I have newly enrolled into university, delayed it 2 years because I needed to work in order to save up for a hair transplantation. This university of mine is fully loaded with good looking girls, and I have above avarage looks(around 7/10), I did approaches in other places, they were good. But in my understanding, approaching is kind of "reserved" for only happen in the WILD, not in a non-primitive, prestigeous place like the university. My strategy would be "targeting" 5-6 girls who seem to be the best for me, then approach them (ideally all of them). But my biggest fear is that I approach a girl, then she rejects me, and tells her friends that I tried the approach, then in a few days the whole university knows about the incident. After that I can see when I will succeed with another one of them.. like never . So in my understanding having this kind of prejudice against me that I am a serial killer (serial approacher) in a secluded community like university , is somewhat of a death sentence in a preselection sense which is in the top 5 factors of attraction. But if it works, then I might end up in a wild roller coaster/endless loop of success. So I'm planning to try approaching, but also interested about hearing some expert inputs on this.
Steve2002
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mattyanon Admin 12h ago
Bear in mind that 8/10 looks for a man is what women consider average.
bulshit.
women are women
which is why you don't try too hard. you approach and chat to them ...... in fact, aim to chat to EVERYONE. it's not approaching, it's getting to know people. And that's still legal in most countries.
Right.
So........ don't shit where you eat.
Socialise, get to know people.
Don't fuck girls in your classes.
medstudentgerman2002 3h ago
Your focus in the first months should not be on girls but on making lots of acquaintances and friends. It's not that hard, just be open and friendly and don't isolate yourself, go to all the parties.
That way you can also observe which girls are interesting to you. In my first couple weeks of med school I saw some girls that I dreamed of dating, now I wouldn't even look at them twice and I regret the ones I made a move on back then because I didn't know there were way better options. Nowadays (after 2+ years) I'm socially settled at my school, made all the friends I wanted, have lots of social proof. I couldn't care less what people think of me if I approach a girl and get rejected because I have a solid reputation.
pofkaf 1 1d ago
Do cold approaches everywhere. Why limit yourself to just the campus? Go to local coffee shops, book stores, parties, etc. There are plenty of women to approach.
As to your specific question, approaching on campus is perfectly fine assuming you're not an ugly autist. Even when you are rejected (which will happen plenty) the girls will most likely forget about you within two seconds.
There are plenty of YouTube videos (not even TRP related) where dudes approach girls on campuses all the time. Watch them to get a feeling and boost your confidence.
Steve2002 19h ago
I need LTR girl who is studious .
kardon93 1d ago
I nailed it at university and im 7/10. Im good looking but average height. What was the secret? SOCIAL PROOF, and gym.
Make a ton of friends, both men and women. Go to the parties, be known. You must be good at something, either art or sports, whatever. Use that to your advantage. Join a club. Once your popular and known, girls will be the one to approach you, trust me.
Be flirty with women you like, if you sense they are not flirting back, which is very likely to happen just become friends with them, but true cool friend. Not a simping friend. This will get you a lot of opportunities, specially as months pass by and you keep knowing more people.
If you fail at this, no PUA shit is gonna rescue you.
Steve2002 19h ago
Yeah might need to build social proofs.
Musicgoon78 3 1d ago
Just talk to people. Cold approach is a term for spergs. Normal successful and confident guys just talk to people. If you make it no big deal that's exactly what it will be, if you think of it as an approach it will be awkward as you expect.
Work on your conversation skills and go after what you want. Don't "approach".
Steve2002 19h ago
I learned it from TRP .
Musicgoon78 3 18h ago
That's good. People need to learn. This is a case of using the right tools, for the right context. Cold approach is made for guys with little to no social skills. It's not calibrated and not smooth. It's not natural.
In this case, its a very bad idea to cold approach.
Cold approach is you forcing your presence on a woman instead of attracting her to be in your presence. Huge difference. In the case of a school, cold approaching random chicks will earn you a creep reputation.
You either learn how to talk to people like a natural or simply don't bother trying to date anyone from your school.
Steve2002 17h ago
I'm natural
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 11h ago
No the fuck you aren't.
Musicgoon78 3 11h ago
Don't lie.
First-light 2 1d ago
"Cold approach is a term for spergs"
You have written it so I do not need to.
First-light 2 1d ago
If you are "that strange man who randomly asked me out" then you will get that reputation with the hive.
Become that cool friendly guy who is good at sports, acting, singing ...(pretty much anything you are good at).
Talk to lots of girls because you are a cool friendly guy and they are interesting people.
When you find out enough about a girl to think you like her company not just her tits (because you will have to tolerate a lot of time in her company to get to play with her tits for a few minutes from time to time) and she appears to be attracted to you (yeah she really does need to signal that she is attracted to you and it might take some time to calibrate what attracted to you looks like as opposed to is friendly and enthusiastic), ask her out.
Pre approval goes a long way with the hive. Being known by a hive member as a cool guy gets you pre-approved status with all the other hive members and you go on the possibly fuckable list.
Steve2002 19h ago
hive mind approval is law
MrSupreme 1d ago
If you feel like your reputation could be at risk then Be friendly,very friendly and pleasant to talk to.Your best friend is called "Plausible deniability", no girl should be able to tell you're hitting on her until you make the right move at the right time, other than that its just friendly chatter with maybe some light flirting and showing interest. Take your time with them.
f you're so atttractive as you say then targetting 5-6 girls is not the best idea, because those chicks just shut down at the sight of valuable men,they think their value is too low for them. I've tried approaching girls that are not bad looking but not great and they end up being loser girls with low self esteem and a bit resentful. Prettier girls can handle eye contact,kino and appreciate a man that's not drooling over her pretty face but instead trying to fuck her instead of dreaming of it.
SwarmShawarma 20h ago
Can you expand m0re on it. Its so vague I didn't understand how did you arrive to B from A
MrSupreme 19h ago
Ok I'll try and expand on this,and remember it has been my experience.I m not saying I'm chad thundercock, but I am confident,well spoken,friendly and can lead a conversation,plus im not unattractive and decent looking.I'll use the silly 5-9 beauty scale.
My experience with 5-6 girls has been that they show interest, then they throw some sort lf shit test where you have to become their bitch.If i pass the test then she remains somewhat resentful that I'm not a bitch and It is I who loses interest because I don't find them cute anymore, they seem more interested in the ego boost and getting their frustrations out on men for not giving them enough attention.Not cute,not interesting,and not happy people.
Girls that are a +7, will react better to advances from men who don't give a fuck about their looks (but still sre tryna smash), who have better social skills,more self esteem and are looking good, also having their shit together.
I have approached many 5-6 looking babes and it has been a failure, always.
But the successes both in lays and just pleasant interactions (even when rejected) have been with the +7 girls, they don't care about the ego boost, they're flattered and don't usually play games (unless you orbit), they're kind and happy.
I stopped feeling bad about judging women by their looks, if she is a beauty outside tben inside she's gonna have some desirable traits,like being happy and kind.
I decided to aim higher because of this, some guys can do better than they think and I see it all the time.
SwarmShawarma 5h ago
Dude are you trying to flip whole TRP history with "the better she looks, the less shit she is": D
Thanks for a dive.
MrSupreme 2h ago
Lol c'mon, think about it.If you are a good looking guy with strong frame and actually not insecure,high self esteem,happy and confident would you really be happy interacting with a bitter and resentful 5-6 or with a light hearted 7?
SwarmShawarma 1h ago
My reply was definitely lighthearted coz I cant say. Altho I'm defo not CTC, I have my fair share of exp, including dating and trynna to make 2 chicks be sort of gf for me together. They are low drama considering the setup, also cute, not resentful, not bitter etc. Hence I asked you about it in the first place, I was curious about your exp.
Steve2002 19h ago
This. I personally only go for 7+ and over. Else it's never a pleasant experience.
Jackmoter 1d ago
You don't have to justify why you didn't go to university for two years to us.
Which country are you in?
Just don't be creepy.
Steve2002 19h ago
I'm currently in Pécs, Hungary. Almost nailed a free trip to the USA, but I had problem with my paper.