I’m unfortunately having thoughts about reaching out to my ex tonight since it’s new year. Part of me is like don’t regret anything reach out before new year if nothing happens you’ll know you tried before leaving her in 2024. We date 1.5 years broke up in November. What are some words of wisdom, advice, you have. Would you do it? Should you not? Why yes why not? Help a brother out!
& just for reference late 20’s I’ve been RP for the past 6 years not new & I’m not some incel this is coming from what you would refer to as a “chad” I’ve got the four “6’s” and model looks, been with just under 100 women. 0 trouble getting women they hit me up most the time to begin with.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
You aren't RP if you're asking this retarded question.
You fucking know better yet you're thinking about it.
unodostres7 1y ago
I am RP. Ig it's just human nature to have the feeling. That's why I posted here to get a personal kinda metaphorical slap in the face.
throwaway415 1 1y ago
It is human nature to have the feeling, but it's weak to succumb to that feeling and act on it. Have some dignity
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Whatever you say.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
This post reeks of bullshit.
A) if you had abundance, you wouldn't be hung up on this one chick.
B) you've been Red Pilled for that long, and never read Rollo's Rooting Through Garbage?
unodostres7 1y ago
Nothing bs about it son don't believe me PM me I'll shoot you my insta. And yes Rollo says times better spent building a new connection than trying an ex. Ig its just human nature to have these thoughts.
pofkaf 1 1y ago
Just based on this post I can tell you're full of shit. If you supposedly have banged 100 women, and women message you, then why would you be stuck on one girl?
One of Rollo's rules is that it's better to develop new prospects than dig through the trash.
So no, leave her be.
unodostres7 1y ago
like I told the other dude nothing bs about it don't believe me pm me ill send u my insta. She just checked so many boxes it's hard find I'm particular & picky as hell when it comes to Ltr's.
MrSupreme 1y ago
Really,been with over 100 girls and you make a TRP "should i" post about an ex? Fuck that and bang a tinder girl ffs
unodostres7 1y ago
hinge & bumble is where its at.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
You can't go back.
The girl isn't the same, the relationship would not be the same.
So why bother with this one girl ?
unodostres7 1y ago
bc to me ONS don't fulfill me and sex is better in a LTR imo. I'm very picky with ltr's though she checked so many boxes besides like 1 or 2 I know. I mean probably 2-5% of the female population qualifies. so it's rare to find one that quality.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
If you've been with 100 women, and 2-5% of the female population have what you want, you are either not reaching high enough or you're passing up on girls who qualify.
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
The Larp alarm is going off. Don't come at us with this bullshit!
I stopped counting how many women I've been with after a while. I don't give a shit. I also have been in this community for over a decade. I know damn good and well that a calibrated guy wouldn't ask a question like this.
unodostres7 1y ago
It's human nature ig to have the feeling of trying again. I'm very picky with ltr's though she checked so many boxes besides like 1 or 2 I know. I mean probably 2-5% of the female population qualifies. so it's rare to find one of that quality.
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
No one believes you and no one cares about your oneitis. You got your answers now go do whatever bad idea you want to do.
unodostres7 1y ago
Give af if you believe me or not. I’ll send you my ig and you’d wish you were built like me and wish you looked half as good as I do. I guarantee that boy. And I keep count of mine and always will. Idgaf if u lost count after 10.
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
Cool story bro.
First-light 2 1y ago
If you want to do it, do it. The relationship won't get any more lost if you get it wrong. Happy new year! is not a hard thing to say and leave it there. If she replies, she replies.