I've been blocking chicks who friendzoned me since I've been learning game but I'm not sure if this is the right thing to do or not because some of them weren't bad. For example, 2 of them used to buy me dinner or gifts all the time. Just, no intimacy.
I've been blocking them because I fear that I might get jealous and simp at some point, and ridicule myself but idk if this is an ego thing because those chicks could still be useful as wingmen. Or they might not because they might gossip about how they friendzoned me to other chicks.
And I'm also not telling them anything when I block, so it might seem weird. I could be overthinking things as well. Any insights?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 19h ago Stickied
Holy shit dude
Have you read the side bar?
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 19h ago
"Should I".
Vermillion-Rx Admin 19h ago
That too
EldenRing Should i (x1) 11h ago
Sure did. But I'm not a computer, so I might have forgotten about the specific text that gave advice about whether to block those kind of chicks or not.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 11h ago
Are you deliberately being autistic as an immature response to a serious question?
You don't need specific text, the sidebar is a collection of over arching themes
How about not being butthurt that a woman doesn't like you and use her for social proof and act like you're the prize instead of blocking their asses
SwarmShawarma 21h ago
Imagine the ugliest, not family, woman you remember, one u see fairly often.
Yeah I know probably not that easy unless you wore beer googles and made a mistake.
Now imagine she blocked you, because you didn't wanna talk to her.
You can be this guy, butt hurt, ego offended and block whoever you want. No one cares and maybe even someone will be relieved that this butt hurt dude disappeared.
So you see it doesn't matter what you do unless she killed you cat, is terrible person that shouldn't be allowed in your socials or is living in your head for more than 2 weeks etc.
Say if ever shit tested 'why did you keep me on socials' - 'I didn't have a time to think about you'.
First-light 2 13h ago
I think it depends what you would be win/ lose if you didn't block then. There is some pre-approval benefit and networking benefit in being around girls (though not the same value as actually sleeping with those women).
Is there a risk of blocking coming back to bite you in social circles or do none of the girls you talk to ever know each other?
If you know for sure that you would only simp out and waste energy and resources trying to win them or become jealous, then blocking is probably best but if you can control yourself, like you say, one or two of them could have been useful. Provided they have simply not been interested, as opposed to irritated you with their personality or turned you down with contempt or ridicule, they could be useful.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 11h ago
Relevant sticky:
What happens when you ask a "should i? question in AskTRP
EldenRing Should i (x1) 11h ago
I just saw this and it looks kinda foolish to be honest. I thought forums were for nerding out about various topics. Maybe it's true that I'm unable to think for myself or not, but I don't see anything wrong in getting different perspectives.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 11h ago
If it's too foolish for you participate elsewhere
You haven't been around here and have no idea the need for it. Probably shouldn't squabble with the mods on why we mod this way
Lone_Ranger 3 4h ago
blocking someone is petulant behaviour. It shows that you are delicate. Being delicate and petualant is certainly feminine behaviour. So no, don't block anyone.
The only exception to this is to block someone that is spamming you, calling you while you are trying to sleep.
in general, blocking is the sort of thing that teenage girls do. So, no.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 3h ago
This.
OP @EldenRing - your OP is a confession of bitchy behavior, and I'm scrolling through these comments in which all your replies are bitchy.
Give your balls a tug. Lighten up.
"Don't let women FriendZone you" doesn't mean "block them like a petulant brat the nanosecond they do something you don't like".
The one who bought you dinner twice? That's a rare gift of an actual female friend. Most women, when they FriendZone you, are doing it to string you along and use you for favors and attention. The ones who are actual friends will do stuff for you, too, and provide valuable social proof. This doesn't happen often, and you threw it away because you overreacted like a bitch because she didn't sleep with you.
mattyanon Admin 3h ago
Ok, so female friends.
I doubt they'd gossip about you in a way that's detrimental to you
Look.... female friends is good. No need to block, so long as they are genuine friends. Genuine friends benefit you and your life and it's a mutual thing. If that's what it is, great.
The ones you block are the ones who friendzone you while being shitty friends.