Okay. I am very tired of (and I probably speak for others too but I digress) seeing guys on here in an excess of a year or so with seemingly no progress.
THEN when enough people tear down their ego on a post, you get flagrant admission gems such as this one: https://www.trp.red/feed/status/219587
I mean i've had girls flirting with me before i just don't know what to do from there
Guys. This is literally a fucking sexual strategy site. There is absolutely no fucking excuse to have the vast library of knowledge here and type the above shit.
I am adding a new rule to AskTRP, because too many of you damn mofos are abusing this space for shower thoughts and mental masturbation instead of learning jack shit, most of which, you could have found typing regarding the same topic words into the search bar.
But no, you can't or won't (spoiler altert: it's won't, not can't).
I'm sick of seeing shit like this posted in this forum, usually followed up at some point by some admission some of you guys actually never read the sidebar despite suggesting you have.
So from this day forward, there is going to be a new rule in AskTRP, or you lose your AskTRP privileges (indefinitely or permanently I don't really give a fuck anymore):
All users in AskTRP must show clear and identifiable growth from one post to the next (either in one's results, understanding of the material, and/or ability to think for oneself). Any users demonstrating a clear lack of growth and overthinking instead of tangible results or action-oriented personal development will be told to post elsewhere.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago Stickied
Yes, that means I will be making a new flair of shame for people close to being banned for wasting time.
I will also be updating all the newer AskTRP rules on the sticky since several have been added over the past year, including:
• 3-strike system for "should i?" questions
• All posters must answer their own question in posts
• Users must show progress between posts.
Additionally, this isn't an official rule yet, but at the moderator discretion level I have been requiring askholes to post field reports for their next 3 posts if they have asked too many mental masturbation questions in a row with no actual growth. I will find a way to integrate that into a rule because too many mofos on here ask and ask all day everyday but rarely post what they're actually doing because they won't stop being a computer toucher
Post locking is also coming soon, so I might just outright lock posts that ask mental masturbation shit that could have easily been searchbar'd instead and/or list those against the rules too while sticking a mod comment pointing out how easy the answer could have been found somewhere in a search
joyboy 1mo ago
Dude I have made plenty of progress idk why your calling me out like that. You probably don't remember but at one point i quit my job and went back to just rotting inside my house with no gym or anything for a while. Since then I got a way higher paying job, back in the gym lifting consistently, and made a bit of progress on the social side of things as well which i recognize still needs more work
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago
All that stuff is great, but you haven't learned how to think for yourself or even how to converse with strangers.
When's the last time you struck up a conversation with a stranger from whom you had nothing to gain, just for the hell of it?
When's the last time you solved a problem on your own, maybe with a little research and reading, without asking internet strangers to hold your hand?
When's the last time you tried to kiss a woman?
joyboy 1mo ago
I do that almost every day. I’ve made acquaintances that way, gotten phone numbers of random guys saying we should totally hang out or do something just to ghost.
Couple days ago our furnace stopped working so I read/watched tutorials on how to fix it and ordered the part we needed and replaced it
Almost a year
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago
1st answer: good. Keep at it and calibrate.
2nd answer: awesome!
3rd answer: work on that.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
I had the courtesy to leave you out of the screenshot but you call yourself out.
It's not about you making progress in other areas, it's the fact that on a sexual strategy forum, you cannot figure out what to do to get laid after a year, despite immesurable resources available to you and 30+ posts you've asked here.
Edit: bottom line, you have countless resources on here to get laid, misusing AskTRP should rank very low in that list.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
@joyboy And think twice before complaining in response to this reply.
It would be far less work for me to moderate this forum without your participation here, since you are arguing rather than accepting your hand in this, so don't push it and own your shit ffs
I would gladly remove every person doing this from AskTRP so don't push it
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago
lol you sound like me
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Lmfao
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Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago
The other day a woman said "hey there handsome" after we made eye contact.
Is this a shit test?
Satire aside, this is a good addition.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
I'm not sure, I'm sure if you post 10 more questions you'll figure it out.
Yup. I've probably ended up site banning 80% of the guys who have done nothing but ask questions with no growth (typically because they go nuclear when called out enough), another 10% i banned from AskTRP and they disappeared completely (no shock). There's a smaller segment that just stops posting randomly.
It's a pipeline that doesn't need to go past a year, much less month. You can always tell who it's going to be and they never really change much. I don't care if people clog the hub with it, that's their prerogative, but I have a forum to maintain and user's whose advice, time, and consideration is too great to be whittled down by askholes
Overkill_Engine Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago
And don't forget to neurotically obsess over every single inconsequential detail so as to dwell perpetually in analysis paralysis instead of just shooting your fucking shot and simply moving on if it's a miss, (and thus completely wasting everyone's time), or it doesn't count!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
I've been doing this already, but I'm not seeing any results, do I need to think about it even harder? Maybe I'm not thinking about it enough.
Man it's hard, I'm only allowed to make one post on here a day, I have my alarm clock set to submit one of my many drafts every day, that verm mod is stopping me from hitting 100 posts, it will take more than 3 months at this rate to get triple digit questions to sufficiently understand the material here