clean and jerk. But it feels great to be able to throw 225 pounds over your head like its nothing.
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8380atgmaildotcom 6y ago
Every muscle fiber is innervated by a motor neuron which relays signals into the spinal cord and up to the cortex and in this case cerebellum. Those neural pathways are strengthened every time by positive stimulus.
Das_Teacher 6y ago
This sounds stupid. Coordination and posture are things you can develop without even going to the gym or doing any special training/doing any particular kind of dance or sports class. Simply hit the gym, do pecs and back excersies and notice your posture by the end of the training - chest widely open, hands on the sides, back straight up. Take note of it and try to keep it throughout the day and there you have it.
What matters though (and what I've noticed through seeing many of them) is that calisthenics develop a much more natural-looking and aesthetic physique than weights. While it's possible to create a routine that would aim for aesthetics, doing excersies with your own weight can't not make you develop in natural proportions.
Look at videos from any workout competition or google photos of street workouters, compare them to your regular bodybuilders and gymrats and see what I'm talking about. Bodybuilders may be bigger, may be more or less aesthetic, but street workouters generally are more aesthetic.
idonthavtitsbcimaguy 6y ago
And I would argue that this is because calisthenics is generally much more dynamic than typical weightlifting.
Das_Teacher 6y ago
It's more about having to keep the balance really, so you could generalise that. I can't seem to find a piece of news on how people who got their vestibular system stimulated artificially actually started losing fat and at even greater rates than those who actually lifted. I wonder if there was a credible scientific source, but then again, I haven't seen professional dancers and gymnasts who wouldn't be fucking shredded and had triangle-shaped body.
Monitorul 6y ago
I'm glad I don't live in the lookist entitled dystopia of the US.