Hard next. Post wall chick.

Cannabis oil and get hold of b17 however you can, even if it means getting her eating a million apricot pips

I'm not trying to sound too hopeful, but the Ketogenic diet and cannabis have been shown to save lives.

well.. you can risk it and go raw everytime...

Have you tried any of the alternative treatments? I think they are worth a shot. I know in Mexico there is an alternative cancer therapy that has apparently cured a lot of people who claim to have terminal cancer. There is a place called the gerson institute and it uses a form of light therapy to treat cancer. If you have any money spare I would give these things a try. Pharmaceutical drugs are not always helpful, and any treatment that cannot be patented is shunned by the mainstream medical community. Please consider alternative medicine, there could still be hope for your girlfriend

Have you tried any of the alternative treatments? I think they are worth a shot. I know in Mexico there is an alternative cancer therapy that has apparently cured a lot of people who claim to have terminal cancer. There is a place called the gerson institute and it uses a form of light therapy to treat cancer. If you have any money spare I would give these things a try. Pharmaceutical drugs are not always helpful, and any treatment that cannot be patented is shunned by the mainstream medical community. Please consider alternative medicine, there could still be hope for your girlfriend

If anybody here has any way to personally contact the guy, please tell him to snoop around Google for cancer cures. Sorry for sounding coo-coo but I've read some pretty astonishing results from some really basic things.

Basically at this point there is nothing she can lose anyway. I'd go for it 100% if it was me.

Just look into Islam for her because otherwise she will go to hell forever. I know people hate commens like this but just look into it. Not saying to convert or anything, just read one chapter of the quran translation. This is for her own good and yours too.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zcrsfg-EeqM

My father passed of cancer this past Christmas. Literally yesterday when I was the only family member in the room with him. OP, be there to support her emotionally and listen to your conscience. It's going to be rough but reflect on the great memories you've had of her and know that in that sense she'll always be present with you.

TRP is sexual strategy for men. Obviously this situation has very little to do with sexual strategy.

Nevertheless, a few TRP principles remain applicable. A woman is at her ideal when she is with a strong man. Maintain frame at all costs. Crush shit tests, not just a woman's but the ones life throws as well. Express weakness only to a group of trusted men (which you're already doing, OP). You're the only one responsible for your own life, your own freedom, your own happiness.

Goes without saying, we all would love an update, see how you're doing.

I Hope you read this Look into Dr Morse He has huge success with cancer and also into Rick Simpson oil. Pm me anytime you want. We can Save her life or at least try

get a 2nd opinion just because 1 doctor says nothing can do does not mean all do wfor example we have a doctor in our country and heaps of people who have been told by other doctors there is nothing they can do have gone to this guy and he has saved them he is touted as a medical hero because he is willing to do risky surgery that most doctors aren't willing to do to save the lives of people

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You must be positive beyond reason

Florence

If you plan on going anywhere else, may I recommend montefiascone. It's a short train ride north of Rome, it is absolutely beaufitul, on a mountain top. It is not a common place for tourists so you get a real taste of Italy if you will. I'll recommend Hotel Urbano too, it might be the only hotel in the city, not sure, but either way that hotel was really nice for a reasonable price.

I know how you want these last moments to be special. Look at some pictures of the city. Its seems as though its straight from a fucking fairy tale. PM me if you have any questions! I even have video of the city from when I was there.

I get the sentiment but as a rational outside view, she was attracted to you as you were... keep your mission in sight for her to remain fully attracted and thus happy. Good feels at the cost of your mission will make her lose respect for you... so make sure any extra time off is justifiable. Obviously enjoy it and be decent to her. Condolences man. May the weed heal her or help her last days be a little more fun.

Little late to the party. Somehow I don't check the stickies and just saw this.

I don't have any advice for you, that you haven't already achieved.

Just wanted to tell you that your post somehow touched me more than usual emotionally. I can't even say why. Damned onions. Life is a fucking bitch.

Anyways. I wish you and your girl the best possible time, regardless of how long it lasts. Make the best out of it. I wish you both all the strength you need when the time comes.

Check out these quotes by Marcus Aurelius

https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Marcus_Aurelius

The longest-lived and the shortest-lived man, when they come to die, lose one and the same thing.

Remember that man lives only in the present, in this fleeting instant; all the rest of his life is either past and gone, or not yet revealed. Short, therefore, is man's life, and narrow is the corner of the earth wherein he dwells.

Death hangs over thee: whilst yet thou livest, whilst thou mayest, be good.

Whatever happens at all happens as it should; you will find this true, if you watch narrowly.

If you are running out of options; you might want to look at they Byrzynski Clinic

There is also economic data that demonstrates that people can choose to live longer if they have incentive to do so. I remember reading about that in Freakanomics.

But you can probably tell that I am the type who would never give up hope. Good luck.

When I was in the most severe depression of my life, the book that helped pull me out of it, alongside working out, was Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. It could help out both of you.

I'm an autodidact and I've always had an interest in scientifically-backed holistic medicine. If I ever got cancer, one thing I would try, is that I would binge swallow completely raw, minced or chopped garlic (like swallowing pills) on a daily basis to the most extreme degree I that could. I'm not saying it could save someone, but its one of the most medicinal foods on the planet, so maybe it could at least give you more time.

Like another user said, knowing each others love language(s) is good advice as well. I've been meditating for 8 years and have lots of experience with samadhi or altered states of consciousness, if you ever want any more advice around meditation, feel free to PM me. Make sure you both lean on the people who care about you.

Theres this poem "if..." i believe starts with "If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,"

But the most important line for you in there I suppose is "If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same;"

Like Harley Quinn would say: "Own that Shit!"

I don't think this should really change too much for you.

Continue your life, focus on yourself and be supportive towards her.

Try to be positive and upbeat. Help her try to forget whats going on and have a good time.

Terminal cancer doesn't always mean game over immediately. She could live a long time.

Ultimately though, you cannot forget about yourself. Don't lose sight of your own mission and get too caught up in trying to help her. She wont respect you for it and it will destroy you.

One thing you can do to help is to familiarize yourself with her medical records and her wishes in regards to dying at home or in a place for the dying (damn that word currently escapes me). Become her Defense. Her advocate. Be with her when she tells the family. Visit thedoc´s together.

Your needs are equal to hers and I believe they will align pretty well. It is just a question of how to go about it.

Marry her. I know this seems callous, but the benefits outweigh any cons. Tax breaks Widowers get more breaks than disabled combat veterans, I know, my best friend is a widower. Widowers is life on easy mode for men. A get out of jail free card for you and your chosen female for sex,relationships, doing what YOU want to do whenever.

Also, you are a lying teenager and should be shamed and banned for shitposting.

"lump in breast" is not proper Stage 3 terminology, you couldn't even be bothered to look up actual instances and forums with this subject matter and you are extremely low energy and I hope you get cancer yourself you weak shaking trolling Plebbit loser.

First, I am so sorry this happened. Sounds like you have it sussed but you may want to get a 2nd opinion. Then a 3rd. Then a 4th.

I would also think about something for her outside of anti-cancer drugs. My mother died of cancer in her 80s and they had her on some sort of "happy pill" because she wasn't coping well with her own mortality.

If there is anything left on her "bucket list" now is the time to get on it, because things are not likely to stay stable. (Note: just scanned down and saw the Florence thing).

You don't mention if she has any family. If not, then you are really carrying the load. As things wind down, be with her as much as possible. Even if you are doing nothing but resting or having tea.

She may lash out. Let it wash over you. You're not the one dying. And it goes without saying that if there's something you're still mad abt from 2 years ago, let it the fuck go.

She may also lapse into unconsciousness. Hearing is the last sense to go, so she may be able to hear you. I played guitar and sang for my mom, and we also played CDs of her favorite music. Tell her stories, share memories with her, etc. If you can be with her at the end, do it, even if it sux and you're crying like a baby, stay with her and tell her that you love her.

Obv. come back and post if you need support. Like others here have said also, I am available via PM if talking will help.

I don't have any experience with a terminal illness, but I do with a chronic illness. My first impulse was to say forget TRP and be a decent human being to her. This is not a time to employ dread, for example.

However, clearly there are aspects about TRP that make women happy that you can use. This is the time to be stoic. Don't let her catch you crying. Be her rock. Make her laugh when she is unhappy. Be with her for doctor's visits. Also, make sure you can recognize comfort tests and pass the fuck out of them.

For your comfort, just know that no matter how shitty it gets and how bad you feel, you are going to come out of this a better man.

I'm deeply saddened to hear the news OP.

I like many because of how widespread it is, have a close family member who had cancer. In my case, it was my mother, and happened when I was 8 years old. It happened so long ago I can barely remember her.. and I find myself more and more as time goes by wishing I could have spent more time with her just to get to know her personality and see her views on different things etc.

My advice to you is to absolutely cherish every single day you have with your SO. Make the absolute most of the time you have remaining. 6 months will absolutely fly by, I'm urging you to do everything in your power to make the time you have with her remaining special. If you ever want to talk, feel free ri shoot me a PM.

You seem like you have a good heart. Stay strong bro

She needs her captain now more than ever.
BTW, what kind of cancer is it? Medicine in that part is getting better each year and if found early enough most patients live. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.

I try and find solace in art when things go south and life takes a big dump on you.

Your story, your struggle to keep it together in front of this reminds me of this :

https://youtu.be/qdBJ1X33rXM

Maybe it's inappropriate for me to show you this, maybe it's not, I don't really know.

In any case, do never hesitate to come here to vent. If there is a place in the world where men can go to mend their wounds, it's TRP.

I had a gf that was diagnosed with a brain tumor. It made her do the craziest shit, mood swings, and pretty much gave her a lifetime pass for all the crazy shit she did. Then she came out one day and told me she was in love with a woman and I could never understand her the way her girlfriend did. brain cancer. Fuck cancer.

Men are so fucking loyal. You're awesome man.

this isn't supposed to happen to the good ones.

The world doesn't work like that. It's all just random. I know that sucks, but it's the truth. Let go of your feelings of justice and injustice - they simply do not apply to the world. Things just are.

I'm here to ask you what can I do to help her and how am I supposed to deal with the emotional aftermath when the time comes?

All I can say is to make sure to spend as much quality time with her as you can. The emotional aftermath is coming and you know it, but you can't do much to help or prepare for that. Sometimes it can help to just be in the here and now and to deal with each day as it comes. Sometimes that's all you can do.

Make sure you get some you-time away from the situation. And try to find someone to support YOU, someone not close to her or the situation. Perhaps even someone who doesn't know what you're going through (sometimes you need to get away from it so completely that you're with people who know nothing).

When I was going through something kind-of-a-little-bit-similar, I had a few people who knew were very supportive and some people who didn't know at all. The latter were my "go and totally relax with" friends.

Side note, for your own mental health etc possibly you could see a therapist that specializes in an area like this. It will also be a lot on you and bottling it all up wont be ideal when you need to put someone before yourself.

Best of luck thoughts are with you man

Swallowing the red pill is about accepting the ice cold, merciless nature of reality. One of the truths every man needs to come to terms with is that every single one of us is going to die. Some will die horrifically and painful. Others will die peacefully in their dreams. Some will die before you finish reading this message. Others will die old after having watched their entire generation pass. Many of those who die we will never get the chance to meet, but all of those we meet will die. Death is certain, so you need to kill the idea that it's not going to happen to the good ones.

So back to your question: How are you supposed to deal with the emotional aftermath?

Jesus fucking Christ, bro. You don't need to prepare for that kinda shit. You're a man and if you have to worry about how you're going to deal with feeling emotions, you might want to first consider getting your vagina removed. What you should be doing is not spending time thinking about the future after your girl is dead, it will come before you know it and you will have plenty of time to deal, but what you'll likely do is wonder why you spent even 5 minutes wasting time worrying about your emotional state while she was still alive. What you should have done when you first got the death sentence is go grab her, drove your asses to the airport and got on the first flight to that place you've always talked about going. Don't waste another goddamn second. Cross every goddamn thing off her and your bucket lists. Max out her credit cards to fund the thing, who the fuck cares. Don't forget to have fun, enjoy the now and remember you can worry about dealing with her death and your faggoty-ass emotions when the time comes.

I have no advice to offer that hasn't already been given. I just hope that everyone in her life, yourself included, make it out as best they can.

Good luck.

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Typical TRP horror story: Watch her miraculously make it and recover, only to dump OP because she just got a new chance at life and needs to go "find herself". Even though OP stood by her through thick and thin.

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Try to maintain a solid frame for her. Let her be the feminine person that she is. She will need a shoulder to cry on. Be a rock for her. Be a man for her. If you can't control your emotions, how were you ever hoping to lead her in the future if things had gone on even longer. She would have eventually dumped your ass if you were being controlled by your emotions after only a short time together.

Eventually there will be another woman, there is no one soulmate for you or anyone, there will just be a search to find another who can also be "good for you". Another woman that you should be leading in life. In the meantime, this current girl has been good to you, you can be a decent person and be good for her in return. Do the things SHE needs of a strong male companion.

And if you can weather this, if you can maintain solid frame and stoic action after this, imagine what it will be like when some young dumb bimbo cock carousel rider tries to shit-test you or a future child that you might or might not want. Easy in comparison.

My wife used to work in oncology, and I've heard many stories of patients getting chemo and radiation which made them sick and lose weight, just to spend an extra six months living - in terrible shape. I'd get a second opinion, but if the doctors really believe she is terminal, then I'd encourage her to forgo treatment and instead focus on living out her final days to the fullest. See How Doctors Die

I'd also familiarize myself with the stages of grief: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model

You will both likely go through the stages separately; it helps to understand them to process your emotions.

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My condolences mate.

I'm really sorry about both of you. I have no such experiences, it's very hard.

Get good weed man and a vape.eases the pain and nausea. Also I read some study on how cancer cells survive on glucose. Switching to a ketogenic diet can actually stop the cancer cells from growing. Look it up man. Good luck. How is she doing currently? If it really is terminal and there is no real hope, then don't opt for chemo... Try diet and weed and having fun. If she gotta go, she gotta go living man. I lost a friend to other diseases because the chemo fucked his body up

Death happens. Enjoy the time you have together but once she's gone feeling sad or depressed will be natural but remember it'll never bring her back you're just ducking up your mental state.

That's how I death with my parents I realized that nothing will bring them back so duck feeling like shit

I recently found a lump on LTR's neck , this post has got me worried. Like you I caught a good one is hate to have to go through the same experience. I thought it was a cyst but the skin isn't irritated its like a bulge under the skin

My brother I'm afraid I cannot offer you any counsel as I'm nowhere near emotionally prepared myself to deal with something like this. All I can do is wish you strength and prosperity in such a hard time. When the time comes be strong and appreciate the good times. Lest not forget everything is temporary.

All the best.

Don't forget to take care of yourself too. The emotional bond you have will get stronger through this experience, and the pain may magnify as well. Keep that daring machismo that lead you to this girl in the first place. Embrace the sorrow as you do the joy and carry on young soldier.

Hey OP. Tons of great advice has already been given here. Just wanted to say my heart is with you in this rough time.

Also, while a little more uncommon, there are many cancer patients who made it through due to natural remedies. There's a particular product called Genesis which is particularly potent and is one of the best products I've taken.

I'd say it's worth checking out, as I've heard quite a few testimonials from cancer patients who just kept drinking this non-stop and the cancer vanished from their body.

I wish you all the best.

This is one of the only times that I'd advise not looking for the next branch.

Give her that romcom story. Be her happy ending. Live. Love. Laugh. Make memories.

Be her stability. Be her rock. Keep her smiling as much as possible.

I feel sad man . It scares me a lot to know that in 6 months i wont be breathing again. I cant think of it. More like losing someone is scarier.

On the other side i am thankful of everything that i am not in this position. When i read your post i felt like trying harder and harder everyday . Because some people dont get the chance sometimes even if they did want.

Best of luck and courage man.

My recent ex has cancer. Very likely terminal because she's too poor to afford proper treatment. We're not together because she's BPD (read life destroyer).

I get you love this one. But watching a loved one deteriorate and die is a traumatic experience. In general, women bail when the man is sick or incapacited for too long. Keep in mind you owe no one anything at all. Do not compromise your own well being just to be the "good" guy.