I'm gonna go against the grain of the sub and all the comments. To achieve the most volume of women you definitely need to looks max and understand female gaze. Putting effort in areas that matters. For example, looking fit is female gaze. Looking like 6x Mr Olympia is male gaze. You'll get more girls with being just fit because it's not extreme like the latter.

Hair style wise really depends on the type of women you're going for and your archetype.

I do better on medium length hair with bangs simply because I look like a specific genre of men. But have hairstyle like a girl where it touches your ass will reduce your volume simply because it's too extreme and doesn't fit most popular looks of celebrity

Male gaze vs. Female gaze

This is an odd title, and I don't think it's your question.

What works better for you? I've been told by girls I look better with longer hair (cuter, more aproachable).

Tricky. Girls never quite tell the truth. "Cute" is ambiguous, and approachable isn't always maximising your attraction.

I've gotten used to buzzcuts and it fits my style, does female gaze matter that much when it comes to haircuts?

Well look, let's stop using "female gaze" here.

It's hard to answer your question without knowing the answer you really want.

So I'll make a guess that you want to date women and fuck them.

First you need to stop listening to women directly. They give clues, but they are always leading you astray. Everything they say is in THEIR best interests, not yours.

So now the question: long hair or short hair.

You definitely need it to work with who you are. No point in having long hair (alternative/rocker/hippie) if you're an accountant (stable).

No point in having short hair if you're really a rock star in a metal band.

So.... congruence will help you. This matters because female initial interest is based on attraction and compatibility and if this isn't who you are then you lose all the girls who were initially interested.

So, primarily that: congruence.

Secondly.... you'll find more girls like guys with shorter hair. So on balance shorter is better UNLESS you have a niche appeal, in which case it makes sense to polarise their opinions.

And lastly: what do YOU want. who are YOU. this matters most.

FFS..
Decide for yourself what looks good and just continue doing that. You should absolutely not let others think for you. Learn to be unique and give less of a shit about trivial things.

I shaved my head bald. Because bald is better than balding. I still get as much pussy as I want. It's not the look that's as important as the presence.

i have long curly hair and get complimented on it almost every time I go on a night out by girls I think older women like short hair while college age girls like longer hair

, does female gaze matter that much when it comes to haircuts?

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Short hair

Don't rely on fish to tell you how to catch fish, ask a fisherman

Some women like the artsy look, most don't