I‘m talking about those women who are doing well in life (intelligent, happy, good social status) and look better than 99%. Who do they end up marrying?
I‘m doing well in terms of SMV and expect it to get better into my 30s since I have a good career lined up. Part of me is worried that the really desirable, 10/10 once in a blue moon women will get snatched up by rich fucks who take them on expensive vacations and buy a big house at 30.
Is that realistically what happens? Or do they date the same losers that all the other halfway attractive woman are also dating (honestly based on my few observations so far that’s what actually happens)
Attempt to answer own Question: don’t worry thinking about what women want, you’re the prize. But still, I can’t help but wonder.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
You're going to hate this answer but honestly a lot of guys just grow up around or happen to already be in proximity to these women
Or their family already knows them or whatever
Some of you guys thinking there is a magic pussy password to certain women but women fuck dudes and date dudes for all kinds of reasons
And for every mega hot desireable woman out there there is some man who is so sick of her shit he has left her.
You guys need to stop pedestalizing hypothetical unicorns
Sure, being a giga Chad helps but women also go for familiarity or the plot she has been given the story to already
It's not all skill or ability
MrSupreme 22h ago
I think of this every time i find a beauty out there, some guy got tired of her shit, and I might too, and it is ok if I do.
medstudentgerman2002 23h ago
On one hand thats good, if it's outside of my control there's no point in expending my energy.
On the other hand, I always kind of hoped that if I become successful there will be a big trophy in the form of a woman that's only accessible when you have that level of success. In reality that woman is probably getting back together for the 3rd time with her ex she met in college
SpiritualEnema 22h ago
While that might sound nice in your mind, you don’t want one of those women (most women) who only show up at the finish line and pick the winners. If she is willing to ride the struggle bus with you through medical school, then she might have just enough loyalty and integrity to not make your life miserable when you finally start making money.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 19h ago
Your chances go up but you're not gauranteed shit
You should aim to get successful for your own happiness
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 19h ago
A) that's a massive covert contract. Read "No More Mr. NiceGuy" by Dr. Robert Glover and use what he says in there to try to eliminate thinking along the lines of covert contracts.
B) like @SpiritualEnema said, a woman that only wants you because of your success, status, prestige, whatever and wasn't struggling along with you to get there isn't likely to be as loyal as one who was.
And I'd take a loyal and pleasant 6 over a spoiled, bitchy 9 who will jump on the next upgrade.
MrSupreme 22h ago
Women who are 10% looks will definitely be more on the lookout for ways to exploit this one powerful strength, it can be those gym chicks everyone wants to fuck, a beautiful model or whatever.
What is common between the men these women end up choosing for long term relationships? Money-Looks-Status-Game
What is common between the men the other 90% of women end up choosing for long term relationships? Money-Looks-Status-Game
In different proportions, some will value money more (like Dubai traveling girls), others game (model bored of pretty boys who simp and don't make her tingle), others looks (gym girls who only date super fit and muscular guys) and the status is what girls who like getting banged by guys in bands,artists,and any guy who will make her feel like she's famous and into that lifestyle, this includes being popular in bars too.Fame is crack.
They all care about the same things, stop pedestalizing them because they're fucking gorgeous and hot. Do your part and ger more money, look better, have game and IMO the hardest part is the Status but do your best there too.
mattyanon Admin 18h ago
Right.
Best plan as a man is to plan on fucking lots of women. You basically can't find your equal because it almost never exists. Certainly much rarer. So go for quantity over quality. It's what we are "supposed to do", genetically speaking.
Betas, by definition. Top 0.1% men don't need to or want to get married.
I really know, can't think I've met many 0.1% women and most women are not honest about their dating practices with anyone. Perhaps not even themselves.
Musicgoon78 3 13h ago
I've found that the vast majority of these women chase money. They are very expensive. They put a lot of work into themselves. To translate that: they put very little work into you.
So I call this a fuck-chick. What that means is you eventually get fucked over in some sort of way from them. They will look for a rich guy that will take them places and lavish them with great things. Once thoroughly spoiled, they will fuck the alpha pool boy or the personal trainer. The provider guy gets fucked out of his money. And the alpha guy will want more than she's willing to give.
Now, it sounds like you're unicorn hunting. Get your head out of your ass. If you're not in the top 0.1% of billionaires in the world ,this shit doesn't matter.
Find girls that you like and fuck them. Is your measure of success a trophy wife?
No-Stress-Cat 12h ago
First of all, let us define the terms. To me, 0.1% women are 10/10's, which are supermodels, actresses, PYT singers, etc. Realistically speaking, only the rich and famous are able to afford these types of women. The rest of us are stuck with the hard body butterfaces, and cute to kinda-hot at best women. The average woman is going to be a 7 on her best days.
Speaking of American women, 21% are single moms, 40% are obese, 32% are age 30 and older (2024). That's not including the other red flags (married, crazy, tats and bull rings, feminist, liberal, butt-ugly, etc.).
That narrows the field down for anyone looking to seriously date anyone skinny, cute, and normal. We should strive for the best, but the truth is, at most we're only able to get the best that we can get.
PS: There's nothing wrong with being a rich fuck. You should strive to become a rich fuck yourself so that you can get all the 0.1% pussy you could ever want too. ;)