We were separated for abt 4 weeks after I broke up with her, got back again about two weeks ago and it’s been going good since then.
During those 4 weeks I cold approached someone on campus, this girl is IMO easily the hottest girl I know atm (fit late-20s med student), first noticed her 2 yrs ago and she wouldn’t even look at me so I ignored her. Eventually though she started giving me IOIs and as soon as I was single again I chatted her up on campus, didn’t exchange any contact info though.
I casually mentioned this to LTR couple days ago, she told me she knows that girl through a mutual friend (who knows I fuck good and loves gossip, prob relayed that info to the other chick). Got extremely jealous, called her a disgusting whore etc.
Yesterday at work I texted her I want to fuck you while that other girl watches and then make you two kiss each other for me. She laughed it off and said nah that’s disgusting. Today though when we had sex she started dirty talking very enthusiastically about that same scenario, towards the end she literally just kept saying she wants me to fuck that girl . We talked about it afterwards and she was still down for a threesome or just me fucking the other girl, said it’s hot to have other girls see how good her man’s dick is.
Question: how do I navigate this? Do I try to get a regular 1on1 date with the other girl (who might know I’m in a LTR again) and only bring up my LTR once we’re already fucking? Do I try to make my LTR tell the gossipy friend about her fantasy? Or do I play with open cards and ask if she’s down for threesome?
Attempt to answer own Q: I don’t know, my best answer is just don’t try it altogether and be happy with LTR. But literally even 2 years ago I thought this chick was hot as fuck so I don’t really want to pass on this opportunity
SeasonedRP 1 6d ago
I'm currently dealing with something similar. My devout Christian ladyfriend divulged that she really wants to watch me fuck another (much younger) girl. She doesn't want to participate, just watch. She detailed exactly how she wants it to go.
I'd get a date with the other girl and try to judge if she'd be down for it. No easy way to do this, unfortunately.
RiskyEntertainment 1w ago
What do you lose? You lose "LTR" that you broke up with, for reasons. But after 4 weeks you let her in again : right into LTR...
You ask what might happen. You dont seat inside her head so assume anything can happen. People here never seen her so for average poster here any option is fairly possible.
Is she afraid of loosing you and wants to agree just to keep you happy? Does she want to keep the encounter under control? Did she fuck someone herself and wants to give you one to calm her consciousness or maybe use it against you later for guilt trip? Or maybe just teasing and looking will you have balls to pursue it?
Whatever you do own it and be the master of the situation.
I assume you dont give the other one much attention. I might even say to your gf 'some women are good for sex only and she looks like shell take care of you exactly how I will like it'
Musicgoon78 2 1w ago
Loose is not the same word as lose.
"Lose" is a verb meaning to no longer have something or to fail to win, whereas "loose" is an adjective describing something that is not tight or secure. "Lose" also has related verb forms like "lost" (past tense) and "losing" (present participle). "Loose" can also be used as a verb, but this is less common and often means to release or untie.
AbusiveFather1 1w ago
can you ask your ltr to game that girl for you? to befriend her, get her over to your place, and oh - what a surprise - you're there as well, with a bottle of wine, shaved and ready to go.
on a side note: do you not care what (or who) your ltr did in those 4 weeks that you were apart?
Musicgoon78 2 1w ago
Girls don't game. They suck at that. Terrible idea.
medstudentgerman2002 1w ago
LTR is the shy type and I'm virtually 100% sure she didnt touch or text another man while we were apart. However ever since we're back together shes been talking about how the men at this show she watches are so hot, or how she saw some really hot doctors in class the other day. Also she used to be convinced no man out there is interested in her, now she actually notices when men hit on her.
Only thing I'm slightly worried about, she has all her classes in a group with 2 men who she thinks have a crush on her, and the other day they asked her to meet up together 10mins before class so they wouldn't get lost (it was a surgery class in the OR and its true you easily get lost trying to find the right room etc. but still a dumb reason) and she actually agreed. After that I told her to simply ghost them and dont speak a single word to them anymore and she agreed enthusiastically. I dont view any of these men as a threat though.
Unfortunately she's also too shy to game the girl for me. I think they met only once through a mutual gay guy friend, and even the mutual friend shes not very close to atm.
RiskyEntertainment 1w ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3LVBtmeylao&t=3482
Girls talk, all she needs to do is to praise you and say how dominant you are and that you are so experienced and she herself is so shy..
Notice she was not explicit about anything. Just chick talk.
When asked what most freaky stuff you both did she just need to say, she is not allowed to talk about it.
It'll send a hamster spinning.
Thats all she needs to do, then its your turn.
It would be loads better if she insinuate you both had 3sum as that will condition her own brain into thinking what will happen, and will ensure the other girl there will be no awkward situation from your girl.
There is one thing your gf shouldn't do. Be extremly in love possessive lovey dovey judgmental.