I was away on a trip and my LTR "discovered", I say that in quotes because I think she was looking, old texts regarding another girl on the side. She packed up her stuff and left before I got back. Doesn't want to work on it. Specifically said that "we don't have to work on anything...you need to work on you." Before she left she made sure she drained the savings accounts of all the money.

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Truth is, I'm probably better off. This girl had no ambition in life. Claimed she needed 9 hours of sleep each night otherwise she wasn't functional the next day. She gained a lot of weight during our relationship. I will admit I probably turned into an absolute bitch during the relationship trying to constantly make her happy. But now she's gone and I have time to finally focus on my goals. I'm building my own business, and I am always working on myself (lifting, reading, improving skills). So now I'm just gonna enjoy being a young, single professional with some cash to burn.

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Next relationship (if I ever have one again), will have to pass a lot of strict requirements before me being committed that is for sure.

EDIT: For those wondering, I had my own personal account she couldn't touch but we both contributed to savings that were joint.