Last time I got my plates to spend some time together after sex. They prepared breakfast right after sex and did some kitchen stuff still naked while I was elsewhere.
Then I took em for a ride/walk to a nice spot, sat them at the back so I have peace driving and preventing one trying to force getting my attention and made the other one jealous.
IDK is walking around small kitchen flashing a pussy while I'm not there a sign of being uncomfortable - I rather assume it is build up to slowly trickle play me.
One of the plates told me she is not comfortable about it later on and she doesnt want to hang out with the other one, but that might be as well her game to just eliminate a competition or not to be in direct competition. The other one is willing to do more concessions so doesn't complain about it.
If I have had another plate that is ready to do this shit then I would have an answer, but...
They both are not bad plates and I would rather give a go at gaming them the right way than cycle plates [especially I dont have any more for the same purpose].
I guess I could play the withdrawal game suggesting abundance and sure it is one option, except one of this plates is temporary by design so I would rather try a different approach as I don't have that much time to learn something new nor to play long brakes game.
Bozza 2 1d ago
Why are you trying to get them to spend non sexual time together?
Lostandhound 1d ago
A wise man once said this about meeting new women
I'd rather have 2 women than 1 in general, I'd rather they talk to each other and be somewhat like sisters to each other and fuck me when I feel like it for double the pleasure, I'd rather have women that can rely on each other - in womanese terms - rather than on some ranom friends that try to dirty trick them in work/life etc.
I'd like to contribute to TRP as a 80yo gentleman sharing a field report on how to manage 2 old wrinkly bitches.
Bozza 2 21h ago
But, that sounds like you're coming at this from an LTR perspective. Given you;ve said one of these plates in temporary, is that decent ROI?
Unless this is purely a learning opportunity?
Lostandhound 1h ago
Yes. Plenty of the theory has to be experienced.
There is no way you can get to some conclusions just possessing all TRP knowledge. That knowledge makes you aware and prepare what shit you get into if you ignore good advice.
At least one can have a chance to control the splash of a shit that got into a fan.
Kind of unrelated to this specific thing as there is little about my use case, but relates to getting any learning opportunity.
First-light 2 1d ago
When women do stuff in bed (or usually anywhere else for that matter) it is for themselves. Its either because she likes it herself or because you like it and she does it for you because she knows you will do something good for her. This is why women tend to do more kinky stuff for men early in a relationship -she may not think it out consciously but she wants to hook you in as a resource to bring benefit to her life after that kinky stuff they don't actually like will tend to be transactional in the end..
So if one does not like being with the other one, it will require you to do enough to offset that. The idea that simply being alpha enough will carry it doesn't work for anyone but a man trading way below his worth, so that the women involved just can't say no if they want to keep him in their life. Otherwise she needs to see it as a source of benefit to her one way or another.
Some women do see sharing a man as an advantage but they are in a minority. Its unlikely you will convince the unconvinced one and any push will result in push back.
MrSupreme 1d ago
This is just an idea. Andy Wells at Kill Your Inner Loser (changed name recently) has a 5-6 year old relationship with a pretty girl about 8 years younger than him, she is bisexual and they usually pick up other girls on dating apps and have threesomes, often adding some S&M stuff as well. They seem to have a pretty good arrangement, he's nonchalant about it and has some guides on his website about managing such a lifestyle.
Maybe you can learn something from that guy, like having a very stable relationship with an open minded and horny girl, and picking up a third chick for both of you to have fun. You can have the best of both worlds and it sounds more sustainable than having to always be in a stage where the girls may just leave because whatever and having to rotate both girls from the start.