Long story short this girl I been dating for a few years is cool. submissive, buys me stuff, cooks, blah blah- she has her own issues that reveal she's pretty broken anyway (daddy issues, not used to "good men" etc) so I just play the relationship day by day. She is madly in love with me, I dont care about having her forever or marrying her.Any time she says she loves me I just say "I know". I only tell her I love her when we fuck every now and then and she loves it. im pretty reserved emotionally

We were chilling outside and she stars discussing getting a new apartment. we're both smoking some weed and the vibe is cool. Then she says "I was about to say something but I didnt want you to get mad". I tell her spit it out and she says "I was gonna say 'I'll be texting you AND other guys when I get my new apartment'". Now upon hearing this, I didnt say anything or make a face, I really was just like "thats how it be". But in my head im utterly confused. What causes women to say these retarded ass statements? its more funny than upsetting to me, cause its like she's digging her own grave. Anyway, she goes on to say she just likes to get a rise out of me, cause im so "nonchalant" but I've been cheated on before and have heard enough "jokes" and given enough benefit of the doubt with women. So as soon as I heard that I mentally checked out and started thinking bout spinning plates again. I already didnt want a relationship nor do I put much stock in them. I dont appreciate jokes like that coming from women cause at the end of the day, these hoes be for real. Saying that under the guise of trying to get a rise out of me is retarded but I dont expect her to be logical. it'll just get her tossed to the side. Anyways she's just started a new big girl job working in a hospital (I know) so I dont feel like playing it safe and giving her that benefit of the doubt. rather be done with it all

Let me know what yall think. I've already started to open my options some more. Im beginning to think this chick is really just too far gone, as smart as she is. I dont care to be tested in that way, especially not after being with her for 3 years. My solution is to just keep fucking, getting free food, blah blah. she's starting to gain weight anyway (still looks good but all her family is fat so I dee that in her future) so it may be time to sell low. Im going to branch out my options and keep raking in the benefits, but I'd like some more input just to further solidify my mind with good information