I was away on a trip and my LTR "discovered", I say that in quotes because I think she was looking, old texts regarding another girl on the side. She packed up her stuff and left before I got back. Doesn't want to work on it. Specifically said that "we don't have to work on anything...you need to work on you." Before she left she made sure she drained the savings accounts of all the money.
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Truth is, I'm probably better off. This girl had no ambition in life. Claimed she needed 9 hours of sleep each night otherwise she wasn't functional the next day. She gained a lot of weight during our relationship. I will admit I probably turned into an absolute bitch during the relationship trying to constantly make her happy. But now she's gone and I have time to finally focus on my goals. I'm building my own business, and I am always working on myself (lifting, reading, improving skills). So now I'm just gonna enjoy being a young, single professional with some cash to burn.
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Next relationship (if I ever have one again), will have to pass a lot of strict requirements before me being committed that is for sure.
EDIT: For those wondering, I had my own personal account she couldn't touch but we both contributed to savings that were joint.

its_meKnightSwolaire 6y ago
You still have a lot to work on, brother. Not ever let another person have access to your money again. Don’t ever let a women get fat on you.
Balderdash79 6y ago
I was sooo tempted to downvote this.
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You are a faggot.
McVaghunter 6y ago
Here we go again, trying to use TRP to achieve your blue pill goals; finding that special girl who, will pass your list of strict requirements.
IV-IVm-I 6y ago
why the fuck did an LTR have access to your money?
Nicolas0631 6y ago
What I don't get is access to bank account + not being maried; Even as full bluepill, sharing account doen't occurs with random people. I know we shall not marry, but at least there would be a procedure so you could go on court.
Giving your bank account to a random girl seems strange.
That she take it and they justify how she is entitled to live and how her boyfriend was not worth it is really funny as this proove she is just a bitch.
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gixxerthouguy 6y ago
You do you - that's the lesson. Looks like you forgot that for a period. Lift, build your business, fuck girls. Learn, move forward. You're back in it now though. Get to it.
CaptainKidd96 6y ago
Why the hell did you give her access to your bank account? Never do that again.
Consider this luck. There are other people who get dragged through the divorce machine and get fucked real hard. At least you have a fresh start without the huge setback that other guys experience.
CA_Underground 6y ago
We were engaged. I had my own personal account she couldn't touch but we both contributed to savings.
VinterBot 6y ago
Hey why don't you give me access too so I can also contribute? You can trust me!
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Nicolas0631 6y ago
I love that part. You know she explain how you have to work on yourself, explaining she is entitled and you are the one at fault blablabla. But she drains the money and that alone invalidate all that she said and pretended and reveal who she really is... You can't behave like an asshole and then complain of other people's shortcomings.
She could have taken half if she made half the money or leave it alone if it was your money.
ex_addict_bro 6y ago
Your bitches weight is your fault.
DIARRHEA_EXORCISM 6y ago
The drained savings account went to her fat stomach
NoHetro 6y ago
actually i need help with this, kinda dating this girl that's a little chubby but she told me on early in the relationship that she loses and gains weights a lot and made a joke about how she gotta replace her wardrobe every season.. well 6 months passed and she only gained weight, and ever since around 3 weeks ago i started distancing myself from her, i always made it clear that this is not an exclusive relationship and that i like to have options, basically telling her that i might be fucking other girls (which i am) and it got to a point where i denied sex last time we met because i just wasn't in the mood, other than just telling her "bitch lose weight", how should i go along with this?
edit: forgot to mention she had a lot of pictures on her tinder of when she was thinner, and apparently it was barely 6 month ago, so the first time we met i felt a little catfished but at the time i was running dry and now i just feel bad to just dump her out of nowhere.
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vicata_heth 6y ago
Leave her. What incentive does she have to lose weight if you're still around? Do you think she will feel bad for leaving you when something better comes along?
NoHetro 6y ago
thing is, i already stated that it's an open relationship, even tho she wants it to be exclusive and she told me about how she didn't meet up with one of her exs that was coming for a visit because we're together, i told her "why? you can fuck who ever you want" and i honestly don't care if she leaves, but it's just sad how she isn't really trying.
vicata_heth 6y ago
Then stop seeing her. Sitting on here bitching about it is about the most beta thing you can do.
She's not meeting your expectations. Do something about it.
bodiescasper 6y ago
She gains the weight in a relationship, loses it when ready to mingle again. Nothing you can do but get out of the way.
-TheseHandsDontHaze- 6y ago
He didn’t maintain dread whatsoever
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Imperator_Red 6y ago
How did an LTR drain your savings account?
Edit: I see everyone else has the same question
MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
Pulling the pin on the fat grenade = losing respect for you.
Joint savings account = female savings account.
SmamelessMe 6y ago
Sue. Take her to small claims court at minimum. She either stole from you your portion of the money, or if you're in the common-law marriage state, she owes you half of what was on that account.
BobbyPeru 6y ago
The $150 In court fees is more than the $122 that was in the account
SmamelessMe 6y ago
In other words, you get to put a theft on her record for mere $28?
Jokes aside, you're right. That is not worth to pursue.
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not if he goes for a free appearance on Judge Judy
BobbyPeru 6y ago
Good call. I think they actually pay since it’s on Tv, sonhe could quadruple his savings
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and if she has a melt down on tv that would be entertaining
thewrecker8 6y ago
Never, never, never, never, never NEVER EVER. Have a joint account with a woman. IDGAF if you're married. If you have to, make it one you both contribute to for the sake of paying bills for the house. And even then only put in EACH MONTH what you need to in order to pay them. So worst case you take a minor hit. Women will have zero problem clearing out any accounts they have access to and justifying any reasons they have.
Dakstradamus 6y ago
Are we supposed to give a shit? I took a dump today, let me make a thread about it.
What redpill lessons or theories are being showcased here?
Sympathy? Is that what you're lookin' for? You made stupid decisions and i guess your way to feel better about letting your life fall apart is getting on t3h interwebzz and getting upvotes from all the cool guys on TRP.
Fuck this weak ass post
D32thStryk3 6y ago
Gotta love the fucking cruelty here. Probably the goal in life is not to ever be put in a situation where a reaction to this occurs.
This is always true. Always your fault. If you're in this subreddit... you already know..
its_meKnightSwolaire 6y ago
I hadn’t been on the sub in a long time... I feel like there used to be more rules about posts like this but ahh well
MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
I hear ya, but it's a good example of what not to do, and the attitude not to have.
Cryptoguru777 6y ago
So you cheated with someone on the side and she discovered and left. Do you want people to feel sorry for you? Don't reduce yourself to the level of women.
G4CKY 6y ago
What do you mean "reduce yourself to the level of women"?
Cryptoguru777 6y ago
Cheating in general is a female trait due to hypergamy and monkeybranching. A man will rarely, if ever, cheat to climb up because we understand what loyalty is.
Chitlinsandgravy 6y ago
Covert contracts. Lay your truth down, be prepared to be rejected.
Women keep shit to themselves as a means of security, and plausible deniability.
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Sumsar01 6y ago
To be fair women do need more sleep than men
Nicolas0631 6y ago
This depend of people. But I guess that if your partner is always tired and want to do nothing or to sleep much more than you do it become old fast.
CA_Underground 6y ago
Even when she got 9+ hours she was still exhausted. I think she might have been depressed.
plumo123 6y ago
Or too comfortable. Having a source of cash, food and Netflix turns you into a lazy piece of shit. She'll be knocking on your door as soon as the savings she took evaporate.
Uesugi1989 6y ago
Or she functions differently than you on the matter of sleep. If I don't sleep at least 8 hours I am irritated by literally everything, I don't want to be close to people
CA_Underground 6y ago
Nah. Her family's got money. She'll be fine.
stonewallair 6y ago
This is one of those rare times when I want to hit a guy on reddit in the face
_do_not_read_this_ 6y ago
Then why the fuck did she need access to your money? I'm guessing there's a dozen lessons you're learning this week.
Dude.
Seriously, Dude.
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