Picture this: you’ve been seeing a girl for about a year, she’s 20, she checks most the boxes to be a LTR, except one big one; she says her body count is 8. Assuming she’s lying or leaving a few out. Would you keep her as an LTR or plate her? For me for an LTR 5 is about as high as I’d want considering all the studies on how body count affects pair bonding & divorce rates. I’d prob plate her. Just curious what your opinions are?
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Kloi 1y ago
Man, maybe I just have a thing for hos but you know how hard it is to find an actual woman who doesn't have 8 by the end of high-school?
Assuming she started getting sexualy active around 16, thats two a year and more likely it was one or two LTRs then a ho phase after the break up.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
They exist in very small quantities. VERY SMALL
Hugo_The_Great 1y ago
Please I'm not from some religious hell-hole, just reg white kid from upper class neighborhood & in my highschool, only a handful of girls max had that bodycount at age 18.
It's a different story after they've been to college for a few years.
Still, it really depends on the girl. Some have been raised properly. Others just have innate understanding that hook-up culture is degenerate and will bring them no pleasure, just heartbreak.
Others went from LTR to LTR.
And then there are girls who were taking a new guy home every week, but that's also a minority in my experience.
The avg girl probably had a handful ONS, couple STR/FWB type of thing, and one or a few LTRs. I'd say 10 BC by 25 is median.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Some food for thought:
1) focus on her behavior and how she treats you. Has she earned an exclusive relationship?
2) as long as you don't marry her or live together, leaving is easy should things go sideways.
3) when you ask women questions like these, you usually end up selecting for the ones who are best at lying to you.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
8 at 20. Think about it
unodostres7 1y ago
Oh I have. Trust me. Just need some reassurance. That’s just the # she said so you know it’s probably higher.
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unodostres7 1y ago
What I thought
First-light 2 1y ago
8 by 20 is too late to be able to bond properly and too early to be a reformed character (not that there are ever many of those).
unodostres7 1y ago
I agree her ability to pair bond is probably FRIED.
redhawkes 2 1y ago
It's more than 8 bro. Always x3 that shit.
https://archive.is/zTsbm
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Honestly I don't do exclusive, so it doesn't matter as much to me as it does to you.
Divorce rate won't affect you if you don't marry her.
Wintergreen 1y ago
Divorce rate implies that even a lifelong LTR wouldn’t work.
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
Boom! Dropped the knowledge bomb right there!
derdeutscher 1y ago
What makes you guys dig her past? I never asked women about her notch count. What good can come out of it?
To me it screams insecurity. And to her as well.
Dont dig the past.
unodostres7 1y ago
Dickhead idc about a woman’s past if it’s a ONS or a plate. But if it’s a girl I’m considering an LTR with it absolutely matters and if it doesn’t to you then you’re just a fool.
throwaway415 1 1y ago
Body count affects a woman's ability to pair bond and makes her less suitable as an LTR
derdeutscher 1y ago
This is crooked theory. It might be true, also might be not. I have met women with high body count which were in a good state, and women with low count who were emotional wreck.
Besides many guys have to get of their high horse and pretend they are perfect.
Work the women, not the studies and papers!
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
The idea is that it’s a long term predictor. Having had flings/short term relationships with high body count women doesnt give your anecdotal experience much credence. Meanwhile, the data on this seems clear.
Having said that, i agree that the best way to navigate this issue with women, is not to ask their body count directly, but to judge based on their actions, and not to take things for granted even if you do learn the number.
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
I agree with this. If you go looking for problems. You'll find them.
I pay attention to personal traits and how a girl treats me.
throwaway415 1 1y ago
I think that if properly controlled scientific research shows that something causes an increased risk of something else, it's not a "crooked theory" but is an observable fact