Ive been seeing this girl for around 8 months. We get along pretty well but she is definitely a red flag and i know i shouldn't get emotionally invested with her. The problem is because I've been seeing her for so long i cant help but start to get attached. The main reason i attracted her in the first place was because i always acted redpilled and like this hot fun guy around her. She knows I've got other girls and our mutual friends always warn her about me telling her i’m an asshole and a slag etc.
Without a doubt this is why she is so into me. The problem is we have both started to feel attached to each-other (even though i know i shouldn't get too serious with her)
When i start feeling like this i start overthinking and just end up acting like a retard and saying/doing stupid shit which can kill attraction . How do i stop myself feeling this way? I have 2 other plates but i still feeling attached to this fwb
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
You already know the answer.
Spend more time with the other two and less with this one
Your attachment to her is in part a reflection of your own brokeness. I find the more I was personally wounded inside I got close to women with red flags
You gotta have self respect
EurasianChad 1 2d ago
This is big.
Hanging with other dudes, having hobbies and doing shit beyond women. It's easy to get trapped in the drama & chasing validation if you aren't careful
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago
It's easy to get trapped in this stuff as a man if you don't like yourself
Once you like – or better, love – yourself you stay away from broken women
Spend time with the boys more than plates imo
Lone_Ranger 3 2d ago
so true.
If you make chasing women your life, you're going to have a shitty life.
My observation is this - just pursue a good life. Women come looking for you.
I'm absolutely not humble bragging....but I have never spent any time hanging out in clubs, buying women drinks etc etc. I've never even actually gone on a date before. Women are everywhere. Some want you to bang them, some don't. It's not that difficult.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago
Pretty much
They are waiting for the winners at the finish line.
Just get to the finish line instead of the other men who are chasing women way back on the first mile of the race
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
I hate to ask this but are you a dude or a a chick
If a dude why a chick username?
When you see it you know. When you see you don't have to run any game it clicks
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 23h ago
@Typo-MAGAshiv woman flair
Edit: this isn't WAATGM nevermind
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 17h ago
What?! Where?! What?!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 17h ago
The woman who was posting here
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 17h ago
We have posts?!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 23h ago
Okay, so your comment was fine. There isn't anything wrong with it besides that I think you meant oneitis.
Women however are not allowed to post or comment in TheRedPill or AskTRP.
Those are forum specific rules.
You are free to post in WAATGM or the trp.red side of the site
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 21h ago
It isn't written but it's enforced
Not many women come here. At any rate I told you where you can post, and it needs to be honored.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 21h ago
You were given a chance and you blew it
You've been nothing but argumentative and trying to overstep
Vermillion-Rx Admin 21h ago
@Typo-MAGAshiv
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First-light 2 3d ago
Remember time will fix all of this. It won't last with someone with red flags and you having other women. The competitive energy that draws her in will sour to frustration. You or she will grow more and find some of the exciting things you did a bit dull. Its temporary.
So long as you don't simp out, the worst you can get is a bit anxious about losing her and sad when it ends. This is not the worst thing that ever happened to a man. So enjoy her. Enjoy the human contact with someone you have got to know. It will end better anyway the less you worry.
No-Stress-Cat 2 2d ago
Time to take a break from her. But one thing you wrote there concerns me:
Are you acting like you're red pilled, or are you actually red pilled?
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 17h ago
This is an insightful question. Combining this with some of your other recent commentary, I'm thinking it's time for another +1
Tag @vermillion-rx
Vermillion-Rx Admin 17h ago
Sounds good
Saltycroc 2d ago
Good question. Honestly, i dont know. Im fairly new to trp and i find myself purposely remembering to act red pilled.
mattyanon Admin 2d ago
yeah....... find more better other girls.