I want you to imagine that you have dozens of super hot women that are all wanting you and will go out of their way to give themselves to you.

One night you're feeling horny. You go have a few drinks with a friend at a bar. You have a decent conversation with a sexy girl, but she's not interested in fucking. Do you wait around with dry dick and blue balls for her or do you simply tell one of your sexy options to come over to fuck?

So you meet this girl again. You invite her to a party and she replies. "Parties are fun". Are you going to count on her showing up with some bullshit non-answer?

Women have a shit ton of options. You didn't give her dick, you didn't accept her invite and she only got a bit of attention from you. You made yourself a waste of her time.

Don't bullshit us about escalation. I've had plenty of drunk make outs. You provided her with nothing and now you're thinking that because you have muscles she's going to want you?

Women aren't like us, they are looking for more than just a physique. It comes across from these posts that you simply don't understand women.

You're going to continue to get these sort of results with this fake aloof alpha bullshit.

The real question is, why are you so hung up on one particular chick? Especially one you haven't fucked yet?

There are a million possibilities, many of which have nothing to do with you. Stop fretting over your one-itis crush and hunt up other options. If she gets back to you, pick up where you left off.

Sounds like classic attention whoring.

She's out having some fun. You ask for her snap, great, she's now got another orbiter. She then dangles the carrot just enough with the touching (knowing full well that she was going home soon anyway) to pull you into orbit. Oh look, I have to go home now tee hee!.

Then she sends you the snaps for attention and as soon as you bite, she ghosts.

When it comes to night game, don't bother with numbers/snap/instagram. You need to close that night. You want to polarize quickly and find out if she's actually serious or just attention whoring.

If you get the number/snap/IG you'll find either the lead goes cold and they ghost, or they just want attention. So don't play that game. Close or walk.

Gonna wait till I see her at the bars again and then maybe slide in; TBD gonna wait n see.

Wait and see. If you bump into her again, escalate. But don't message her.

For future reference - you'll have better results if you don't get their number, and you just happen to bump into them again.

If you get her number then she knows you're just like every other schmuck who she can have wrapped around her finger.

She feels like I rejected her sat night when I didn’t pull up so now she’s doin this bs

Possible, but unlikely given the circumstances.

She got piped and no longer sees me as that guy

This is what I mean by the leads go cold. She fucked someone else. She woke up in a different mood. whatever. You have to close there and then otherwise they will go cold.

might just be ego but I’ve made some pretty insane shreds this summer and I’m unequivocally prob like top 5% physiques on campus rn. Plus the tan, haircut, and clothing is on point

Higher your SMV is, the more you will get this kind of behavior. For them, it's a game. Especially early 20s girls. Can I get that hawt guy over there to chase me? If I can, I win.

Your job will be to start screening. Recognise these behaviours. Escalate. Polarise. Find out if she's serious as quickly as possible. If not, NEXT.

I've said this before and realised it not long ago: theres a difference between a girl that wants dick and a girl that wants -your- dick. If she's not sticking around after you passed on her invitation then she probably wanted some dickin and got it somplace else. There was a line, she considered you and if she feels rejected then that is what women dread the most, i read it is why they don't even make the first move. Rejection, they dread so much what they love giving us.