There is 1 chick who I'm seeing rn. She's good, submissive, but female hypergamy is real - she sometimes goes MIA for 2-3 hours and doesn't reply, that doesn't say she's out, but she's texting other dudes.
The 1st time I met her we did everything, but short of sex. 2nd time we were out and stayed a little bit shorter, there weren't logistics and place for intercourse. 3rd time was today, same as the 1st time, but short of sex, I did penetrate her, but sex as it is means changing positions, it needs to be longer - I did couple thrusts, she didn't want to continue and it was getting late so she went home.
She is good everywhere, she rly likes me, but that part about texting is tricky.
She did send me, as well as other chicks, some freaky content, which of course I screen record. Because some chicks bail on me, don't link up, or block/remove me and I keep all the videos like any other dude.
She said today "do you love me" and everything after that went smoothly. She went through my phone and she almost found recording of her sending me spicy pics and she asked is that her - to which I replied no it's the other girl, since they sent me texts at the same time.
I don't think she realizes it's her, she probably thinks it's the other chick. She went on and on how she's upset with me and I said I only delete, put boundaries etc. when I'm fully with someone - she didn't ask for a relationship, she said that's my job which I clearly know it isn't.
She said she's not gonna come anymore, but that's bullshit.
What to do now? Do I remove all the photos? I don't want to bcs I really don't know if she's anywhere close to the gf material and also her saying "I don't text other dudes" is a lie we all know.
I think I should remove her when it goes downhill. These girls nowadays don't give a fuck anymore, she's angry about me not being serious and texting other chicks, while she texts other dudes without shame.
Or do I cool down, be even more cold than I was before? I was always in the power, today I think she flipped the swtich in her head that she's as equal or better than me (that's my understanding it doesn't need to be correct).
Maybe all goes well, maybe she likes that she's the one competing for me and we're all together happy.
Kloi 1d ago
Lmfao, I forget guys actually do this shit. If you feel the need to hang onto that shit, be intelligent about it and tuck it away in a secure/private folder.
My recommendation is don't do that. It just screams thirsty to me.
SSBPikkon 1d ago
So you mean I tuck it away, make a private folder and just move pictures there?
No-Stress-Cat 1d ago
You're letting this chick dictate the rules. That's YOUR job. You are supposed to be the leader. If she don't want to follow, she can go find some other beta to masturbate to her.
Women don't send nudes and freaky texts because they want to feel sexy and have men drooling all over them. Men do that anyway even when they're wearing clothes. They send that shit out because they're trying to bait you. The bigger bite you take, the more she's got you hook, line, and sinker.
Don't be like Billy. Be a fucking Chad.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
First of all who keeps these photos in the regular photos. Use a private folder dude lol
Secondly you already lost the plot with a chick you barely know
Your bigger problem is that you are not even getting enthusiastic sex with current women. You have much work to do.
Go find a new one and work on your deficits
Musicgoon78 3 23h ago
Jesus weeps for this inept shit. Stop trying to be an alpha. You're just larping. This girl is in complete control and you're actually bending to her will. Go find other women and ditch this one.
You're getting played and you're thinking with the smaller head.