First of all, don't worry about minimising mistakes.

Concentrate on having fun, being social, and making other people around you have a lot of fun.

Start with people you know, but rapidly branch out and chat to everyone. At the very least, introduce yourself and smile at them. You want to "pre-warm" all potential contacts (male and female alike).

If you're having fun and talking to everyone, women will notice.

Nothing in Red Pill is ever about one particular woman or one particular event. It's about increasing your odds at optimal outcomes.

Relax, have fun, follow the advice matty gave.

Remember outcome independence. Even if you don't get laid that night, as long as you had fun and got some practice in, it's a win and a step in the right direction.

Everyone has given the right advice. Happy fun men are attractive. The best players love playing whether they win or lose, Playing and winning is best but playing and losing is still the next best thing for them. Women find men who enjoy being around women and making women feel good genuinely attractive.

So mingle and strike up conversations, enjoy women and let them see you enjoy them -at first with no agenda but if they warm to you and you warm to them, then escalate as fast as she likes.

Great sportsmen never really have one make or break game. That is the fallacy of the fan. The truth is great players are made by years of matches and hundreds of practises. Occasionally when they step out on a field and the stars align they get a break through that they and the fans never forget but that breakthrough stands on the shoulders of ten thousand very ordinary rehearsals, without which it would have been impossible.

Literature provides coaching suggestions but no coaching can ever make up for turning up to a practise 2 or 3 times a week and doing your strength and conditioning. Coaching makes training and practise more effective. Practise and training make players. This party is a great chance for some practise and who knows you might score. If you see it as make or break, score or fail, its adding pressure and too much pressure kills performance.

In the movies the coach whispers some magic into the ear of the athlete stepping out onto the field for the big match where the national team selector is watching. In reality its too late for magic by then. The hay is already in the barn by then. "Don't forget the wind is sharp tonight" is about as complex as its going to be. Usually its just "Go get them" or if the guy is nervous "Just play". Just play.