This post is not a humble brag, I genuinely need help. I started seeing a new plate. She and I started to get intimate, but she cannot handle my size and is generally sensitive. Even going inside her hurts her. But once I do get it in, I move slowly to open her up, but I still can't go in all the way. Usually, I just have to go in 1/4 of the way and stimulate her clit so she cums. I can't do any positions that give her those squirting vaginal orgasms I'm used to giving. Even if I want to eat her out, I can't finger her because it hurts her...
I'm starting to like this girl and see her as LTR potential, but the sexual incompatibility is hindering me connecting deeper. Any ideas on how to make sex more enjoyable for the both of us?
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master-of-losers 2mo ago
Did you recently take her virginity? Both virgins I dated were like this at first, but after a few months of gradually doing more and more, first pinky, then middle finger, then thumb, then dick, I was able to fuck them properly.
Musicgoon78 2 2mo ago
This is more than likely your problem:
Vaginismus is a condition in which involuntary muscle spasm interferes with vaginal intercourse or other penetration of the vagina. This often results in pain with attempts at sex. Often it begins when vaginal intercourse is first attempted. Vaginismus may be considered an older term for pelvic floor dysfunction.
No-Stress-Cat 2mo ago
This here. I had a girl that had this issue. She needed corrective surgery to get everything lined up properly.
mattyanon Admin 2mo ago
Because you're too small? Oh wait, let me read on.....
Lots of lube, or oral.
First-light 2mo ago
This might be a medical issue and its worth getting it checked out. If your finger hurts her, when she is warmed up, it sounds like she has some extra sensitivity in that area and there are quite a number of possibles. I would suggest she sees a doctor. It might be remediable.
ChadifiedAsian 2mo ago
Thanks man, thought maybe I was doing something wrong. I can open this conversation up next time I see her.
MrSupreme 2mo ago
Vaginitis is a thing,get yourself checked for STDs. Don't see her as potential LTR if the sex is gonna be difficult and unpleasant.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2mo ago
Please use the search function guys. There are plenty of posts already about this. There is no reason to not find similar posts