We have advice here that we should be outcome independent and you should be, but it doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have any expectations from the people around us. That is handing out free passes to use us. This not expecting anything from women gives a whole bunch leeway to women to act however they wanna act. Instead we should have a whole bunch of expectations and when those expectations are not met it should be let known. And really step up until that expectation is met again. This way you are keeping a record of shit behavior so we and they remember that they were a failure and that’s why it didn’t work.
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mattyanon 2y ago
No it isn't. I have no expectations of strangers, but they are not free to use me. Strangers are like getting a random chocolate but 90% of the chocolates are shitty garbage. They get thrown out fast, and I stick with the good deals.
Nope. While I have no expectations, there are CONSEQUENCES. If she behaves shitty she gets kicked to the curb fast.
This is a different type of expectation. Strangers don't have to behave like girlfriends, but if she wants to be a girlfriend she has to act accordingly.
Telling girls what your expectations are is pointless: she'll find your limits regardless of your words. Have high standards of her behaviour and be prepared to drama-free-next her if she doesn't measure up and she'll do her best to reach your standards. The trick is to make the standards real, actual, factual. They aren't what you say, they are what they are. There is a big difference and girls know it.
I feel that you can handle this in a stronger way.
Ti123 2y ago
How you see is how it’s gonna be. If you expect things from people around you they are gonna rise up and really will get you it. You’ll have disappointments a long the way and that’s where you could have outcome independence.
coolsocks00 2y ago
This is purely a straw man argument. Read the sidebar and then post.
Ti123 2y ago
Not a straw man. I haven’t rejected anything I’m just saying that there is more to what the standard advice is here. It’s like the advice just be yourself which is true but it’s missing a lot in the middle and I think outcome independence without expectations advice is missing a lot in the middle also
coolsocks00 2y ago
You're posting as if "the standard advice here" is the complete theory of TRP. It isnt, and if you had really read the sidebar you should know this.
AskTRP is like the special needs class of TRP. Everyone else just reads the sidebar, implements to their best ability and goes on with their life.
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chadinthemaking69 2y ago
If you’ve ever been with a shitty woman it feels like a breath of fresh air talking to a decent one. There are definitely differences. AWALT does not mean every woman is shitty. It means they all have the same wiring in their brains.
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coolsocks00 2y ago
TRP doesnt say you shouldnt have standards. It explains female nature and dating strategy - which you can do literally fuck all about - and tells you to accept reality if you want success in the SMP.
These two principles are not mutually exclusive. Dont know what's so hard to grasp.
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coolsocks00 2y ago
Examples? Nobody in their right mind would use that as an excuse.
Really sounds like you should take a break from forums. You're taking in advice that's not meant for you, and half the time it's the blind leading the blind here.
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coolsocks00 2y ago
And you know this how?
Just like with hypergamy and everything else there are degrees to it.
We've talked about this black and white thinking before, how it's detrimental to progress.
What you should take from it is that it's pointless to dwell on it, however normal it is or isnt.
Telling you that she's just a bad person would not help you, and it's not even necessarily true.
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Bulba 2y ago
The redpill isn't contributing to anything. Less than 5% of the male population has any sort of redpill awareness. All other 95% are totally plugged into the Matrix and will stay simps until hell freezes over.
Your post sounds like you're trying to fix women. Most women past their early twenties are broken for life, you can't fix them. There's no way to reverse their n-count and their thousand cock stare.
Ti123 2y ago
If she fucks with me I have expectations and if she don’t meet them then she’ll know and be let go.
All the people I know at least have been on the forum once. I want all my redpill brothers to know, because they let me know when I was young.
Karenzza 2y ago
It's not true. Since I read TRP it only contributed to my increased girth in right place.
I think I.have seen this account trolling.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
As you get more experience and go through the different phases of male life, you'll eventually get tired of hoes and gravitate towards having high standards. By the time I was 30 I wouldn't date any woman that wasn't looking to be a wife and mother. I would then spend a couple years vetting her, her family, her past, etc.