Have been having weird dates recently that end in nothing but a k close or nothing at all. I'm not new to escalating and f closing during dates as I've done it before many times. Not sure what's going wrong maybe there's a flaw in my logistics/order of events.

Thanks for all the suggestions on the last fieald report. This time for both dates I suggested I get the first round and she can get the next one instead of me paying for the whole bill.

Logistics were also in place this time. Had a hotel room to myself for my work trip.

First date:


Met with a milf for drinks. Flirty vibe. Kino'd. Invited her back to my hotel (30 min away) but she said she has to go on a work trip tomorrow morning which she told me about before. She seems interested in meeting again over text afterwards.

Second date:


Met with a girl around my age. Flirty vibe once again. Got drinks with her. SHE suggested let's watch a movie after the drinks. This was because we bantered about how she'll hide behind me during horror movies. We smoked some weed outside. Walked to my hotel. Had her in my bed watching a movie. Kino again. Tried to go for the kiss. She said she doesn't do that on the first date and she got out of a relationship recently where she was left with a lot of trust issues etc. Kino'd more but she was not reciprocating much she seemed a bit standoffish. We ended up falling asleep in my hotel bed. Got her an uber back in the morning.

I'm in a bit of a dilemma because this was a work trip I was on. Meaning I have limited time to text, set up a date, and try to f close. It may be that these girls want more than one date to f close. But in a situation with limited time I want to have a fun date but also get intimate.

EDIT: Third-ish date

Forgot about this one. Not really a date but met a girl through a mutual friend at an event. Bounced venues in an uber. Kino and game were on point. Probably the smoothest game I've ever spit. Had the girl obsessed and lost for words because of how I was flowing and the shit I was saying. She forgot her ID so didn't get into the bar. Got her number. Texted her after and she wants to see me soon in my city.