I need some guidance regarding this problem. When I was traveling I met this girl, matched on a dating app and were a bit on- and off for some time, we got along via chat and all that.
She lives in another continent. She told me she‘ll travel close where I am and I suggested she should visit me. The decided to actually come.
The main problem is, she just booked without my prior notice. She told me this is her „solo“ trip but it’s convenient I’m here, obv she wants to see me as much as possible. She booked the flight right when I am SUPER busy with work and essentially have no time for her/so stressed that I have no spare time for her.
I told her everything, she acknowledges, but her being 10 days here and me not having the time or wanting time for myself makes me a bit feel bad about the situation. I also mentioned we‘re casual only and nothing further than that, she‘s still willing to see me for the remaining time but honestly, I‘ll try to minimize my days with her to a minimum, only because rationally, it makes no sense plus I have to focus on my stuff/myself.
What‘s the best way to proceed here?