- talking to this chick she’s from another country we’ve met a few times
- I told her in a casual conversation I’m going overseas (to a country)
- she said initially omg take me with you
- I said ok , and then we planned a trip to a country 3 days together
- one day prior she bailed saying her flight got cancelled and can’t make it the transit is gonna cost her too much yap yap yap a really long paragraph . I was going to go anyway. When she bailed I stayed non reactive, and said no problem.
- I was going to this country anyway with or without her so it’s not a huge deal. In this country I’m having luck with lots of women.
- I was wondering if I upload a story to Instagram with other women will this employ effective dreadgame ? Or will this look try hard.
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MidgetSpinner 10mo ago
Bro, if she likes you the dread game will be spinning in her head all on its own. You don't need to upload manipulative photos and Instagram stories like a woman- don't play those games. Just be there and have fun without her. That's it.
adventurousman79 10mo ago
Agree, I didn’t end up doing it. Thanks for the insight , I was thinking about it wrong.
MidgetSpinner 10mo ago
You made the right decision, brother.
dirtymikeandtheboyz 10mo ago
It would look very try hard. What you want is to post stories that leave her guessing. The worst thing you can give a woman is uncertainty.
If you post with other women you've effectively given her the answer that you've moved on or that she got a strong reaction out of you.
If you post stories that are a bit more mysterious and leave her guessing that will drive her mad. Think of "I've visited this awesome beach patio and there's voices in the background of random people. "She will think are those women that are with him ? Are the men a group of cool friends he met and is going around the country hitting on women with.. etc... the hamster will be hamstering very hard.
MidgetSpinner 10mo ago
I'd argue that if he's posting stories to get any reaction out of her, and not purely for himself then he's already lost internal frame. Why do all that for her? If she likes him, her hamster wheel will be spinning regardless of what he does purely because he's out in another country without her potentially having fun.
No need to play these games.
adventurousman79 10mo ago
Question: I happen to be visiting this persons country in a month or two time. (I had booked it before we even met). She vaguely knows I’m visiting at some stage, but doesn’t know dates. Should I bother asking her out to grab drinks a week or two before I arrive ?
adventurousman79 10mo ago
Thanks , I appreciate this.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 10mo ago
Dread is the fear of losing you.
You are nothing to her.
Therefore, you cannot use dread on her.
mattyanon Admin 10mo ago
Ok, cool.
See my recent post about not entering into TRYING TO MAKE IT WORK.
Live your life... go. have fun..... this girl: whatever.
AbusiveFather1 10mo ago
Do you mind sharing which country it is?
BeeSerious9 10mo ago
so you meet to fuck, so she invested something in her life for you, namely pussy, if you did not overdo conversations - and convince me you didn't - then she is little invested
what do you want? do you want to keep plate for fucking? you can post some group photo with women involved where showing off how alpha you are is not the focus, but then post some bland touristic pictures as well. If you post on insta then it will look normal anyway. Plus you are not trying to hook her in specifically, itll work on all woman stalking.
resist to talk to her, you can send her a sweet message like nothing happened that you will be in touch when u r back, and then more
if she pushes to see you you have to request sacrifice on her part and a big one, something that looks like you don't want her to pass this test
it is not a revenge you want to prize your TIME - how can she save your time - WITHOUT your involvement [or minimal one]. There is little in this category.
Women before any kind of commitment can generally provide a pussy only. So to save you time she needs to bring you a new pussy or be available for 3sum on request.
Other stuff usually requires you to be involved and you are sacrificing even more time to an unworthy woman. She wins what she wants.
she asks for money or fishing for a provider, consider this cancellation as a power trip to see how you will react - how much do you want her there and will you put some cash on a table