So ive been hanging out with my buddy his gf and one of her ridiculously good looking friends a few times.
Last weekend we went to a bar with some folk and ended up going to an afterparty afterwards. At this place everyone was pretty much sitting around the coffee table in the living room doing lines and getting fucked up. As the night progressed we were flirting and teasing and out of the blue she just blurts out "hey X do you want me to blow you?" (this was in front of everyone as we were all around the coffee table)
Not going to lie, it caught me offguard, and all i could muster to reply was "only if you make me finish".
We ended up going out on the balcony for a smoke and only ended up making out after which we went home (it was like 6 in the morning by now). I do feel i should've been able to get more out of this, but honestly not sure how I could have handled it differently.
My thought was I should have tried to pull her in the only washroom in the condo, but given that it seemed to always be 2 or 3 people in there at a time maybe it would've been bad manners to the other people. Should i have just been a dick to everyone else and done it anyways?
No-Stress-Cat 2d ago
Her: "Hey X, do you want me to blow you?"
Me: I dunno. What's in it for me?
dirtymikeandtheboyz 2d ago
wouldnt she just reply "a blowjob?"
kv2_0833 2d ago
her reply doesn't matter, just smirk after, its already cheeky and implies many things
dirtymikeandtheboyz 1d ago
I think I get it
it's kind of flipping the script and making her the chaser in this scenario
Musicgoon78 2 2d ago
Did you get her number? If you didn't then that the only way you fucked this up. Otherwise it's just a comment and you're overthinking.
dirtymikeandtheboyz 2d ago
i have her contact but i didnt want it for more than a night. Not the kind of woman i would date.
kv2_0833 2d ago
what makes you think you'll always get in the first night, dating doesn't imply exclusivity seems like mental masturbation if you're willing to try in the first place
dirtymikeandtheboyz 1d ago
this isn't a dating scenario, this is a party bar/club scenario
its not uncommon for people to hook up in the washroom of a club or bedroom at a random party afterhours.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago
Dunno man, basic game for starters
Do you know anything about pulling and pacing your set?
Number?
Did you do anything with any game common sense here?
So much wrong with this question because you're asking us if you should have fucked instead of the overall theme of you not knowing how to close in general? You really had no plan B's or C's to even contemplate besides fucking at the party?
Might as well ask us to teach you game
dirtymikeandtheboyz 2d ago
this wasnt me planning to hook up with this woman or even trying to, its not someone i would date but she was just there and if it happened with minimal effort i would do it otherwise i dont care enough.
im more curious about the response to the shit test than the lay.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago
Bro you say minimal effort but you're making a post about it
We can all see it
dirtymikeandtheboyz 1d ago
yes I made a post because i thought it was an interesting/challenging shit test that i couldn't figure out.
If I wanted to pursue her above the minimum i would have done that and gotten the contact info or relocated to mine.
hence why this post is about how to slam dunk the easy lay up with minimal effort in that specific scenario
Dxmx99 2d ago
Sounds to me like you were put on the spot. Dealt with a lot of pressure because saying yes gives your interest the highest level of clarity, plus you're in front of a bunch of people so answering the question is embarrassing. You say yes, you could be humiliated. You say no, you might be getting no head.
Probably could say "That's no way for a lady to behave. We need to have a talk in private about this. Let's go out to the back."
Honestly you should've put her hand on your junk when making out in the balcony and got a BJ with a nice view. At this point what the fuck is even "game", you already had the opportunity you were looking for presented to you.
dirtymikeandtheboyz 2d ago
unfortunately sun was already coming out and this balcony was surrounded in a U shape by a plethora of other balconies, not to mention the floor to ceiling windows that faced the living room full of people
mattyanon Admin 1d ago
Not a totally terrible response, but the fumbling itself was probably noticed.
Just say "sure", nonchalontly.
Or, if you're more of a dick like I am...... "Can you afford it?"
Well.
Kinda hard to tell if she's being honest or not.
In cases like this, ridiculous comedic over escalation on the girl's part, you have the option to ignore it and proceed with her seduction in the normal way, ie gradual teasing physical escalation.
dirtymikeandtheboyz 1d ago
yeh I am thinking your nonchalant approach is probably the best approach to this.
Just give a smirk and ignore it