In just the last day alone it's come to my attention a lot you guys haven't even red the sidebar at all
You shouldn't be posting on AskTRP whatsoever if you haven't read the sidebar yet. Every commenter here is commenting here under the assumption you've read it.
You are wasting everyone's time (and your own) if you haven't read it. The sidebar is the equivalent of the periodic table of elements in a chemistry forum. You need to read it
This isn't a stopgap dating advice sub for just run of the mill questions just because. Every time you post here people are assuming you're asking for the RP take on your situation. If you don't understand RP you are not getting what the forum is for.