So yeah, as the title says, I have no one to call.
This may seem like a black pill post, but it isn't, I just want to improve myself.
I get massive urges every night and I don't even have an ugly chick to call up on.
I get compliments about my looks and all, but aside from that I rarely now get dates, in the past I was having some, now none.
Aside from the gym and all looksmaxxing I do I don't know what to do anymore.
Even if I find a girl we text and it ends right before she flakes to go out. And I don:t tolerate that, ask 2 times then I ghost or remove her.
And all my friends had more plates than I had ever before.
What's the shortest way to find someone or an advice which would drastically help me.
First-light 6mo ago
One way of coming at this is like a fault tester with an electrical circuit. Something is missing here or your dick would be wet. Lets test the different components objectively until we find the fault. This means consciously working on one area or another while trying it with potential girls until you find the fault. It is quite a bit of work, so I would start with whatever your friends consider is your weakest area. Just ask you male friends when you are together to tell you what they think is your weakest area. They may sugar coat it a bit for you but they will also want to touch on the truth.
You could elaborate a bit on "We text and it ends when she flakes" How many times have you met these girls, how did you find them. Men can spend a lot of time chasing the wrong girls to start. When you are a hot guy with great game (like a lot of the guys who do self help videos for guys) this doesn't matter too much because you chase 10 girls and one lets you catch her briefly but if you are evidently not top 10 or 20%, you could try approaching 100 girls and get nowhere because you didn't think about who you would be a good fit for, who is available, who is gong to see you as high enough value, you just thought "has pussy, will ask"
To get specific answers, I would post more of your experiences and people can help you specifically but to start with try to look at the components of the game and your target selection.
SSBPikkon Can't think for myself 6mo ago
I'm reading whole sidebar then pook then rollo to see if I have any success, if not, I'll post more of my experiences after and before I read these.
SSBPikkon Can't think for myself 6mo ago
My current friends aren't at all RP and don't give good advices, contrary to those on RP, they've had luck or they were just the girls type IG.
Had 1 friend which knew the game, but in all honesty, he was just telling me his gameplan which didn't work for me, neither did mine for him.
We just agreed on many things so we had similar plans, but not similar results.
First-light 6mo ago
Good point. Different men are different instruments and you have to play them differently.
For this reason I think you will do well to read widely as you suggest. However, don't treat any one of these guys as a guru or the sidebar as being the words of a sacred text. These guys were pioneers. They made a leap forward in thought for modern men (pretty much by rediscovering ancient truths and fitting them to the modern world but I think it helps to think of them like the guys who made the first modern guns. The smith and Wesson 0.44 Russian was a great revolver (first time the bullet was internally lubricated) but the catch at the top was too weak for the calibre, the colt army 0.45 is an iconic handgun and stronger but it is side loading and you might even need the extraction rod. The Winchester underlever carbine is a light repeating rifle with a magazine -totally revolutionary but couldn't hold a candle to an AR15. I would personally look at the sidebar like this -inspirational but thought also evolves and improves a little. Don't stick to it like a sacred text.
SSBPikkon Can't think for myself 6mo ago
Yeah I know, I'll read it all just to be informed, but if it doesn't help me as much as I need it to, I'll need to improve myself with other methods of learning.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 6mo ago
Did you read the sidebar, Pook, Rollo?
Are you a simp? Do you have any game? Are you drunk/high and depressed?
I highly doubt it. I've seen you guys say looksmaxxed and post your pics before and it's a joke. Anyone seriously using the word "looksmaxxed is in fact far from it
The fact you're even typing that word in a red pill post and using a black pill word "looksmaxxed" says it all. Stop consuming black pill content entirely, it's retarded
Bro your post has like no actionable details what are you expecting here? You've given us almost zero underlying symptoms to diagnose
If you're getting ghosted before the date your social skills and game suck. And i highly doubt you're looksmaxxed. No way. And even if you were, your game is not good
SSBPikkon Can't think for myself 6mo ago
I started reading those two, before I read no more mr. nice guy, now I'm starting these 2. It could be that my game sucks, fhe problem is if I go into too much detail on here people wont read, it's sad but I don't have anyone irl with rp mind or without to coach me when I approach someone talk to someone so they can correct me and give me an advice.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 6mo ago
Well if you post 7 pages of text no one will read it. If you type 4-5 paragraphs they will.
You're going to get zero answers with the details (or lack thereof) that you provided here
Vermillion-Rx Admin 6mo ago
Did you read the sidebar?
SSBPikkon Can't think for myself 6mo ago
do you mean everything on reddit sidebar or sidebar here? Idk which one to read.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 6mo ago
They're the same thing
THE SIDEBAR
SSBPikkon Can't think for myself 6mo ago
does it matter in which order I read the pook, rollo or a sidebar?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 6mo ago
Sidebar. Sidebar is literally step 1 reading here
Pook then rollo
MrSupreme 6mo ago
So you're getting no bitches huh.
Reading the sidebar is great but you gotta put in the work. Go to a club,approach hotties in the street, update your online dating profiles, chat,get numbers etc, do something about it.
And also,post here your field reports with plenty of details. Emphasis on the details part, a lot of guys here will gladly help you out.
SSBPikkon Can't think for myself 6mo ago
Yeah, could do that, but also I have some not so important details, for example why this chick removed me on snap, why this girl did this to me on the street. You mean those kinds of reports?
AbusiveFather1 6mo ago
if you're going to say that this chick removed you on snap you also have to tell us everything that you did leading up to that
MrSupreme 6mo ago
Sure, go out,have fun meeting girls and approaching them, then after a couple weeks just write what happens,if you got rejected,if they show attraction or whatever
Musicgoon78 2 6mo ago
Looksmaxxing is an incel tell. It shows that you've been reading pure bullshit from other idiots that have no social skills. Try talking to people and online dating for a start.
We have no idea what work you've done or anything you tried, so this is a worthless conversation.
coolsocks00 1 6mo ago
Do stuff, so you dont have to text women who arent already into you. Game women irl