To clarify this isn't the previous chick I wrote about.
I found the most options now than ever before. Yet, I think either they're not good quality or there's problem with me.
In the last couple of interactions with chicks it always goes like this - we meet outside, talk a little then go to my place or we straight up go to my place.
Before I thought I was too invasive since I always ended a 1st date with a kiss/make out or even more while my buddy only got a 1st kiss on 2nd, 3rd even 4th date and ended in relationships - that's not saying he's right or I'm wrong.
I honestly think since they like me and want to be sexual, why just not indulge in it, be it a kiss, handjob, sex. Cause wtf am I gonna talk with chicks anyway? If I don't do anything, they'd just say I'm weak bcs I didn't advance enough.
I've read on here that women put men into 2 categories: 1 is for good genes (situationships) and the other is for providing (relationships).
But still, even they can mix with each other.
I found this 1 girl which seems nice, previous ones were from socials, but this 1 and her family are good with mine - so there's a better chance she wont be a classic hoe. Maybe that helps?
Does me not entering in relationships tell more about me - maybe my approaches and interactions with them can only lead to sex or are they just hoes and don't want to enter anything serious?
And not 1 of them asks for something serious (it's their job - they gave me pussy, now it's their job to lock me and to not be seen as a hoes). Why would I ask for something serious?
And giving rules before they ask for something serious is dumb, girls dislike that and if she came only bcs she's horny and wants dick wtf would I risk to be seen as desperate for wanting something serious.
I like something fun, but I never was in a serious relationship and I want to see if I can learn something new from that experience.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
1) Stop mentally masturbating
2) answer your own question in the post.
Just because you finally got a win doesn't mean you can ignore the rules here
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
Relationships are red pill on hard mode
You should work on getting better at women in the first place. You very clearly don't understand much of red pill. I'm not sure how you've read the sidebar more than once and still talking this way
You are nowhere near ready or capable of a relationship at this point
Lone_Ranger 3 1d ago
Vermy the truth lord
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
Thanks lmao
A blunt one at that
MidgetSpinner 1d ago
They're red pill on easy mode if you stop giving a fuck, and find a girl that's ride or die lol.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
Not really dude they will leave you because of lack of proper relationship management
If you're in a relationship you ostensibly want to make it work. If you don't care if it works why bother
You need to give some semblance of sufficient fuck to keep a relationship you actually want. If you don't want it why be in one
MidgetSpinner 1d ago
I'm not saying not to care if it works while you're in it, I'm saying stop giving a fuck about the outcome. Relationships are made easier by 1. You having your shit together, and a back pocket full of failed relationships to learn from, and 2. Not worrying about the outcome, enjoying the process, and having a girl you know is fully onboard.
Relationships are rarely built to last anyway, so knowing that makes it easier and who knows? You might find yourself lucky enough to have a long term one.
Jackmoter 1d ago
Ah, the curse of knowledge. You've learned these lessons, but if you read that message 5, 10 years ago, would you have abandoned your own philosophies and beliefs and suddenly be able to careless and identify a "ride or die" girl?
MidgetSpinner 1d ago
You know when you've got one, and I guess that comes down to a matter of where you are in life, and your experiences. Extremely accomodating and willing to do whatever you want. Lets you lead easily.
But you make a good point. No, I wouldn't have.
MidgetSpinner 1d ago
You need to be the one to stop looking for anything serious. The right girl will naturally try to lead you down that path anyway, just make sure you're vetting for any red flags along the way. Have fun and see what happens dude.
SSBPikkon 1d ago
Girls these days are crazy, I can fuck them and go on and on till forever.
Those with right minds can at least try to make something serious of that, cuz I can find another one and I can switch between options.
Jackmoter 1d ago
There's a reason there are a lot of posts about "the talk".. because if a woman likes you she will try and lock you down.
Jackmoter 1d ago
"Cause wtf am I gonna talk with chicks anyway? If I don't do anything, they'd just say I'm weak bcs I didn't advance enough." What the fuck does that even mean.
Women are humans too. They can be really interesting and insightful.
The best path you can take is to maintain multiple plates at the same time. This way you will discover what you like in a woman, and the different types of women out there, while at the same time developing an abundance mindset.
That being said, I completely ignored that advice and dived head deep into a relationship with an god tier manipulative girl. I've learned a lot - but most importantly I've seen the value of the advice I just gave.
"Only the fool learns from his own mistakes... The wise man learns also from the mistakes of others"
mattyanon Admin 1d ago
how do you know if she's a ho or not?
eh?
eh?
okay.....
err...
Not sure I understand the question.
Look, if you want a good relationship, vet for a good woman, WITHOUT HER KNOWING YOU ARE DOING IT, because women will pretend to be good.
If she isn't 100% good, loyal and honest,, don't do what everyone on asktrp does, which is a variation on this: "I found a good woman, only problem is that she is a dishonest lying whore with a history of fraud, but she really is a great woman, is it ok to marry her?"
Vermillion-Rx Admin 23h ago
I found a great woman who cooks and cleans and sucks my dick but she fucked Destiny in the past, should I dump her?
No-Stress-Cat 21h ago
You yungins overthink too much. Just pop on down to the Wife Store. They have a Labor Day sale coming up.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1h ago
I found all three of mine on WaifuFinder . com