Im almost 37.I started working as an english teacher about a month ago.There's a few pretty teachers around, most are under 25 and some are my type so I'm very attracted. It's just physical because we don't talk much 1on1. My friends are about that age and we talk all the time,both girls and boys.
Since my job comes first, I decided to test the waters, I'm not looking my best but I am the best I've been in 4-5 years.So plausible deniability is my friend here, with some body language, but I don't have much hopes with these young girls because they're way more into the physical part.
So, I give some looks, I'm confident and give some signals here and there,make em laugh sometimes which is nice as feedback.
But the keyword here is Oblivious. Not indifferent,not dismissive,not rejection. It's like nothing comes through, and they have this look like they just don't get it, and after a while I understood, I'm not being seen as a sexual being,just as a coworker.
Funny,fun,sometimes interesting, clever and maybe even masculine. That is all nice and I'm sure I'm projecting healthy levels of that.
But totally discarded from the market,like I don't even count Wow that is actually a first. Girls under 24 these days think men just stop their sex life at 30, and that age gap is seen as a long abyss
It doesn't happen with the Online Dating girls.Nope.These girls know I have s dick, sexual needs and they try to grsb me by the wallet
So what do I do when faced with such obvlivious women? Club to the head and ooga booga?
mattyanon Admin 4h ago
It's not that.
Girls under 24 have options, and you are not their best option. Simple as that.
WTF
do not shit where you eat
Musicgoon78 3 3d ago
First thing: Don't shit where you eat. Are you looking for trouble?
Second: women are not like men. Read that a second time if you have to. Women are attracted to frame and dominance. Dressing well helps and muscles help, but you can get very far with charisma.
Third: if you were okay with losing your job and giving yourself a very bad reputation or maybe even jail time, go ahead and continue to hit on these women. This is the absolute worst place to meet women and the most risky. I don't think that they want the drama just for some dick. So I have no idea why you're so stuck on this.
MrSupreme 3d ago
I feel you.And I know about shitting where I eat.
I've only been open to the idea for a couple of weeks because I saw two of the teachers are a couple, and I spend 10 hours a day there so I thought what the heck, let's try it out
Yesterday I made the choice to just remove my sex life from my job.It didn't help that about 3-4 of the ladies there are just my type,what I'm looking for, right there in one place, and I kept going for a bit longer.
Then I decided to write this,because wow, this oblivious thing is new to me.
So no worries,my dick is out of my job and I'm still wondering about the clueless little things I was talking to.
I guess something way more direct than body language and displaying confidence.