Looking for some advice from guys on the forum about organizing threesomes etc. This isn't something I've really done before and the opportunity has somewhat presented itself, so need some advice.
So I have plate 1. Very submissive latina. She's bisexual and on our second meet started talking about she would like to explore a threesome. I said I can do that, but left it at that. Since then, she has brought it up a few times.
I then met plate 2. Again quite submissive, but very much straight. We had a conversation about kinks etc and she brought up a threesome. Again, I said I could do that and left it at that.
Both of them have brought it up since and asked if I could organize one for them.
Plate 1 has pushed the most. I said I had someone in mind (plate 2). She probed a bit more and I described her. She seemed on board but hasn't seen a photo or anything like that.
Plate 2 has also brought it up since and I told her I had someone in mind (plate 1). She seems on board, but more from a "hey this could be fun" angle. I told her that plate 1 is bi sexual and will probably be interested in the female aspect, is she okay with that. She said that is okay. But she didn't seem super crazy about it or anything.
This weekend both of them want to see me and the only day I have available is friday. So seems like potentially a good time to float the idea.
I'm looking for some advice on how I potentially go about this - is it worth it? If so, how do I navigate the logistical and social aspect of all this?
When I meet plate 1, I always meet her at her house. So that will (most likely) be the venue. I will need her go ahead to invite plate 2 around. Unless I get her to come to mine...
Plate 2 isnt bi sexual. Plate 1 wants a threesome to fuck both a guy and a girl at the same time. Is this gonna be a problem? (Maybe?).
Do I just float - hey wanna threesome? Or do I need a bit more plausible denialbility than that?
Do I need to blindfold them or whatever?
So many questions.
Answering own question:
My gut its to say "hey, threesome?". She what the response is and go from there.
But honestly this is completely uncharted territory for me - getting two strangers to agree to a threesome.
Musicgoon78 3 19h ago
This is my specialty bro. First and foremost is the honest truth: this is very difficult to pull off. Most likely someone is going to sulk off in tears.
First thing first. Get the two together for dinner. See if you can get them to vibe on a sisterly or collaborative level. Keep both of them engaged and chatting. If they don't vibe well, it's toast. Drop it as an idea if they can't be friendly.
The name of the game is "leadership". You direct the show and keep both girls busy and tasked. If one of them feels excluded, it's going to go south.
The main key is that they have to like each other enough to work together.
Bozza 2 19h ago
One of my thoughts is that maybe theres a bit too much to this and maybe it wont workout, dont push it.
Interesting. I say that because Vasilly (who I believe was either an endorsed contributor or a vanguard) has quite a few posts on the forum saying the opposite. Don't let them meet, just get on with it - thoughts?
Musicgoon78 3 18h ago
I'm going to disagree with just get on with it. Getting on with it will make it happen, unsuccessfully.
I've had many fucked up threesomes and many successful ones. Everyone is different. In this case I'm not afraid to say that I completely disagree with Vas. There's an age difference between the two of us and probably personality differences. I can tell you what works for me.
Go with what you think works. If it fucks up with Uncle Vas's advice, then go with mine or vice versa. I can say I've had a shit ton of threesomes.
I want my bros to have repeatable success. I also think you have to be more cautious when one girl isn't bi.
Bozza 2 18h ago
Cheers for your advice bro, honestly appreciate it.
So Im guessing this weekend, probably a no go. Need to arrange a meet between them and find out what the vibe is first?
And in that sense - I'm guessing that needs to be "platonic" - in the sense that I can't go home with one of them. We need to meet, do our thing and all go home separately to avoid any potential emotions or anything else.
Bozza 2 18h ago
I know plate 1 will tolerate almost anything. Plate 1 gets off on the fact that i fuck other women. I've had plates call me asking to fuck me and she has apologized. So that's probably gonna be fine.
Plate 2 is semi there. Plate 2 is well aware of the fact I fuck other women. She's seen me out in public with other women. Thought it might cause a shit storm, but she's never mentioned it. Still wants to have a threesome with me so we're cool I guess.
She's not bi, but seems somewhat fine with fucking other women? Not sure if that's to try and snag me or what. Who knows.
SwarmShawarma 4h ago
I would expect it only if one is entitled bitch or mentally fucked up
Just take a lead, make fun out of sex, most importantly take reponsibility especially in the eyes of the no bi girl to remove any accountability from her, expect to fumble so you don't show any kind of guilt or shame over it, don't worry if you can't get hard because of mental multitasking but get toys.
Sure it would be better if the girls would like each other etc. @musicgoon78 says to pre-meet.
I would argue about the use case. I might be wrong but if you have both giris knowing (fucking) you already (and they want to settle with you) then getting them together beforehand would be trouble as they might try (non bi) competing with eachother. Will also depend on personality types, anxious types, will be well.... anxious.
Get them worked up, use safe word and warn that no is not a no.
Agree with a bi chick that the other one will need more attention. She has to agree if she want a pussy anyway.
Be careful with bi chick she might try to be dominant. You have to snip it in the bud. Have some template for punishment.
Musicgoon78 3 8h ago
Plate number 1 is your trooper. You and her both work together to make your non bi plate more comfortable.
Bozza 2 7h ago
cheers bro.
I'll spek with plate 1, show her a photo of plate 2. If I get the green light, ill arrange a meet.
Then we can go from there.
Hopefully thats the way to do it
Kloi 11h ago
I'd take the straight girl that seems willing and "accidentally" bump into the bi girl out for drinks, later at night and see if they click. In a perfect world, they'd like each other and more bi girl would initiate with the other one.
My girl was into women so we'd just find semi curious girls at the bar or party. We'd move to a private spot, normally our house. The two girls would start going at it, because my girl was into bitches. Eventually one of them would grab for my dick after they warmed each other up.
Most of ours were right place right time/women hearing she was into this and wanting the experience. Nothing at all similar to what you're wanting to do. Alot of my game was roping the girl in, then letting my girl start the physical stuff.
Bozza 2 11h ago
See this would be a good idea. Except plate 1 is a bit of a homebody, and lives not hugely far away, but not walking distance.
If I wanted them to meet I would have to organise it.
Plate 2 lives close by, she can walk home. Plate 1 would have to get an uber to/from mine/city centre.
Lone_Ranger 3 5h ago
what on earth are you doing with your life? Trying to turn it into a real version of porn hub?
What do you think you are going to get out of this?
Would you really want an LTR with a woman that wants a 3 some?
Seriously?
Bozza 2 2h ago
Who said anything about an LTR? These are plates.