I’ve been having sex but I can’t get past the sex phase to plating a girl, or get from 1st to second date.
I’ve been meeting a ton of women through dating apps, a lot of these were preemptive since I hadnt fully moved to a new city. I’m not against approaching I just have been extremely busy with other life obligations so this was the best option in the interim until I got settled.
Most of these never reach the second date. Tbh im not sure what im doing, im not awkward I have a pretty cool life stories to share I let the girl talk.
To be fair most of these dates do go well it seems more something from the first to the second date im fucking up.
The first two I went on I think I fucked up because I mentioned that I was quitting my job and both seemed to have a negative reaction even though I had talked to about it before with one and she seemed to be suprised when i mentioned it
Once I stopped mentioning this the dates got better. I kissed closed one, had sex with two. The other girl fizzled out but tbh I had no desire to do anything with so I was fine with that.
I texted the kiss close asking what she was doing and she responded “hopefully hanging out with you” then deleted it lol but i saw and playfully joked. Then a couple days later she just went dead, responded she was busy with no alternative then stopped answering.
Of two I had sex with one I don’t want to see again, the other is barely responding, again giving wishy answers no alternative dates for plans.
I started approaching irl and plan on joining a couple clubs kind of sick of the online thing even though im getting a lot of matches. I approached a couple girls today at the grocery store and coffee shop.
Edit: oh I forgot to mention im getting a ton of numbers through the apps but most don’t even respond. I wait a couple days sometimes a week usually because I forget and am busy with work, any advice on this?
Red_dead Should i (x1) 17h ago Stickied
In terms of what I think I did wrong the first two girls im pretty sure it was the job thing.
Kiss close I matched with her two friends so maybe she found out, she seemed to have really high interest.
Third girl idk whats up with her we had sex on the first date, def wasn’t bad mutiple girls have told me im good in bed and I have a nice body. She was screaming at one point I had to tell her to shutup to not wake up my roomate. Just confused. Barely responds. Maybe thinks i want a ltr .
I also only text for logistics but I think my texting is retarted tbh. Idk if I come off as needy Im a boring texter until ik someone.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 15h ago
You don't really describe much at all how these dates go or what the sex is like. Those are the most important parts of getting girls invested
No-Stress-Cat 15h ago
Sorry, Fuckboy. You're getting used. You're nothing but a hot dick to hop on for a round, and then they're done. Life is just so unfair for us Mega-Chads.
Shout out to my Mega-Chad homeboys out there who also have to suffer with pussy falling out of the sky.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 14h ago
I fucked a tinder girl once, she asked me if i wanted to hang out even through earlier that morning all I said was something unrelated
When walked through the door she immediately started making me food and offered me whiskey and then got her face in mine and wanted to go to the store for condoms
She never saw me again despite c00ming twice and fucking for 3 hours. Feels bad man, I got used
MrSupreme 14h ago
If you met her on a dating app,expect one night stands and women looking for free dinner. They're not the same person with guys they met on the apps.