Overwhelming view on trp was that online dating is usually not too much of substance and is not as fun as irl but peer pressure or jealousy was I should give it a try once cz I have this bud who has chiseled jaws crystal green eyes and thick eyebrows he was getting nudes everyday I felt kinda jealous cz even though I'm not top tier in looks I was abit better than the rest of the guys who were doing this stuff long story short many girls blocked me I got minimal views minimal likes it broke my self esteem now I'm wanting to delete my insta account and go clean irl but I still have this urge maybe I'm not doing it right what should I do I need brutal actionable advice that would help me either maybe grow on social media in the looksmax and self improvement spectrum or just go all in on one source of dating social circles and cold approach pls help guys after every hit on my self esteem all I can think of is jerk off you jerk off. It doesn't help that blackpill seethes in everytime I'm in doom gloom mindset. Yes ik I didn't write this para properly just bare with me
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
Why are you acting like you just went through war after you saw plenty of posts saying OLD was going to likely be a waste of time
1 ) sees dozens of posts saying not to use OLD
2 ) uses old anyway
3 ) feels bad
4 ) makes AskTRP post about ignoring warnings
Look. You more than likely struggled on OLD for the same reasons you'd struggle in in person:
• Need to have a more vibrant and interesting life (didn't have that in your photos to begin with)
• Needed to improve your style and lift more (not shown in your photos)
• Didn't have enough friends to improve your social skills (not in your photos)
• Probably didn't "get it" (understand women; likewise probably wasn't evident in your bio/DMs)
If you're struggling a lot on OLD, you probably aren't doing a good job of recording your in person life for photos, and probably because you can't get it on photo because you don't have it to photograph. OLD lives and dies on your pics before a word is spoken
Secondly, women on OLD do not act like women in person. I have been ghosted and ignored by women on OLD who I later organically crossed paths with in person (and they didn't recognize me) and they were very interested in me. I just about alpha widowed one of them. She didn't even respond my message back on Hinge and I ended up hitting it 100+ times and then she wouldn't stop staring at me after I told her I was done seeing her
Women are delusional on apps. They have 2500+ likes in two weeks, talking to 50 guys at once — most conversations are "hey" and "wyd?" - and even the majority of the guys they tried to match with suck.
Of the guys they go out with they still are narrowing down their options to a couple dozen men and most of those men are matching with half the town and not trying to settle down with anyone so it's an endless pump and dump app even for cute women. And that's on top of all the men these app women are still meeting in person so they are delusional with the amount of choice they have
If your profile on OLD does not stand out is because your pics are not good and they are spoiled for choice
We told you not to use it, you used it, and now you feel bad. Stop the pity party and make the improvements you should have made in the first place
Hamzter 3w ago
Kind of rude but I get your point
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
Honest ≠ rude
If this is the frame you carry on sincere commentary meant to help you then no wonder you are struggling
Stop acting like OLD gave you pseudo-PTSD or at least don't write like it did
Hamzter 2w ago
I will try to improve by try I mean give my best I have to cut out all of porn and focus on improving my life fully even tho I lift my diet is shit even tho I socialize I don't feel truly present even tho I get some likes and comments on insta I feel like I just don't have the energy to engage regardless I'm doing journaling daily and trying to figure this out. Thanks for the hard rough pill I really needed a wake up call
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2w ago
No problem. Replace all that cheap dopamine with better food and more rewarding things
Sounds like your brain is still fried on cheap thrills
Musicgoon425 3w ago
Jesuuss.. This is like staring at raw sewage with shredded cheese on top. Its a baffling disgusting mess. If you're too fucking lazy to use full words or even use a period, you're cooked.
If your profile looks like this dogshit post it no wonder you can't land shit online.
Put some effort in. You expect women to get handed to you on a silver platter when you bring this trash?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
Is your other account having any login issues?
Musicgoon78 3 3w ago
Something fucked up, but it's handled now.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
Cool
MrSupreme 3w ago
Just today I got my first match in 3 weeks with a 44 year old fugly lady, kinda nice tits for a fatty. Don't pay, make fun of the darn thing when you use it, it is a fucking waste lol.
Approach in real life and game on, no recovery needed.
Overkill_Engine Endorsed Contributor 3w ago
I'm going to distill the basic point down already made elsewhere because I can hear your eyes glazing over from across the entire damn internet when reading anything longer than a few sentences:
OLD and apps like Tinder are only worthwhile for men that don't Need them to get laid. If all you got going for you is fingerfucking your phone, then you aren't going to be fingerfucking or any kind of fucking women. Everything you need to be successful online is shit you need to be successful in person.
Fix that. Then realize, again, like what was already pointed out, women are going to be cuntier and flakier online than in person because they are swarmed with a ridiculous amount of phone fuckers trying and failing to touch titties instead of apps. Adjust your expectations accordingly.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
I'm dead
This could be its own post it is great
No-Stress-Cat 1 3w ago
Here's the secret that sums up everything about getting laid:
If women aren't coming up to you on their own, you're doing it wrong.
First, you gotta have the look. You gotta be ripped. Like Captain America. Or at least healthy muscular.
Secondly, you gotta have the dress. You gotta dress well. You can't be looking like some baggy clothes wearing street thug.
Thirdly, you gotta have some bank. You don't have to be super rich, or even well off. Just a little more than comfortable will do.
Finally, you gotta have style. Walk with confidence. Do your own thing. Be stoic. Radiate manliness. You are the prize.
You do all that, and women will be throwing themselves at your feet, and pussy will be raining from the heavens. Simple.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
No lies detected.
Don't forget that you have to still look approachable though. You could be all that and if a woman genuinely doesn't believe she can even indirectly approach you she won't
You have to present yourself in your vibe and mannerisms that if she were to approach you, she would not be humiliated or feel rejected
You have to appear to be friendly enough and cooperative enough that she won't have a bad experience
brazilianxof 3w ago
That's a lie. Those things make you "wantable", no "approachED", by the simple fact that there are a lot more of "like you" taking the first step towards her.
This can be truth if all guy around are stinky weirdos AND you are in an environment that favour this behaviour ( = you are not in a man crowded situation + the social interaction is almost mandatory. Like certain College courses or dance classes or such.).
If a guy thinks he'll dress a certain way, get muscle, sit and wait, he'll die in a chair waiting, and the other with half his everything will get what he wanted by simply reaching on.
Woman who do and have stuff will mostly simply NEVER take the first step.
This is a "i'm not ready yet" endless trap.
No-Stress-Cat 1 2w ago
Obviously, you don't know what I'm talking about.
Ever had a girl come up to you before, or her friend who says, "Hey, can my friend get your number?" Or "Hey, are you single?"
No? I didn't think so. Now get your fat ass off the couch and go hit the gym.
But I upvoted you anyway, because you know like...bruthas!