I had pulled a girl without trying, she apparently into my looks. I was detached, I kissed her on first hangout (not even a date). but I found her cute asf so I confessed that I'm open for maybe a commitment. and BOOM she started to ghost me lol. Did I just approved of her too soon ? Im trynna learn here fuck her tho, sincerely XD .
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SwarmShawarma 19h ago
Just because you said "maybe" like pussy, doesn't mean you didn't unwind previous progress by voicing to comit to slut that wanted to just get railed.
mrone667 18h ago
agree i acted soft, time for retaking the redpill.
mattyanon Admin 18h ago
1 - You gave too much too soon, offering commitment in exchange for nothing, therefore making your commitment have zero value.
2 - She isn't looking for commitment
3 - 90% of female behaviour is effectively random, ignore it.
mrone667 18h ago
appreciate your constructive reply matty. do you have any book/content recommendation for me ?
mattyanon Admin 4h ago
Nope, sorry..... I've pulled what I know from 20 books and hundreds of TRP articles.
throwaway415 1 17h ago
have you read the sidebar?
mrone667 17h ago
already gave it a quick read. a fair amount became second nature... life got me far away from this space. so i kinda leaned towards just speaking my mind to girls without overanalysing
throwaway415 1 17h ago
you answered your own question
mrone667 17h ago
yup i confess, bitchy behaviour. just taught "maybe" wasn't gonna get here completly off. learning from thiss.
Musicgoon78 3 17h ago
Holy shit. You're supposed to get her to work for your commitment. Your commitment is now as cheap as a dollar store stick of deodorant. You dried her the fuck up with your eager and weak attitude. Don't ever just hand over your commitment. That should be precious to you and not just some throwaway trash.
Remember: you are the prize.
mrone667 17h ago
just realised how dumb the mistake was after posting it here. thank god you guys exist haha. any book recommendation or something for me ? thank you.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 46m ago
Read the sidebar.
Read "No More Mr. NiceGuy" by Dr. Robert Glover and "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" by Dr. Manuel Smith.
Read any archived content from Roissy/ Heartiste you can find, especially these two: The Sixteen Commandments of Poon and Be a Skittles Man.